Top 10 TRICKY QUESTIONS???

[Tough_Era 71]

My husband was asked "What do you love about your wife", and "What do you dislike about your wife"...... and what would he do if they didn't give him the visa? Among lots of other questions....From the way the interview went though, I think they had already made their minds up for the most part before he ever arrived but meeting him was the clincher for him to get the visa.

Never heard of the third question.. like you said they had already made their minds up.

I don't know how will mine go when there's gap age.. it'll not go smoothly for sure.

[Tough_Era 71]

He was also asked many questions about my kids and family members, but we had spent so many countless hours talking online that he knew everything about them. He had also spoken to my kids and other family members on the phone. Have you spoken to her mom or anyone else in her family? Do they accept your relationship? You should've been talking on the mic all this time to improve your English. You can still start now...better late than never;)

I'll start when i'm done with doctor and translation of documents.. cause that's requiring me to travel to Casablanca.

I have to collect a big amount of questions and understand how interview goes.

Hope all goes well Zzzzzz with your interview....

Thanks.

[littoral1 15]

is there big difference between u and your fiancee

[Tough_Era 71]

is there big difference between u and your fiancee

Difference in what?

[littoral1 15]

i mean age differences and how much kids she have cause i have friends in us who was in same situation

[Peter_Pan 661]

And how many grandkids too?

[Tough_Era 71]

i mean age differences and how much kids she have cause i have friends in us who was in same situation

She has one daughter, my fiancee is 45 and i'm 28.

And how many grandkids too?

I asked you many questions and you didn't answer me.. am i supposed to answer you now??

[littoral1 15]

i wish u good luck inshaalah

god inshaalah will be with u in this day

u have to know all things about her daughter they will ask u too much things about her

school hoobie her friends birthday her relation with her ex father

u have to know all small little things like if she have one day issue with her mom or father they will ask u more question about the daughter than u r wife

they did this with my friends

his wife was 44 and he was 20 his wife have son they asked him about his hobies which team he play his friends

all things

they will try to know if u have real relation or not

be prepared

the most important thing is to show theme u know all about your fiancee her family and life

i wish u good luck

NB / PEOPLE WHO POST BAD COMMENT HERE DON T DESERVE ATENTION FROM U DONT RESPOND THEME AND FOCUS ON YOUR INTERVIEW THEY DONT HAVE ANY THING TO DO THATS WHY THEY R HERE TO SEND BAD COMMENT LIKE THIS AND THEY SHOW PEOPLE HOW MUCH THEY R SMALL AND IMPTY INSIDE AND NOT EDUCATED

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

I don't use translate software or something like that.. This language is running my blood now.. and if i don't understand a slang word or something i tell fiancee to give me the right meaning.. I'm just shy to speak English and wanna be as good as the native speaker.. that's all.. and it's not gonna be a red flag i'm sure.

I was not implying that you personally used this software or some other means. I am saying: if your spoken English is so weak that you can't complete the interview in a convincing manner - while the written English in your correspondence is passable or even fluent - the consulate may suspect something. You don't want that.

Of course the consulate understands that people may feel shy or self-conscious or nervous in the interview. Many people feel this way. But you really really want them to understand that you are indeed able to communicate well with your fiancee in spoken conversations.

So as has been advised by several people here already, get all the practice in speaking that you can, so that you can show them that yes, you can speak English well enough - and then it will not be a red flag. You don't have to speak perfect English - the consulate does not expect that. You can even ask them to repeat questions or explain a word you didn't understand. Just keep practicing your conversational skills, and you will become much more comfortable at it. Good luck !

[Tough_Era 71]

I was not implying that you personally used this software or some other means. I am saying: if your spoken English is so weak that you can't complete the interview in a convincing manner - while the written English in your correspondence is passable or even fluent - the consulate may suspect something. You don't want that.

Of course the consulate understands that people may feel shy or self-conscious or nervous in the interview. Many people feel this way. But you really really want them to understand that you are indeed able to communicate well with your fiancee in spoken conversations.

So as has been advised by several people here already, get all the practice in speaking that you can, so that you can show them that yes, you can speak English well enough - and then it will not be a red flag. You don't have to speak perfect English - the consulate does not expect that. You can even ask them to repeat questions or explain a word you didn't understand. Just keep practicing your conversational skills, and you will become much more comfortable at it. Good luck !

You really did encourage me. i'll not be scared of the interviewer.. I'm just scared i may not convince him when i'm truly true., and don't want to make fiancee disappointed cause she counts on me.

I'll practice English in the last 15 days before the interview comes.. Thank you so much.

[Tough_Era 71]

i wish u good luck inshaalah

god inshaalah will be with u in this day

u have to know all things about her daughter they will ask u too much things about her

school hoobie her friends birthday her relation with her ex father

u have to know all small little things like if she have one day issue with her mom or father they will ask u more question about the daughter than u r wife

they did this with my friends

his wife was 44 and he was 20 his wife have son they asked him about his hobies which team he play his friends

all things

they will try to know if u have real relation or not

be prepared

the most important thing is to show theme u know all about your fiancee her family and life

i wish u good luck

NB / PEOPLE WHO POST BAD COMMENT HERE DON T DESERVE ATENTION FROM U DONT RESPOND THEME AND FOCUS ON YOUR INTERVIEW THEY DONT HAVE ANY THING TO DO THATS WHY THEY R HERE TO SEND BAD COMMENT LIKE THIS AND THEY SHOW PEOPLE HOW MUCH THEY R SMALL AND IMPTY INSIDE AND NOT EDUCATED

Thank you very much.. I appreciate everything you said.

TO THIS PERSON WHO POST BAD COMMENT ABOUT OLD AGE

WILL BE OLD AGED VERY SOON CAUSE SHE HAVE BLACK SAD HEARTH

Yep, I agree . I don't know what she's been through but she seems a hater.

[Tough_Era 71]

It is not worth giving this poster the spot light...concentrate on what your need for your interview!!! GOD will show others their wrong ways.

Did you find anyone to practice your English with???

Oh sorry if i didn't reply.. i didn't see 3 posts.. i don't know how come i missed them..

I will not bother myself to look for someone who may help to practice English with me... it's ok.. i'll practice it more only with fiancee.. there would be no better.

[Penguin_ie 5,994]

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Edited September 8, 2012 by Penguin_ie

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

Oh well, I tried Zagray. It attacked us and yet one of her sick posts got to stay...never had my posts removed anywhere. Guess i have a lot to learn lol Anyway, I am blocking from now on.

Edited September 8, 2012 by ErikaAndHamit

[Darnell 8,478]

1. What medications does yer fiance take?

2. What's her favorite colour?

3. We know she likes vegetarian food - what's her favorite recipe?

4. When was the last time you two had coitus?

5. How will you overcome not being able to have children, after you marry?

6. We called your mother this morning - apparently she has no idea you are engaged. Please explain yourself.

7. What's her favorite ice cream?

8. What car does she drive?

9. She's on disability - how can she support you ?

10. Why did you propose to her after only one trip ?

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I know some may sound 'off' but it's the intent of the VO to actually be 'offputting' when a red flag is found in the casefile. So, rather than address, directly, that red flag issue, a VO will use these types of questions (above) in an effort to trip you up, make you stutter and stammer. If you cannot answer the questions directly and in a polite manner, a VO will find you inadmissible for a K-1 visa, claiming 'not a bonafide relationship' ..

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