Second marriage to English man.

[ashp 0]

I agree!! No one outside of ur relationship with ur girl should make judgements. I married a wonderful man, but we had so many differences we couldnt make it work. My fiance i have now, I met before my marriage broke up. He had absolutely nothing to do with my break up . To the outside world it may look that way. NO one could see behind the walls of our home. The pain that I was going thru or The fact that I worked so hard to keep my marriage together.. going to counselors, etc. Finally I realized it was hopeless and I moved on. My husband will be first to say, he was to blame, he defends my relationship with my fiance to anyone who critizes. I dont ask for anyone to approve of my decisions.. but i do ask that others dont judge my situation. NO one has the right to do that but the parties involved. Appearences are not always what they seem.

There was nothing mentioned at our interview about the fact that i knew my fiance two years before my marriage broke up. So I dont think it will be a problem as long as both of you are free to marry at time of the petition.

Good Luck!

vicki/bala

Vicki, sorry to hear about the breakup of your first marriage - it's difficult when you finally have to decide that it won't work. My future wife stuck in there for much longer than she should have trying to make things work, they talked about children together, whatever it took to repair the fact that it just didn't work.

The whole situation sounds worse than it is, but like you said, sometimes a marriage just doesn't work out, especially when the person you marry acts differently than they did before - it's like false advertising!

Thanks for the advice everyone, it seems it won't be a problem long term. I know he can stay in the country if he wants to try, but I don't think he would, there's the potential of a job back home and nothing if he stays in the country.

[Kajikit 65]

Everyone has given you good advice... your fiance won't be able to apply for your visa until she is fully and completely divorced from her previous husband. And it doesn't matter which country he is living in, you still have to acknowledge that she sponsored him on the application. You should expect to be asked awkward questions when it comes to your eventual interview too, like why you think that your marriage will be more successful than her first one etc.

[Peter Miami 0]

Wow, who is next?

[PorknBeanz 0]

Under the new law going into effect on March 6, two K1's is all they allow every 10 years. So the lady won't be able to get another Englishman, unless she gets special permission from Big Brother. Also if there is a third alien, the embassy will step in and tell #3 the details on the demise of #1 and #2.

This is a difficult situation for the three of you and I wish all of you the best.