Is your SO practicing his religious beliefs?

[sarah and hicham 3]

regarding the topic. . . . . .

my SO is practicing his beliefs and so am I.

But I have a related question........we are both muslim and as such we don't believe in premarital sex....................what about talking about it in an information like discussion....for example if I wanted to know if he would want me to do such and such and so forth and all that. Anyone??

umm that doesn't sound like an "informational" discussion. That sounds like phonesex.

[Ban Hammer 13,110]

regarding the topic. . . . . .

my SO is practicing his beliefs and so am I.

But I have a related question........we are both muslim and as such we don't believe in premarital sex....................what about talking about it in an information like discussion....for example if I wanted to know if he would want me to do such and such and so forth and all that. Anyone??

ah this should be interesting.

[doodlebug 3]

regarding the topic. . . . . .

my SO is practicing his beliefs and so am I.

But I have a related question........we are both muslim and as such we don't believe in premarital sex....................what about talking about it in an information like discussion....for example if I wanted to know if he would want me to do such and such and so forth and all that. Anyone??

umm that doesn't sound like an "informational" discussion. That sounds like phonesex.

well for the record it hasn't happened but I'm just wondering how the heck I'm gonna know if I'm doing something totally off kilter per his culture (not so much per our religion) on our wedding night if we don't talk about it?

[sarah and hicham 3]

regarding the topic. . . . . .

my SO is practicing his beliefs and so am I.

But I have a related question........we are both muslim and as such we don't believe in premarital sex....................what about talking about it in an information like discussion....for example if I wanted to know if he would want me to do such and such and so forth and all that. Anyone??

umm that doesn't sound like an "informational" discussion. That sounds like phonesex.

well for the record it hasn't happened but I'm just wondering how the heck I'm gonna know if I'm doing something totally off kilter per his culture (not so much per our religion) on our wedding night if we don't talk about it?

mhmm sure ya do! hahaha. Using his culture as an excuse to have phone sex isn't a great one but you don't need to explain that to us... you can do whatever you want to do.

[doodlebug 3]

mhmm sure ya do! hahaha. Using his culture as an excuse to have phone sex isn't a great one but you don't need to explain that to us... you can do whatever you want to do.

hahaha

we actually don't. at times he would bring up how he wants to kiss me and I quickly nip it in the bud. I'm not lying.

[Ban Hammer 13,110]

mhmm sure ya do! hahaha. Using his culture as an excuse to have phone sex isn't a great one but you don't need to explain that to us... you can do whatever you want to do.

hahaha

we actually don't. at times he would bring up how he wants to kiss me and I quickly nip it in the bud. I'm not lying.

is that the extent of what he asks?

[sarah and hicham 3]

mhmm sure ya do! hahaha. Using his culture as an excuse to have phone sex isn't a great one but you don't need to explain that to us... you can do whatever you want to do.

hahaha

we actually don't. at times he would bring up how he wants to kiss me and I quickly nip it in the bud. I'm not lying.

is that the extent of what he asks?

Makes you wonder...

[Veiled Princess 1]

regarding the topic. . . . . .

my SO is practicing his beliefs and so am I.

But I have a related question........we are both muslim and as such we don't believe in premarital sex....................what about talking about it in an information like discussion....for example if I wanted to know if he would want me to do such and such and so forth and all that. Anyone??

well for the record it hasn't happened but I'm just wondering how the heck I'm gonna know if I'm doing something totally off kilter per his culture (not so much per our religion) on our wedding night if we don't talk about it?

I have mixed feelings on this.

[doodlebug 3]

on second thought i think i'll keep this question to myself since it's so personal.

[Ban Hammer 13,110]

on second thought i think i'll keep this question to myself since it's so personal.

just say no several times before doing anything he asks

[Veiled Princess 1]

on second thought i think i'll keep this question to myself since it's so personal.

That's a very good idea

[rclouse 0]

BTW, places like Austin, TX allow women to go topless, didja know that?

So because a law is based on a religion... a religion that the majority shares.... it's not as good a law?

Whether you want to admit it or not a person's religion drives him in his decisions.... that include our elected lawmakers... how many non christian presidents have we had?

My point is this is a secular nation. Our laws are applied equally without regard to a person's station, race, color, or beliefs. When one starts saying a law is based on a religious belief, we need to examine that law because if it is, indeed, based on religion, then that religion is being favored. That isn't something a modern civilized democracy does.

I feel very strongly about this because this allows you to practice your religion as you see fit. And it allows me to believe what I want without fear of oppression or discrimination. As long as our beliefs do not infringe on the freedom of others in this country, we're allowed to believe and practice whatever we want. You can even believe that a Flying Spaghetti Monster created the Universe just 6,000 years ago and that we are all His creatures.

[honeyblonde 0]

mhmm sure ya do! hahaha. Using his culture as an excuse to have phone sex isn't a great one but you don't need to explain that to us... you can do whatever you want to do.

hahaha

we actually don't. at times he would bring up how he wants to kiss me and I quickly nip it in the bud. I'm not lying.

is that the extent of what he asks?

Would you believe Charles that there are still men on this planet who find kissing to be sensual? I swear my husband could stay glued to my lips and be happy. For men who haven't been sexually active very much, if any, kissing is still something they actually want to do!

[sarah and hicham 3]

mhmm sure ya do! hahaha. Using his culture as an excuse to have phone sex isn't a great one but you don't need to explain that to us... you can do whatever you want to do.

hahaha

we actually don't. at times he would bring up how he wants to kiss me and I quickly nip it in the bud. I'm not lying.

is that the extent of what he asks?

Would you believe Charles that there are still men on this planet who find kissing to be sensual? I swear my husband could stay glued to my lips and be happy. For men who haven't been sexually active very much, if any, kissing is still something they actually want to do!

ok umm eww.

[amal 4]

wow, I am surprised at the results of this and what has been said... I can't answer it because it is against Islam to speak of how "good" or "bad" your spouse has been in their religion. My husband would be livid and so embarassed if he weren't "good" and I told ppl....