Doubts part II

[babybunny 2]

ps. I'm not saying all men go by an elaborate plan, but I am saying if they really do not love the person and just want benefits then it really is quite a big scheme.

your sounding like an expert.. perhaps your man is using you!

Funny...6 pages of discussion with not one insult, then you enter. Coincidence? I think not!

I can stand on my OWN two feet.. Unlike you and sarah you run in a Pack like wild dogs.

one post and then the other. neither one of you can think for yourself.

[Savanphil 3]

I see that there are a lot of spectators like me...anybody want some?

[jordanianprincess 0]

ps. I'm not saying all men go by an elaborate plan, but I am saying if they really do not love the person and just want benefits then it really is quite a big scheme.

your sounding like an expert.. perhaps your man is using you!

Funny...6 pages of discussion with not one insult, then you enter. Coincidence? I think not!

I can stand on my OWN two feet.. Unlike you and sarah you run in a Pack like wild dogs.

one post and then the other. neither one of you can think for yourself.

Ok Shon. Your insults mean nothing to me and I have reported you for disturbing the peace!

[chri'stina 190]

I see that there are a lot of spectators like me...anybody want some?

please I'll pass on the popcorn, a coke would be nice.

Edited October 25, 2006 by stina&suj

[babybunny 2]

beause your respect for others and members on this board is insulting.

your not a nice person. I think it shows.

while that may be true... in this particular topic, there have been no insults or any person/group named... none of what you read into it has actually been mentioned at all.

sure it has.. it was specificly said MENA men. then the age diffrence scenario.

this is a direct insult to those going though NOID/NOIR that think its based on age..

so candy coat it.. do what it takes to nullify it in your minds. I see it as its written.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Seriously Shon you clearly do not like me but I see no reason for you to use that reason to come in here and shove words down my throat. No one is fighting and as far as I can see, no one is offended by this topic besides you. I know you are trying to get people to hate me but I don't get it. I am not going to play your game with you today. Out of all the posts here you come in and attack me for no reason besides that you don't like me. Please grow up.

[babybunny 2]

ps. I'm not saying all men go by an elaborate plan, but I am saying if they really do not love the person and just want benefits then it really is quite a big scheme.

your sounding like an expert.. perhaps your man is using you!

Funny...6 pages of discussion with not one insult, then you enter. Coincidence? I think not!

I can stand on my OWN two feet.. Unlike you and sarah you run in a Pack like wild dogs.

one post and then the other. neither one of you can think for yourself.

Ok Shon. Your insults mean nothing to me and I have reported you for disturbing the peace!

I dont care.. i long since report this thread.. like the old one.

[Veiled Princess 1]

I see that there are a lot of spectators like me...anybody want some?

Please

[sarah and hicham 3]

Ewok told me that he closed the thread without reading it in order to calm you down. He was just doing his job babysitting you

[Savanphil 3]

I see that there are a lot of spectators like me...anybody want some?

please I'll pass on the popcorn, a coke would be nice.

Here you go ....shall I pull you up a chair too?

[chri'stina 190]

I see that there are a lot of spectators like me...anybody want some?

please I'll pass on the popcorn, a coke would be nice.

Here you go ....shall I pull you up a chair too?

Yes a nice comfy recliner please.

[jordanianprincess 0]

beause your respect for others and members on this board is insulting.

your not a nice person. I think it shows.

while that may be true... in this particular topic, there have been no insults or any person/group named... none of what you read into it has actually been mentioned at all.

sure it has.. it was specificly said MENA men. then the age diffrence scenario.

this is a direct insult to those going though NOID/NOIR that think its based on age..

so candy coat it.. do what it takes to nullify it in your minds. I see it as its written.

Sarah didn't mention MENA men.

Ok back to topic. So what would you do if someone told you? Knowing myself I don't know if I would believe anyone. People told me my ex was a lying cheat for a long time and I never believed them. Would you even want to know?

[sarah and hicham 3]

That's a good question JP. I like to think if someone told me I wouldn't turn my back on them and pretend like nothing happened.

[UmmSqueakster 54]

Ok, so on topic.

I'm sure that many of us know a person or two who have been used for a visa or greencard. Something I would like to propose is for these people to tell their stories, anonymously, so that for people new to the visa process, they get all sides of the story.

People who stay here are usually those excited about the visa process, or who are continuing along relatively well in their relationships. Those who get screwed will often disappear. I understand not wanting to be embarassed by telling their story attached to the regular user name. If we could collect these stories and post them anonymously, I think it would definately help to round out the view people get here on VJ.

Edited October 25, 2006 by rahma

[jordanianprincess 0]

Ok, so on topic.

I'm sure that many of us know a person or two who have been used for a visa or greencard. Something I would like to propose is for these people to tell their stories, anonymously, so that for people new to the visa process, they get all sides of the story.

People who stay here are usually those excited about the visa process, or who are continuing along relatively well in their relationships. Those who got screwed will often disappear. I understand not wanting to be embarassed by telling their story attached to the regular user name. If we could collect these stories and post them anonymously, I think it would definately help to round out the view people get here on VJ.

Good post Rahma. I honestly do appreciate those that have had the courage to come back and share their experience. If they have made an impact on just one person then they have done a good job.