We broke in the process ..

[adrika 0]

We had two years of relationship before began the k1 visa process. Present year In April the request K1 was received , but one month after we broke up because I found out that he was unfaithful with the mother of his child. It was very painful.

But I must continue my life, what I want to know is.. What I can do to stop the process , I would later attempt a vidsa tourist to visit friends and family in USA, but I fear that if he did not send a letter to stop the process I may have problems. I can do?

[Fight for Love 98]

i'm so sorry...are you the mom? or are you talking about his exwife/exgf? if that's the case that your talking about his exs...what had to do w/his future w/u? i mean we all did something bad in the past. but everyone deserved a second change.

but if your talking about u(your the mom of his child)...do you have enough proof? that make you dump him?

anyhow chances of getting a tourist visa are depending in the requirements/qualification of getting US tourist visa...

goodluck!!!

[WrightFamily 34]

We had two years of relationship before began the k1 visa process. Present year In April the request K1 was received , but one month after we broke up because I found out that he was unfaithful with the mother of his child. It was very painful.

But I must continue my life, what I want to know is.. What I can do to stop the process , I would later attempt a vidsa tourist to visit friends and family in USA, but I fear that if he did not send a letter to stop the process I may have problems. I can do?

You need to write a letter of withdraw to USCIS before the petition is approved!!

Just include as much data as you can, e.g., receipt number, file number, names, dates of birth, citizenship, etc and follow-up with a phone call!

IF the petition was approved, you need to write this letter of withdraw to the embassy/consular of the beneficiary country (Peru).

Edited September 6, 2012 by WrightFamily

[Henry&Rebecca 39]

i'm so sorry...are you the mom? or are you talking about his exwife/exgf? if that's the case that your talking about his exs...what had to do w/his future w/u? i mean we all did something bad in the past. but everyone deserved a second change.

but if your talking about u(your the mom of his child)...do you have enough proof? that make you dump him?

anyhow chances of getting a tourist visa are depending in the requirements/qualification of getting US tourist visa...

goodluck!!!

The way I understood it she's not the mom, and he cheated on her with the EX who is the mom.

In any case, there are different perspectives on cheating. Some consider it forgivable and an issue to be worked past, and some don't (I would be in this latter boat btw, with the OP apparently). Thankfully we can avoid that debate because the OP was not asking for relationship advice, so I don't think it's our place to give it.

OP if you know your case number (the one that either starts with EAC or WAC), write a letter to the corresponding USCIS service center (Vermont= EAC #, California = WAC #) informing them that you're the beneficiary of that petition number which was filed on your behalf by XXX petitioner (your ex), and that you'd like it to be withdrawn.

I wouldn't entrust your ex to do this, because he may not be willing to go through with it for whatever reason (like say, hoping you'll eventually forgive and forget the cheating).

Worst case scenario, if you can't get through to USCIS or if they ignore your request, just hang tight and after it's approved the consulate is going to contact you to continue with the visa, just send them an official withdrawal (either letter or email or however the embassy likes) stating that you no longer wish to pursue that visa because you're no longer engaged to that person. Should be fine IMO.

Edited September 6, 2012 by Henry&Rebecca

[TBoneTX 45,361]

Parts of the advice so far is inaccurate, if the OP was the beneficiary (as it sounds).

The U.S. petitioner must write to USCIS to cancel the petition.