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God knows what's best. Trust in Him. Stay strong. (F)

01/01/2008 - Met
04/27/2010 - Engaged
08/23/2011 - Married
USCIS
10/03/2011 - I-130 Sent (USPS priority w/ delivery confirmation)
10/05/2011 - Package arrived at chicago lockbox
10/06/2011 - NOA1
11/09/2011 - NOA2 (no RFE's)
NVC
11/14/2011 - Petition received by NVC/ Received NOA2 by mail
11/21/2011 - NVC case # received by email/ Got AOS fee by email/ Called NVC to provide beneficiary email
11/27/2011 - Choice of agent (DS-3023) sent to NVC by email
.....took a break from process to delay interview....
01/26/2012 - Payed IV fee
01/27/2012 - IV fee status shown as PAID
02/07/2012 - Payed AOS fee
02/08/2012 - AOS fee status shown as PAID
02/09/ 2012 - DS-230 package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/06/2012 - AOS package sent to NVC (priority mail)
03/12/2012 - Called NVC and found out about checklist. Sent revision to NVC that same day.
03/16/2012 - CASE COMPLETE!
04/11/2012 - Informed of interview via phone by DOS/ Got P4 email from NVC a few hours later that same day (May 4th)
SANTO DOMINGO CONSULATE
04/19/2012 - Medical
05/04/2012 - Interview (APPROVED)
05/10/2012 - Visa ready and picked up at domex
05/15/2012 - POE in Boston (together)
U. S. A
05/29/2012 - Went to SS office to apply for SS card
06/01/2012 - Welcome letter arrived (Received about 3 of these)
06/05/2012 - Green card arrived
06/15/2012- Back to SS office with green card to reapply and inquire about delay
06/18/2012 - Picked up SSN at SSA office
06/22/2012 - SS card arrived by mail

04/24/14 - Sent I-751 to remove conditions

06/09/14 - Biometrics

11/2014 - RFE from USCIS requesting more evidence before approval

Late Jan - Sent further evidence of marriage

03/05/2015 - Got letter of approval for removal of conditions

03/15/2015 - Permanent 10 yr green card received via mail

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Yea.... It's a shame because he wanted the baby so bad we were both always sad that we couldn't have a Baby, and when we finally did that's how he repaid me..... If he fell In love with someone else I understand but he manipulaated me, I changed my number I do not speak to him at all

Good!, :thumbs:

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Philippines
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for sometime now my relationship had been going down hill. it was obvious he was cheating, but i tried to not let my suspicions get the best of me. point of the story is last Monday, he left me he literally moved into a house with some lady and her three kids, and paid the down payment with money that he begged me to send him. some people warned me that the money he was asking me for might be for that so i refused to send it at first, but he swore to god and everything that he loved that he would never do that to me, and as soon as i sent him the money he moved in with her. i cried alot atfirsr but surprsingly im beginning to see things in a new light, and i realize that i have not been happy for sometime, and it was because of him. now i feel happier than ever and i pray to god to keep helping me stay strong. for all of those who are still waiting for immigration to get back to you goodluck, wish you guys the best!

p.s i have been in love with this person since i was 12, and i am now about to turn 24. i have dedicated my life to him, in so many ways, and the way he repaid me was taking my money. and calling me a piece of ####, while i was actually pregnant with his unborn son....i lost the baby by the way.

Can I ask how old is he?

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Australia
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Firstly, I am so sorry for the loss of your unborn baby.

Secondly, you sound like you will be much better off without this man and I really hope you can in time move on and be happy.

We became a couple : 2011-05-29
I visited him : 2011-10-28 - 2011-11-17
He visited me (and my crazy family) : 2012-02-05 - 2012-02-17
I-129F Sent : 2012-02-05
I-129F NOA1 : 2012-02-14
I entered on VWP to stay 3 months: 2012-04-11 - 2012-07-03
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Went to get my medical done for interview in Australia (much cheaper in the US and I was already here):2012-05-20
Medical issue diagnosed
K-1 petition cancellation request sent to CSC : 2012-06-01
Married: 2012-06-21
Filed for AOS : 2012-08-08
NOA1 : 2012-08-10
Biometrics : 2012-09-14
EAD approved : 2012-10-16
Applied for SSN : 2012-11-01
Received SSN : 2012-11-13
Received interview notice :2012-12-27
Interview- APPROVED :2013-01-28
Green card received :2013-02-04
Baby girl born :2013-03-09

Filed for ROC :2014-12-05
NOA :2014-12-11
Biometrics : 2015-01-15

ROC Approval : 2015-05-14

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: India
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Hello there:

I do not pretend to know you or your situation, but it seems like you got financially used and emotionally abused. I also know that it is easier said than done, but don't waste anything else on someone that clearly is not woth it. What goes around, comes around, karma can not be escaped.

It might not be worth much, but be thankful that it happened now and not after all the trouble, the waiting, the frustration, the expence, etc. of going through the process.

Sorry you are hurting, my heart goes out to you.

PS. . Men like him give the rest of us a bad rep. Hope you find someone that will cherish you for the person you are.

I love what you just stated!!!! "We men or Dominicans are not all the same" ........... That is a powerful statement!!! When ever anyone I know has a bad relationship they always want to say to me ‘watch out your “Indian” is just using you!!!” …. Thank you for this statement…!!!!!!!!!!

And I will be praying for you sweetheart…. God bless you and remember when you least expect it God will put the right man in front of you!!!!!!!!!

Rachel & Tom <3

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: India
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i m sorry for you what ever happened to you but ..Everything happens for good buddy...it is even better that u realized that he is cheating before even going through whole process,,....something good exiting coming in yr life, so he had to go away from you...think positive always...good luck

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: China
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Yea.... It's a shame because he wanted the baby so bad we were both always sad that we couldn't have a Baby, and when we finally did that's how he repaid me..... If he fell In love with someone else I understand but he manipulaated me, I changed my number I do not speak to him at all

any petition in the pipe? Best if you cancel it, nowish.

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My dear.... U have youth in your favor, god knows whats best thank the lord U R not being dumped with a hild

@ 24 U R entitled to a respectful loving relationship, we never know who we may fall in love with but in the

future try & make it with someone who U dont need to petition for.... so so sorryy for your situation but stay

strong DO NOT let him back in your life..........god bless

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Sorry to hear about what you went through but also simultaneously glad to hear you have the strength and courage to move on. Keep the faith, continue to trust in HIM and all will be well. Wishing you love, light and all the best(F) (F) (F)

K1 Visa - Dates in UK format

02/05/2012 I-129F Sent
07/05/2012 I-129F NOA1
02/11/2012 I-129F NOA2
14/11/2012 NVC Left
29/11/2012 Packet 3 Received
07/12/2012 Medical
12/12/2012 Packet 3 Sent
30/01/2013 Packet 4 Received
20/02/2013 Interview Date - Approved!
28/02/2013 Visa Received
03/06/2013 US Entry smile.png

22/06/2013 Marriage (Beautiful day) heart.gifrose.gif

AOS & EAD - Dates in US format

07/29/2013 Filing date

08/06/2013 NOA1

08/28/2013 Biometrics Apt

06/23/2014 Green Card

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I am so sorry for what you have been through...though I haven't been through this I have had my heart broken and it doesn't feel good but you will survive...also glad that you can see things from a different perspective as you said. You are still young and have a lot of life ahead of you...just take all that you have learned and apply it to the rest of your life. No one can predict how things will turn out..even if things look bad sometimes we hope they won't be b/c we are human and we want the best...just learn from your mistakes and keep on moving forward...God is in control and let him fight your battles! Hugs to you...you will be okay!



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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Canada
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This is disgusting. You'll find someone better; without a doubt. Men like that never live happily ever after. Mutual self-sacrifice (selflessness) is the key to happiness in relationships, and people like that will never understand that concept; so they'll never be truly happy.

 

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03/23/2022: Application for passport submitted at USPS facility under standard processing.

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04/04/2022: Check for passport cashed.

05/03/2022: Status changed to "The U.S. Department of State approved your application for your passport book. We're now printing your passport book and preparing to give it to you. You should receive your passport book on or around 05/09/2022."

05/05/2022: Passport Received.

05/09/2022: SSA Citizenship Status Updated.

05/25/2022: Naturalization Certificate received in mail.

 

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Morocco
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So sorry to hear that :(

Met online : 2009
Married : 07/28/2010


USCIS
Send I-130 : 06/08/2011
Touched : 06/13/2011
got a NOA1 by e-mail and SMS : 06/15/2011
got "I-797C" hard copy of NOA1 : 06/20/2011
got RFE "I-797E" : 10/15/2011
RFE Reply : 12/15/2011
Touched : 12/16/2011
I-130 Approved : 12/20/2011
got "I-797" hard copy of NOA2 : 12/24/2011
Your I-130 was approved in 183 days from your NOA1 date.


NVC
NVC Case Number : 01/13/2012
Pay "$88" AOS Bill and e-mailed DS-3032 : 02/08/2012
Email from NVC, DS-3032 Accepted : 02/09/2012
AOS Fee Shows PAID : 02/09/2012
IV fee invoiced "$404" : 02/10/2012
IV fee invoiced "$230" : 04/18/2012
Pay "$230" IV Bill : 04/30/2012
IV Fee Shows PAID : 05/02/2012
Send AOS and IV packet : 06/09/2012
AOS and IV packet Received : 06/22/2012
Case completed at NVC : 06/29/2012

Interview Date : 08/28/2012 "Denied"

Case Reaffirmed : 07/16/2013

Second interview - Approved : 10/24/2013

Visa Issued : 10/29/2013

Visa in hand : 10/31/2013

For more details please visit my timeline

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Filed: K-1 Visa Country: Philippines
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Hope you feel better something like that would hurt anyone. A sign I use to tell if someone with lesser than me has real feelings or something else is if they ask for money. They should never ask and the ones that do run! The ones that don't might be legit. But the ones that resist any type of purchase or money spent are in my opinion the keepers. Just keep your head up and remember you have a chance to have a great life where he has just signed up for something that can never end with a fairytale ending... If he did it once he'll do it again.

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