Leaving

[ckel11310 10]

I'm sorry that you had to go through that. Better to jump off the sinking ship now than to be completely submerged with it. I am sure you will recover from this, and you will find someone better.

[Supergirlfriend 1]

So sorry to hear that, If you need someone to talk to send me a msg.

[nate and riyn 11]

im sorry to hear that i wish you all the luck in your new journey in life ....

[Justine+David 218]

Sorry my dear. Be kind to yourself over the next few months.

[djricky4 67]

really sorry to hear about what happen.

[Barbara J 115]

It's been a while since I have been here, as a lot has been going on. I have read all the responses and I thank each and every one of you.

To update you all, I returned after my daughters wedding for the court date, in October. It was pretty much a clear and cut case, the judge saw right through him and awarded me payment that day there and then. He had 13 days to come up with it but of course he was late.

We went to mediation the week after and sorted all the property/ furniture I bought , which I took back as he would not pay for it, he had to pay me for the washer and dryer , which I might add I am still waiting for, now a month over due.

I got his car. nearly killed him, his pride and joy but he has his avalanche, so it's ok. And he has to pay me alimony for 12 months. So as you can see I had a very good lawyer and she did an amazing job for me. he was late with the 1st alimony payment, now late with the 2nd one too.

I am back in Australia, arrived 9th November, stayed with my daughter for a few weeks, then found a place of my own. I could not and did not think it was right to stay there for too long as they are just newly weds, but I would have been lost without her and my son in-law.

So I am on my own, not been like this for 30 years and finding some days are harder than others. I found a nice unit, well nothing like the home I left . but it is comfortable and clean, and I have decorated it with my touch.

I have a car now so I have freedom too. Not working as yet as still crying every day, and not ready to meet ppl, so have a doctors cert. I start counselling on the 22nd.

I still miss him every day and still love him but know he will never change, so much so guys, I found him on a dating site 3 days after I left. He needs help and to face some major demons I feel, but until that day happens, nothing will change in his life.

So I just wanted to let you all know where I am and what happened. Life is lonely . but yes I know it wont always be, I have my daughters close to me and spend time with them. I never envisioned my life would turn out this way and it makes me very sad indeed.I live in hope and pray to God every day. for guidance and strength.

I wish you all love , happiness and fruitful marriages. May 2013 be a great year for all of you.

Barbara