Who DIDN'T meet online??

[1HappyGuy 45]

Gary and Alla,

Your sense of family is strong and to some, I'm sure, quite admirable. What I fail to see is how any of what you say makes you, Alla, her children (because we really don't hear about your sons anymore) or your relationship any more special than any other couple at VJ. These qualities are not exclusive to the RUB culture, nor RUB woman, regardless of how loud or often you proclaim. I would make a bet that most couples, who live together, actually have sex. Shocker! I would even go out on a limb and say some of those couples even sleep naked next to their spouse who they adore and find attractive.

Your ease and willingness to discuss your wife's sexual proclivities is offensive at best, but downright exploitative on a public forum. In the end, you actually tarnish this relationship you hold so dear and in such high regard. Clearly, your desperate need for approval compels you to share some of the most private and intimate details of your life on here. You may not have noticed, but you are the only poster among hundreds who does this. I'm sure your anecdotes thrill the Schlubs™ to no end, but it leaves you sitting there in a less than flattering light as you choose to put everyone else down in the process.

A man who truly loved his wife would certainly not sully her image by reducing her to nothing more than a willing cumdumpster on a public forum. You're a stranger, amongst strangers, with a God complex who needs to learn a bit of decorum and kindly stfu.

I don't believe that Gary or anyone for that matter has brought their level of language to the gutter like you have. Based upon your lack of information on your profile and no timeline I would classify you as a toad, just looking to goad someone on. If you don't like what you see here in the RUB, you are more than welcome to move on.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Yes, Gary. I laugh about it as well.

And what is your name? what is your other anonymous name on VJ? Gary is my name, Alla is my wife. Those are our real names. How many posts do you have? How many comments from members thanking you for your help? Your name is? Your wife's name is? How many children have you helped immigrate, educate, socialize, mentor and support?

Seriously you think I give a rat's @ss what an anonymous internet coward alledgedly laughs at?

Now if you drop down a few forums you can comment on Honey Crumpets thread about the morality of sexual intercourse before marriage. Check out the other thread in this forum for Amby's (AKA "I care about the #######") review of which foreign men are best in bed. I am sure you will castigate them with your morals also, right?

This is like talking to a flea. I'm done. But the best part is, you cannot be "personally attacked" since there is no person.

[Rebecca Jo 1,962]

There are some of us around, but I don't know any place where this is consolidated (though most in the AOS -other forum met in person). I was also surprised how many met online, and how old so many were.

I'm trying to figure out what that means.

[VJ Supersleuth 100]

I don't believe that Gary or anyone for that matter has brought their level of language to the gutter like you have.

1HappyGuy,

I, respectfully, beg to differ.

Alla does not snore, chew with her mouth open or spill sperm on her vulva, she is cultured.

Anyway, it is their duty and pleasure as women to keep our stomachs full and testicles empty.

[Rebecca Jo 1,962]

Holy silliness, Batman.

Gary loves Alla and Alla loves Gary. They met in Prague quite by accident and yes that moment changed everything.

I love Wesley and he loves me. We met online and quite by accident and yes that moment changed everything also.

I bet VJ Supersleuth has someone special also and their story is miraculous as well.

Can't we just all be happy for ourselves and for each other? That we have good strong marriages with fairy tale beginnings.

1HappyGuy,

I, respectfully, beg to differ.

Likewise we could do without a lot of the minutia we read about people's daily lives online. Until people tire of reading it, people won't tire of posting it.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

1HappyGuy,

I, respectfully, beg to differ.

Vulva and testicles are medical terms. What is "cumdumpster?"

Alla made that direct statement to our son's fiancee about stomach and testicles. So what? She is right. As I said, she is direct and to the point and has no hang ups about sex.

someone sure seems interested in my past posts. No life, no wife.

[1HappyGuy 45]

I, respectfully, beg to differ.

[ONA 133]

Okay, So I found Visa Journey at the very beginning of this whole K1 process in April when I filed, and it has been very interesting to read people's stories. However, it JUST occurred to me last week that MOST of the people on Visa Journey met online! Now, I have no problem with this, but it did also occur to me that those of us who didn't meet online are probably NOT on Visa Journey! The nature of the beast of meeting online means you will continue to post and participate on some sort of forum. So, I wonder, especially for the RUB people, who met in person? Particularly, who met in the states? My fiance was on an F1 Visa for a few years before I met him. We were engaged within 6 months. I called things off for a few months and he finished school and went home. NOW, I'm waiting through this HORRIBLY LONG AND EXCRUCIATINGLY PAINFUL WAITING PERIOD OF OVER 6 MONTHS!!!! <sigh> I apologize for the melo-dramatic outburst, but this is just DANG hard! We were in the same town for soo long before all this. Then he had to leave and I had NO clue it would be this long. I especially didn't realize how bitter I would be that others who applied AFTER me would get approval so fast! I have a sense of injustice, and even though I GUESS I'm happy they get to be together, I really am NOT happy! I want MY ZHENYA here again! Yeah, I probably should have just married him when we he was on his F1, but we were not ready.

Any thoughts? Is waiting as hard when you never had the luxury of living 10 minutes away from each other and getting so used to being in the same place?

I met my husband offline and in the US. We dated for 3 years (we were lucky to be able to visit each other), then we got married. I wanted to graduate from the university before getting married, so we had to wait. It was hard, but it was totally worth it.

It will be over soon, hang in there.

Edited September 29, 2012 by ONA

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

I don't believe that Gary or anyone for that matter has brought their level of language to the gutter like you have. Based upon your lack of information on your profile and no timeline I would classify you as a toad, just looking to goad someone on. If you don't like what you see here in the RUB, you are more than welcome to move on.

That poster you quoted is a sock puppet and troll.

[Brad and Vika 129]

That poster you quoted is a sock puppet and troll.

There are no sock puppets posting in this topic (we checked ). Any member that had a previous or separate account on VJ has closed it.

Now, having gone this far **heavy sigh** I am compelled to say that, as you know, baiting and personal attacks are violations of the TOS. Any further name calling of members or their spouses will result in administrative action.