change of status

[JenT 0]

Bullcrap. I have to hear all the time about how great the schools are there. I'm not asking for the Queen's English, I'm asking for understandable.

If you want help, break it down with facts and cut the editorial.

im trying my best this is a very stressful time for me right now and if u going to just attack me each time about wot wen and how im explaning it pls dont reply i understand wot ur saying but maybe u need to look up the history of the eastend of london this is a lot bigger than that thank you.

My David is from the east end of London and while I can hear your accent in what/how you type, David does not write this way... At least help us by using punctuation so we know where the end of your sentences are... it really is hard to read your writing. Just help us a little so we can help you.

[belladona_ph 0]

That is the gender violence act and both for the protection of the family..men, women and children.. You can do a self-petition like what I have stated earlier. I suggest that you and your kids go to a counselor too as they can assist you and that would lessen the burden you have, boo.

Men, women and children have the rights.

Stay firm! Good luck!

Jan

Bullcrap. I have to hear all the time about how great the schools are there. I'm not asking for the Queen's English, I'm asking for understandable.

If you want help, break it down with facts and cut the editorial.

im trying my best this is a very stressful time for me right now and if u going to just attack me each time about wot wen and how im explaning it pls dont reply i understand wot ur saying but maybe u need to look up the history of the eastend of london this is a lot bigger than that thank you.

[diadromous mermaid 36]

Bullcrap. I have to hear all the time about how great the schools are there. I'm not asking for the Queen's English, I'm asking for understandable.

If you want help, break it down with facts and cut the editorial.

im trying my best this is a very stressful time for me right now and if u going to just attack me each time about wot wen and how im explaning it pls dont reply i understand wot ur saying but maybe u need to look up the history of the eastend of london this is a lot bigger than that thank you.

I'm not an Eastender, but I believe that Meauxna is recommending this for your own benefit. The clearer you present the facts, the more they will evoke helpful replies

can u still apply for change of status even after your marriage has broken down after one yr to a us citizen as change of status had not been filed after all this time or do u have to return to the country u arrived from ?

hi, yes I know you can self-petition yourself. As long as you prove your financial capacity. I would suggest you call the USCIS so they can guide you what to do, or go to a church group or volunteer legal office that have programs on immigration.

good luck

Incorrect! Qualifying abused aliens are not required to prove financial capacity. These victims are exempt from the Affidavit of Support.

[belladona_ph 0]

Corrections accepted. Boo, you can still sef-petition and I suggest you talk to someone in person so you can be guided and be consoled.

Don't lose hope there are still a lot of compassionate people out there!

Jan

Bullcrap. I have to hear all the time about how great the schools are there. I'm not asking for the Queen's English, I'm asking for understandable.

If you want help, break it down with facts and cut the editorial.

im trying my best this is a very stressful time for me right now and if u going to just attack me each time about wot wen and how im explaning it pls dont reply i understand wot ur saying but maybe u need to look up the history of the eastend of london this is a lot bigger than that thank you.

I'm not an Eastender, but I believe that Meauxna is recommending this for your own benefit. The clearer you present the facts, the more they will evoke helpful replies

can u still apply for change of status even after your marriage has broken down after one yr to a us citizen as change of status had not been filed after all this time or do u have to return to the country u arrived from ?

hi, yes I know you can self-petition yourself. As long as you prove your financial capacity. I would suggest you call the USCIS so they can guide you what to do, or go to a church group or volunteer legal office that have programs on immigration.

good luck

Incorrect! Qualifying abused aliens are not required to prove financial capacity. These victims are exempt from the Affidavit of Support.

[Boiler 45,972]

Bullcrap. I have to hear all the time about how great the schools are there. I'm not asking for the Queen's English, I'm asking for understandable.

If you want help, break it down with facts and cut the editorial.

im trying my best this is a very stressful time for me right now and if u going to just attack me each time about wot wen and how im explaning it pls dont reply i understand wot ur saying but maybe u need to look up the history of the eastend of london this is a lot bigger than that thank you.

My David is from the east end of London and while I can hear your accent in what/how you type, David does not write this way... At least help us by using punctuation so we know where the end of your sentences are... it really is hard to read your writing. Just help us a little so we can help you.

Also East of London here, well Hornchurch. And I lived in Bromley-by-Bow.

But my Mum taught in the Eastend, and so did the Ex, I have many friends who were born within the sound of Bow Bells.

Has nothing to do with correct presentation.

Perhaps it explains my inability to type?

[boo 0]

Bullcrap. I have to hear all the time about how great the schools are there. I'm not asking for the Queen's English, I'm asking for understandable.

If you want help, break it down with facts and cut the editorial.

im trying my best this is a very stressful time for me right now and if u going to just attack me each time about wot wen and how im explaning it pls dont reply i understand wot ur saying but maybe u need to look up the history of the eastend of london this is a lot bigger than that thank you.

My David is from the east end of London and while I can hear your accent in what/how you type, David does not write this way... At least help us by using punctuation so we know where the end of your sentences are... it really is hard to read your writing. Just help us a little so we can help you.

Also East of London here, well Hornchurch. And I lived in Bromley-by-Bow.

But my Mum taught in the Eastend, and so did the Ex, I have many friends who were born within the sound of Bow Bells.

Has nothing to do with correct presentation.

Perhaps it explains my inability to type?

hi the crazy thing about this is that i started of talking about my marriage break down and it got turned into somethink that dont have anythink to do with what i posted. its like chinese wisphers i just need to find out as much as i can about remaining here if and wen this marriage ends. i no my typing sucks but i cant help that wen im trying to find answers and take care of the babys at the same time there both under two yrs old. im lost im wot to do here. i cant even think ive gone into panic mode.

[JenT 0]

If you don't think we've answered your question(s), ask it(them) again.

[boo 0]

how do i even go about this do i leave this marriage first or wait untill she ends up asking me too leave shes blowing hot and cold all the time and i dont no if im coming and going . ive asked her more times than i can remember that i need to no whats happening and all i get is i dont no i have too work it out for my self. but shes telling me she has no fellings for me and i suspect shes working out whats going to be easyest for her shes even asked me to not use a lawer and we that we can end the marriage with a mediatar. there is somethink i never said yesterday and thats she filed for bankruptcy a couple of months ago and its been discharged all ready

[JenT 0]

No one here is going to tell you to leave your marriage, or stay. You're really going to have to work that one out for yourself.

As far as what to do right this minute, pick up a phone and find an attorney to talk to. Your situation is too complicated with the bankruptcy, kids, and your immigration status, to manage this on your own. Especially as sheltered as you say you have been.

Edited to add: An attorney can help you understand your rights and the consequences of any decisions you will make, either with your wife, or decisions you make independent of her. There are children involved and they deserve to be protected as much as they can be.

Edited October 26, 2006 by JenT

[boo 0]

No one here is going to tell you to leave your marriage, or stay. You're really going to have to work that one out for yourself.

As far as what to do right this minute, pick up a phone and find an attorney to talk to. Your situation is too complicated with the bankruptcy, kids, and your immigration status, to manage this on your own. Especially as sheltered as you say you have been.

Edited to add: An attorney can help you understand your rights and the consequences of any decisions you will make, either with your wife, or decisions you make independent of her. There are children involved and they deserve to be protected as much as they can be.

an thats wot i fear the most is that i cant protect them right now. inside me i no i need to do what u just said but i have lost all self confedence in my self i keep shaking all the and cant sleep at night im chain smoking and fill so closed in. i cant even function right and my minds raceing i dont no were to start crazy as this sounds but i fill like im like a little kid again and need help with everythink ive just shut down.

[JenT 0]

No one here is going to tell you to leave your marriage, or stay. You're really going to have to work that one out for yourself.

As far as what to do right this minute, pick up a phone and find an attorney to talk to. Your situation is too complicated with the bankruptcy, kids, and your immigration status, to manage this on your own. Especially as sheltered as you say you have been.

Edited to add: An attorney can help you understand your rights and the consequences of any decisions you will make, either with your wife, or decisions you make independent of her. There are children involved and they deserve to be protected as much as they can be.

an thats wot i fear the most is that i cant protect them right now. inside me i no i need to do what u just said but i have lost all self confedence in my self i keep shaking all the and cant sleep at night im chain smoking and fill so closed in. i cant even function right and my minds raceing i dont no were to start crazy as this sounds but i fill like im like a little kid again and need help with everythink ive just shut down.

Do you have any friends locally with whom you can share this? Try contacting a local church to talk to someone about pastoral counseling. You need to find some support there with you... we can only offer so much advice. You're going to get through this. Your kids need you right now. Once you feel like you have some control over the situation, your self confidence will start to come back, but you have to make the phone call(s) to make it happen.

[john_and_marlene 162]

Contact Catholic Charities ... you don't have to be Catholic. There fees are based on your ability to pay. If you have no money, there is no fee.

[boo 0]

No one here is going to tell you to leave your marriage, or stay. You're really going to have to work that one out for yourself.

As far as what to do right this minute, pick up a phone and find an attorney to talk to. Your situation is too complicated with the bankruptcy, kids, and your immigration status, to manage this on your own. Especially as sheltered as you say you have been.

Edited to add: An attorney can help you understand your rights and the consequences of any decisions you will make, either with your wife, or decisions you make independent of her. There are children involved and they deserve to be protected as much as they can be.

an thats wot i fear the most is that i cant protect them right now. inside me i no i need to do what u just said but i have lost all self confedence in my self i keep shaking all the and cant sleep at night im chain smoking and fill so closed in. i cant even function right and my minds raceing i dont no were to start crazy as this sounds but i fill like im like a little kid again and need help with everythink ive just shut down.

also ive lost trust we went to two differnt counsuls and they was both backing up my wife and now she thinks shes right all the time and its me thats done wrong in this marriage i nearly fell over both times wen i heard wot thay was saying my i had become vebaly abusive to my wife and was told i need to grow up and that i dont have any invirmental issiues

that was the second time the first time i was told that i need to except (what and what not) lies my wifes tells me and not get angry so i replyed. so its ok for your wife to lie to me isit and she just looked back at me and said well.

Edited October 26, 2006 by boo

[boo 0]

i dont no anyone. i went to some one last yr who i new but they was unable to help people dont want to get involved around here its a small town of 11.000

[JenT 0]

It's obvious that you're feeling hurt and betrayed but you need to find someone to represent your interests and help you make the decisions that will be best for you and your children in the long run. Please don't delay reaching out locally for some help.

i dont no anyone. i went to some one last yr who i new but they was unable to help people dont want to get involved around here its a small town of 11.000

Phone Catholic Charities as John suggested. They will help you.

http://www.ccab.org/