Do you spoil him?

[Veiled Princess 1]

I get all this mess thrown at me about a slang word I used but no one seems to mind all the personal insults that got slung at me because of it...

I swear sometimes I think I'm in the zoo when I come here.

I couldn't believe I was taking up for you. I'm going to ask for credit, please.

Yes you were and I appreciate it very much.

[jordanianprincess 0]

I get all this mess thrown at me about a slang word I used but no one seems to mind all the personal insults that got slung at me because of it...

I swear sometimes I think I'm in the zoo when I come here.

I couldn't believe I was taking up for you. I'm going to ask for credit, please.

Yes you were and I appreciate it very much.

Are my eyes decieving me or is this SZSZ and VP getting along?

[Jenn! 918]

The enemy of my enemy is my friend?

[Sofiyya 1,687]

All things are possible with Allah.

[Veiled Princess 1]

Are my eyes decieving me or is this SZSZ and VP getting along?

JP I don't hold grudges either... as long as no one attacks me personally I got no problem with anyone on this board.

All things are possible with Allah.

Very true alhamdulilah!

[chri'stina 190]

I thought not long ago VP and JP & Sarah said they were all actually friends....? (Well JP and Sarah do not fight with eachother, I mean with VP)

Either way...I don't act like this with my "friends". I wouldn't be their friend anymore if that's how it was every time I saw them. I'd avoid them. I don't get it.

I don't know how I got dragged into this as I have been in a meeting this whole time. Anyway, I am not the kind of person that holds grudges or stays mad. When Sarah first joined her and I used to fight all the time and now we are friends. VP knows how I feel about her and Sarah knows I am friends with VP.

I don't see why any of this matters anyway. If I disagree with what someone has to say then I will say regardless if we are friends or not. I don't agree with alot of what VP says or her beliefs but I do respect her as a person for having the courage to deal with everyones remarks to her everyday ALL DAY. I like everyone, EVERYONE. There are plenty of people I have disagreed with or got in arguements with that I am friends with.

I also think it's normal to disagree with friends sometimes too. I just think the tone of it all matters. I didn't mean to drag you into this, but Sarah and VP were really going at it, and not in a respectful manner. And I have seen you and VP go at it too, and then cool down and you all said how you were all actually friends. That is fine, and cool actually. But still, maybe I am not used to friends communicating so hostily even when they disagree. I disagree with ppl on here at times, but I think disagreeing is much much different than mudslinging. I know you were not involved in the mudslinging between Sarah and VP that initiated my thought about it, I just was thinking of something you 3 had said not long ago about eachother being friends.

Still, I think the way one disagrees makes a big difference. I would never think Sarah and VP were friends from reading what they had been writing to eachother back and forth in this thread, because it lacked respect towards eachother. *shrugs*

Are my eyes decieving me or is this SZSZ and VP getting along?

JP I don't hold grudges either... as long as no one attacks me personally I got no problem with anyone on this board.

But some of you attack eachother personally very often...

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

Are my eyes decieving me or is this SZSZ and VP getting along?

[Sofiyya 1,687]

The enemy of my enemy is my friend?

60.7 It may be that God will grant love (and friendship) between you and those whom ye (now) hold as enemies. For God has power (over all things); And God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Are my eyes decieving me or is this SZSZ and VP getting along?

JP I don't hold grudges either... as long as no one attacks me personally I got no problem with anyone on this board.

All things are possible with Allah.

Very true alhamdulilah!

I'm glad we have something in common! It's nice to see.

[chri'stina 190]

It would be very nice to see szsz and VP getting along. I'm not saying that ppl who personally attack eachother can't become friends, but I find it hard to believe that ppl consider eachother friends while personally attacking eachother on a message board for all to see.

It is very great when ppl who seem to rub eachother the wrong way end up becoming friends. It's happened to me too on VJ.

[jordanianprincess 0]

I thought not long ago VP and JP & Sarah said they were all actually friends....? (Well JP and Sarah do not fight with eachother, I mean with VP)

Either way...I don't act like this with my "friends". I wouldn't be their friend anymore if that's how it was every time I saw them. I'd avoid them. I don't get it.

I don't know how I got dragged into this as I have been in a meeting this whole time. Anyway, I am not the kind of person that holds grudges or stays mad. When Sarah first joined her and I used to fight all the time and now we are friends. VP knows how I feel about her and Sarah knows I am friends with VP.

I don't see why any of this matters anyway. If I disagree with what someone has to say then I will say regardless if we are friends or not. I don't agree with alot of what VP says or her beliefs but I do respect her as a person for having the courage to deal with everyones remarks to her everyday ALL DAY. I like everyone, EVERYONE. There are plenty of people I have disagreed with or got in arguements with that I am friends with.

I also think it's normal to disagree with friends sometimes too. I just think the tone of it all matters. I didn't mean to drag you into this, but Sarah and VP were really going at it, and not in a respectful manner. And I have seen you and VP go at it too, and then cool down and you all said how you were all actually friends. That is fine, and cool actually. But still, maybe I am not used to friends communicating so hostily even when they disagree. I disagree with ppl on here at times, but I think disagreeing is much much different than mudslinging. I know you were not involved in the mudslinging between Sarah and VP that initiated my thought about it, I just was thinking of something you 3 had said not long ago about eachother being friends.

Still, I think the way one disagrees makes a big difference. I would never think Sarah and VP were friends from reading what they had been writing to eachother back and forth in this thread, because it lacked respect towards eachother. *shrugs*

Are my eyes decieving me or is this SZSZ and VP getting along?

JP I don't hold grudges either... as long as no one attacks me personally I got no problem with anyone on this board. VP can vouch for the fact I am friends with her, she has said some things to me as well that have not been very nice but I don't get mad.

I agree this is not how friends treat each other but I also don't discuss such hot topics with my friends either. When a hot topic is talked about you are gonna have hot responses.

But some of you attack eachother personally very often...

I have never made personal attacks at VP. To be honest I don't even know much about her personal life.

See this is what I don't get, Sarah and VP fight and then I get grouped into it as a mean girl. So because I am friends with Sarah that means I am involved in it all?

[Veiled Princess 1]

I also think it's normal to disagree with friends sometimes too. I just think the tone of it all matters. I didn't mean to drag you into this, but Sarah and VP were really going at it, and not in a respectful manner. And I have seen you and VP go at it too, and then cool down and you all said how you were all actually friends. That is fine, and cool actually. But still, maybe I am not used to friends communicating so hostily even when they disagree. I disagree with ppl on here at times, but I think disagreeing is much much different than mudslinging. I know you were not involved in the mudslinging between Sarah and VP that initiated my thought about it, I just was thinking of something you 3 had said not long ago about eachother being friends.

Still, I think the way one disagrees makes a big difference. I would never think Sarah and VP were friends from reading what they had been writing to eachother back and forth in this thread, because it lacked respect towards eachother. *shrugs*

I don't think I have ever said that Sarah and I are friends. JP and I are and I'm friends/friendly with most people here.

Even if I don't consider someone a friend though doesn't mean I don't like them or hate them... I don't tolerate being attacked though and that's just my personality... call it a defense mechanism from a victim of abuse for too many years.

[sarah and hicham 3]

I don't know why JP got dragged into this either. She wasn't even here! The "guilty by association" mentality is so high school. I don't think we really need people examining who is nice to who and who is friends with who... I think it's clear.

[chri'stina 190]

I thought not long ago VP and JP & Sarah said they were all actually friends....? (Well JP and Sarah do not fight with eachother, I mean with VP)

Either way...I don't act like this with my "friends". I wouldn't be their friend anymore if that's how it was every time I saw them. I'd avoid them. I don't get it.

I don't know how I got dragged into this as I have been in a meeting this whole time. Anyway, I am not the kind of person that holds grudges or stays mad. When Sarah first joined her and I used to fight all the time and now we are friends. VP knows how I feel about her and Sarah knows I am friends with VP.

I don't see why any of this matters anyway. If I disagree with what someone has to say then I will say regardless if we are friends or not. I don't agree with alot of what VP says or her beliefs but I do respect her as a person for having the courage to deal with everyones remarks to her everyday ALL DAY. I like everyone, EVERYONE. There are plenty of people I have disagreed with or got in arguements with that I am friends with.

I also think it's normal to disagree with friends sometimes too. I just think the tone of it all matters. I didn't mean to drag you into this, but Sarah and VP were really going at it, and not in a respectful manner. And I have seen you and VP go at it too, and then cool down and you all said how you were all actually friends. That is fine, and cool actually. But still, maybe I am not used to friends communicating so hostily even when they disagree. I disagree with ppl on here at times, but I think disagreeing is much much different than mudslinging. I know you were not involved in the mudslinging between Sarah and VP that initiated my thought about it, I just was thinking of something you 3 had said not long ago about eachother being friends.

Still, I think the way one disagrees makes a big difference. I would never think Sarah and VP were friends from reading what they had been writing to eachother back and forth in this thread, because it lacked respect towards eachother. *shrugs*

Are my eyes decieving me or is this SZSZ and VP getting along?

JP I don't hold grudges either... as long as no one attacks me personally I got no problem with anyone on this board. VP can vouch for the fact I am friends with her, she has said some things to me as well that have not been very nice but I don't get mad.

I agree this is not how friends treat each other but I also don't discuss such hot topics with my friends either. When a hot topic is talked about you are gonna have hot responses.

But some of you attack eachother personally very often...

I have never made personal attacks at VP. To be honest I don't even know much about her personal life.

See this is what I don't get, Sarah and VP fight and then I get grouped into it as a mean girl. So because I am friends with Sarah that means I am involved in it all?

I was thinking of another thread (don't even remember which one now because there have been so many like it ), where you, Sarah & VP were going at it. And I guess you had said you consider VP a friend after you all cooled down...and I did not recall whether Sarah said that too or not. I thought she did, but I guess not. And you were involved in that conversation that made me wonder why VP and Sarah can't stop arguing with eachother and trying to recall if they said they were actually friends in that conversation as well. Sorry for bringing you into it.

[Veiled Princess 1]

and trying to recall if they said they were actually friends in that conversation as well. Sorry for bringing you into it.