"Chinese Women, Please Don't Sleep with Foreigners"

[justashooter 430]

http://www.chinasmack.com/2010/stories/chinese-women-please-do-not-sleep-with-foreigners.html

"The French girl laughed: “What’s up with you Chinese girls?” She was laughing because we had just been talking about this topic over lunch. Actually I’ve seen and heard it many times before; the story of this kind of foreign guy and Chinese girl. I haven’t paid much attention but this pair before me were in a class of their own. This sweet Chinese flower and this old, ugly, fat, short, bald, shriveled foreign guy, and their little baby in its pram.

My French friend was doubled over in laughter (I don’t know why she was laughing like that). At that moment, as a Chinese person, my self-respect was deeply deeply hurt.

A few days later I decided to do three things. First, to let everyone know the ugly truth about foreign men. Second, to call to action all Chinese, so that we can make our women see that the world doesn’t revolve around foreign men. Last but not least, I have decided that to become a scholar, I will have to temporarily give up my day job. This will allow me to focus on my research. The topic? Chinese men in the eyes of foreign women. This way I’ll be able to give Chinese men who are looking for foreign women a helping hand.

My colleague and I made our first stop by seeking out those white women who live in China but have never had a Chinese boyfriend. We hoped to find out the reason for this. We also sought out those who had had Chinese boyfriends, or were married to Chinese men. They helped us with the good and bad points of Chinese men. I know that these kinds of laowai are few and far between, but luckily I know a few.

We also got these expat white female laowai to fill out a broad questionnaire. Through this scientific analysis led us to a picture of the Chinese male, and illustrated their top five Chinese men. We asked them to answer these questions:

Are foreign women interested in Chinese men? How do single laowai women want Chinese men to treat them? How can Chinese men make themselves more attractive to foreign women? Which Chinese men do foreign women like the most? What kind of foreign woman likes Chinese men? How should one approach a foreign woman in a public place? When did China become a paradise for foreign men?

John is one such an example. Not long ago, I ran into him on the street. He was holding hands with a Chinese girl a half a head taller than him. He said that his Chinese girlfriend worked for a modeling agency. Actually if John hadn’t called out to me I wouldn’t have recognised him, he looked completely different to how he looked the last time I saw him."

[TBoneTX 45,267]

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[X Factor 1,112]

Very interesting article.

[SMR 368]

Is the author a Chinese man or Chinese woman? There seem to be parts of the article that point to both.

[X Factor 1,112]

Is the author a Chinese man or Chinese woman? There seem to be parts of the article that point to both.

He might be a girly man

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

So basically the bar for expectations from sex is pretty low for Chinese women and it's not too hard to exceed them? I see....

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

So basically the bar for expectations from sex is pretty low for Chinese women and it's not too hard to exceed them? I see....

This seems to be a recurring theme on VJ these days -- accidentally (?) stating that women of certain nationalities have low expectations whilst trying to laud them as being the creme de la creme who would only accept the manliest of American men.

[spookyturtle 9,465]

This seems to be a recurring theme on VJ these days -- accidentally (?) stating that women of certain nationalities have low expectations whilst trying to laud them as being the creme de la creme who would only accept the manliest of American men.

Excellent!

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

A well written story by an obviously sexually deprived female specimen, no doubt, whose only real love left her for a foreigner.

Can't her affliction be treated with therapy?

That been said, there is a sliver of truth to international dating. I will say no more as I have a resolution not to get any censorship from The Lead Mod for at least 24 hours

[OnMyWayID 1,489]

I am a bit confused why this would happen in China.. They now have a generation of one child per family which has resulted in a heavy balance of men to women so the women should really be running the show. I remember a national geographic special not long ago where they were floating down a river and commenting on the very large homes along the banks.. The guide on the boat explained that these were families looking for brides for their sons and that the competition was fierce.. The families were trying to demonstrate their wealth.

That makes sense. With the money China I would expect Chinese men to be looking at other nearby Asian countries, not for the women to be looking outward, they have more than enough choice at home.

Edited September 28, 2012 by OnMyWayID

[Janelle2002 3,865]

Maybe you should go to Africa where Chinese men are marrying African women by big numbers.

Question. Why did you just limit yourself to just asking white women alone? They are not the only race of women living in China. You may be able to get better results if you broaden your search