Doubts part II

[sarah and hicham 3]

I'm not complaining!

I'm here!

[jordanianprincess 0]

Never said it wasn't possible sowy.

I'm sorry but I think that even if you have had 3 years of an internet relationship that your relationship can only go so far. There is a huge difference between talkign to someone on the phone and living with them, sharing a room, going places together, etc.

Only go so far.....I think its quite clear. You most definlty build a strong foundation on the internet, but I think there are many many members here that can attest to the fact that things changed dramatically once they lived together. Which may I add also has nothing to do with having sex.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Never said it wasn't possible sowy.

I'm sorry but I think that even if you have had 3 years of an internet relationship that your relationship can only go so far. There is a huge difference between talkign to someone on the phone and living with them, sharing a room, going places together, etc.

Only go so far.....I think its quite clear. You most definlty build a strong foundation on the internet, but I think there are many many members here that can attest to the fact that things changed dramatically once they lived together. Which may I add also has nothing to do with having sex.

[Veiled Princess 1]

Only go so far.....I think its quite clear. You most definlty build a strong foundation on the internet, but I think there are many many members here that can attest to the fact that things changed dramatically once they lived together. Which may I add also has nothing to do with having sex.

This is true of any relationship where the parties involved have not had close contact during the "dating" phase... not just those who use the internet to communicate.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Only go so far.....I think its quite clear. You most definlty build a strong foundation on the internet, but I think there are many many members here that can attest to the fact that things changed dramatically once they lived together. Which may I add also has nothing to do with having sex.

This is true of any relationship where the parties involved have not had close contact during the "dating" phase... not just those who use the internet to communicate.

And?

[Veiled Princess 1]

And?

Why is it when I respond to your posts I must be obviously trying to pick a fight with you but when you nitpick my posts you're just replying and I shouldn't be so sensitive?

[jordanianprincess 0]

Only go so far.....I think its quite clear. You most definlty build a strong foundation on the internet, but I think there are many many members here that can attest to the fact that things changed dramatically once they lived together. Which may I add also has nothing to do with having sex.

This is true of any relationship where the parties involved have not had close contact during the "dating" phase... not just those who use the internet to communicate.

You mean like long distance relationships? If thats what your talking about then yes I agree. I never ever imagined it would be as hard as it is, getting through it is quite an accomplishment.

[sarah and hicham 3]

And?

Why is it when I respond to your posts I must be obviously trying to pick a fight with you but when you nitpick my posts you're just replying and I shouldn't be so sensitive?

Ok right. Thank you for making that point.

[jordanianprincess 0]

Ok I know for sure there is no full moon tonight.

[Veiled Princess 1]

You mean like long distance relationships? If thats what your talking about then yes I agree. I never ever imagined it would be as hard as it is, getting through it is quite an accomplishment.

Not necessarily. What of those of us who don't really "date" before marriage? Some people live in the same city as their fiance and they have never been alone together or he has maybe only seen her with her headscarf removed like once. This doesn't mean it's a marriage scam or whatever... it's still a relationship.

[sarah and hicham 3]

You mean like long distance relationships? If thats what your talking about then yes I agree. I never ever imagined it would be as hard as it is, getting through it is quite an accomplishment.

Not necessarily. What of those of us who don't really "date" before marriage? Some people live in the same city as their fiance and they have never been alone together or he has maybe only seen her with her headscarf removed like once. This doesn't mean it's a marriage scam or whatever... it's still a relationship.

I don't think anyone is arguing against you. We are just saying that relationships can change once you live together. No one said anything about a marriage scam here.

[Veiled Princess 1]

I don't think anyone is arguing against you. We are just saying that relationships can change once you live together. No one said anything about a marriage scam here.

That is what this thread is about right? If it's not relevant then why discuss it in the "doubts" thread?

[sarah and hicham 3]

I sure do have my doubts!

[jordanianprincess 0]

You mean like long distance relationships? If thats what your talking about then yes I agree. I never ever imagined it would be as hard as it is, getting through it is quite an accomplishment.

Not necessarily. What of those of us who don't really "date" before marriage? Some people live in the same city as their fiance and they have never been alone together or he has maybe only seen her with her headscarf removed like once. This doesn't mean it's a marriage scam or whatever... it's still a relationship.

Ok but none of that to me would make me even question the validity of a relationship. If a woman chooses to have chaparoned visits and keep her headscarf on with her fiance and he is respectful of that I don't think that prevents them from knowing each other. I agree that doesn't make it a scam at all, but the real challenge is after you make the final step and get married.

I think what Sarah said was valid. I think alot of members can vouch for that as well. Comparing a courtship (traditional or not) and internet relationships is in no way the same as living together (shacking up or not ).

[Veiled Princess 1]

I sure do have my doubts!

So you are saying any couple who didn't have contact like that prior to marriage have a 'doubtful' relationship?