fighting VAWA

[NY_BX 397]

If you wanna have your revenge because there is nothing sweeter than revenge then you can do something about it. You feel he walked all over you, used to you get here, and left you scarred emotionally. Since you have his recordings of talking to minors sexually, take that to the police and talk to a detective, abuse against minors is a big no no and you will need some evidence which you have and then let the police and INS handle it. You dont need to prove to anyone that you are a good person.

That's what I'm talking about.

I know people say Karma is a b***ch. I disagree. Karma is a true lady that balances life out so mostly EVERYONE gets their fair share. She's the real 'divine court judge.'

This said, why can't the scam victim be his karma? Prove to him 'you messed with the wrong woman.'

At the very least, it'll leave a sour taste in his life to be served.

[Boiler 45,519]

If there is any evidence, she should certainly put it forward.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

Vengence may be a subject of its own... But I've lost track here - and I'll gladly be corrected. It seems: OP submitted damning statement to DHS early on; OP is baffled by VAWA/GC adjudication - but doesn't explain who has seen it

[Boiler 45,519]

she provided a statement, no mention any evidence.

Him having adjusted through VAWA is hearsay, if quite plausible, for some reason she thought it could not happen without her being questioned.

[NY_BX 397]

she provided a statement, no mention any evidence.

Him having adjusted through VAWA is hearsay, if quite plausible, for some reason she thought it could not happen without her being questioned.

Sounds like "Don't ask, don't tell" has a new meaning. SMH....

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

Vengence may be a subject of its own... But I've lost track here - and I'll gladly be corrected. It seems: OP submitted damning statement to DHS early on; OP is baffled by VAWA/GC adjudication - but doesn't explain who has seen it

How certain are you that VAWA was activated and GC was received?

It's all hearsay at this point, IMHO.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

If that's indeed the case, then there is a VERY IMPORTANT question to membership here: how come this topic has garnered so much support?

I was trying to find helpful to immigrant information from OP or any supporting commentator - but I must have missed it completely. Where am I going wrong?

[Boiler 45,519]

I have noticed VAWA abuse stories do that. There are lots of them.

Add Nigeria in to the equation and that she is going around a second time and it was bond to be a winner.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

I'm not upset with OP: her story may be true (?) What I don't understand is motive behind all of the supporting member commentary, "greening" each other, etc. There seemed to be no serious discussion of process

[BethandBilly 86]

You mean none that suit your needs SingleDad2usc?!

What is "greening", it is not a term I am familiar with.

I'm not upset with OP: her story may be true (?) What I don't understand is motive behind all of the supporting member commentary, "greening" each other, etc. There seemed to be no serious discussion of process

[Boiler 45,519]

What did you mean by serious discussion of the process? The only thing she can do is submit any evidence, unlikely anything will change even if she has any.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

bethandbilly, it's when another member clicks + on a post (often yours). Some of the most "popular" posts often have no helpful to immigrant information. Hard to understand what's going on

Edited August 25, 2012 by SingleDad2usc

[BethandBilly 86]

Ok, thank you for clearing that up.

bethandbilly, it's when another member clicks + on a post (often yours). Some of the most "popular" posts often have no helpful to immigrant information. Hard to understand what's going on

[dwheels76 5,468]

When another member clicks + on a post (I see it a lot around your posts, even when there is no helpful information). Some of the most "popular" posts often have no helpful to immigrant information. Hard to understand what's going on

WOW. I thought this was a discussion not a "how to help YOU post". You seem to have VJ mixed up with an officially Immigration site. You have asked the same question about 10 times. If you need to know if your spouse got a greencard I suggest you call immigration to find out. Make an Infopass appointment and go in person. State your situation and I am sure they can help or advise you.

The OP was asking for advice and really I believe a more "heads up" and a pouring out her soul to us. Your sour grapes because someone isn't placating you is really childish.

You ask why its so popular who knows why some are here and some are looking from afar. Her posting I bet has alerted someone even one maybe to their situation. That is why we post. To inform, to educate and yes sometimes just to vent or God forbid have fun.

If you feel you need more thorough information not given on this post I would suggest to open your own topic and state your case and I am sure some experts will gladly come and post and assit you.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

You are probably right; but the gist of most posts was that VAWA is wrong period. What went wrong (in facts of the case) was not seriously discussed; sounded like "interest group", supported by membership

What did you mean by serious discussion of the process? The only thing she can do is submit any evidence, unlikely anything will change even if she has any.