Woman with K1 visa wants to divorce and marry me

[Ihavequestions 419]

People are too nice in these forums. It is Clear to anyone with a brain that the woman is seeking any possible way to remain in the US, as her husband has discovered she is a scammer. And yes, that is the reason these petitions take so long. Bloody scammers!

Agreed.

VJ needs a red flag emoticon for situations like this one.

[InHisTime 110]

This is going to be a very complicated case. Just concern of the very short time "6 months" - she just arrived in the US through K-1 visa, got married, filed AOS, now met someone new and wants to divorce the husband and get married again with another man. For me, it is too fast to fell out of love, at same time, again, falling in love. It is very alarming and this may sound Fraud to the USCIS.

It's good that you are giving yourself time to THINK about your decision, as I guess you don't want to end up spending too much money paying for attorney then still the outcome is not good. Hopefully you would arrive on the right decision that is worthy of your heart and money. God bless !

[DeeDee&Sam 68]

This is going to be a very complicated case. Just concern of the very short time "6 months" - she just arrived in the US through K-1 visa, got married, filed AOS, now met someone new and wants to divorce the husband and get married again with another man. For me, it is too fast to fell out of love, at same time, again, falling in love. It is very alarming and this may sound Fraud to the USCIS.

It's good that you are giving yourself time to THINK about your decision, as I guess you don't want to end up spending too much money paying for attorney then still the outcome is not good. Hopefully you would arrive on the right decision that is worthy of your heart and money. God bless !

6 months in the US, but the OP says they've been talking for few months. few might mean 2-3-4 months. thats like 3 months of no cheating marriage? definately red flag

[USA-ALG 63]

What comes around, goes around...

You take someone's man, then someone will take him away from you...

I would hate it if someone tried to take my man or if someone tried to "infiltrate" and ruin my marriage!

Take the high road and do this process all over again...

GOOD LUCK!

[Mrs. NSA 6]

OK...I don't care if I get thread banned. Cases like this are the reason immigration is so difficult for people with BONAFIDE marriages and relationships to get through this broken system of ours. I will be the one to pass judgement. You just withdrew a petition for K1, now you're in "love" with a woman who has barely been married on a k1 to a different man and you want advice from those of us who would do anything to have our SO with us??? Those of us who have done everything legally, who love and miss our SO. Who have been separated for months, some couples for years. Couples like my husband and I, who did everything by the book,went through the entire process start to finish only to be told that we are in the black hole of administrative processing, we have to wait until the process is done. It has already been 2 months since we have been put in AP, and it could be months and months more before his visa is issued, we just don't know. We have spent thousands upon thousands of dollars on travel expenses for me to go to see him every 3 or 4 months just so we can spend a few weeks together as a married couple in the same country, countless hours on skype and msn, phone and texting. the list goes on and on. I wouldn't trade one minute of it, because my husband and I know in the end we WILL be reunited, that we have a real and true marriage and we love each other, and that all of the stress and pain and worry of being apart will have been worth it. Your whole story is a hot mess and exactly the reason it is so difficult for the rest of us. I said what a lot of people here are thinking. Sorry for the rant people, I am just so tired of reading these stories, I really really am.

Thank you SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much! For OP... date dude, come back to us in a year and then we will help you.

[bigdog 376]

Bad deal all-around, leave him, leave you? Let her cleanup her mess then start over.

[Mateo&Raquel 28]

OK...I don't care if I get thread banned. Cases like this are the reason immigration is so difficult for people with BONAFIDE marriages and relationships to get through this broken system of ours. I will be the one to pass judgement. You just withdrew a petition for K1, now you're in "love" with a woman who has barely been married on a k1 to a different man and you want advice from those of us who would do anything to have our SO with us??? Those of us who have done everything legally, who love and miss our SO. Who have been separated for months, some couples for years. Couples like my husband and I, who did everything by the book,went through the entire process start to finish only to be told that we are in the black hole of administrative processing, we have to wait until the process is done. It has already been 2 months since we have been put in AP, and it could be months and months more before his visa is issued, we just don't know. We have spent thousands upon thousands of dollars on travel expenses for me to go to see him every 3 or 4 months just so we can spend a few weeks together as a married couple in the same country, countless hours on skype and msn, phone and texting. the list goes on and on. I wouldn't trade one minute of it, because my husband and I know in the end we WILL be reunited, that we have a real and true marriage and we love each other, and that all of the stress and pain and worry of being apart will have been worth it. Your whole story is a hot mess and exactly the reason it is so difficult for the rest of us. I said what a lot of people here are thinking. Sorry for the rant people, I am just so tired of reading these stories, I really really am.

AMEN!!!!

[Nellie&Jason 4]

wow.....

When US Government started supporting fiance reunions it took only two weeks to go through the whole process. Now we are looking to 8-10 months... and I can see why...

just a thought...

[Xanax 349]

Guys, stop with the judgements. It isn't our place , especially spot with the attacking posts.

[Ban Hammer 13,484]

closed for review

[Ban Hammer 13,484]

OK everyone, I get it. She is a horrible person because something didn't work out as planned.

Anybody I meet could potentially only be with me for money. Even US citizens. There is basically a 50% chance in any relationship. I am perfectly aware.

I will tell her that the best way is go go back. Thanks again for talking me into doing it the right way.

based on the above, this thread seems to have run it's course and is now closed.