is my fiance a fraud?

[Jamaican Luv 13]

Hilarous!

Nope i said more after that. But the timelines are good.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Nope i said more after that. But the timelines are good.

I sent U an email to your email address thru VJ

[EminTX 131]

As far as paternity suits go, it can be a real challenge to get anywhere with them when the two parents and child all live in the same city. It gets crazier when there are state lines crossed. It gets really crazy when international borders are involved.

If the USC paid for the visa application, does it seem like the foreigner really will be able to pull enough money together to hire a lawyer and file suit for paternity. DNA testing is much, much more than just a simple swab. It is also a court order. It is also fees paid. It is also waiting on a judge. It is also serving the papers to the custodial parent (or noncustodial parent). It is travel costs. It is parking fees. It is time off work.

My own experience took almost 3 years and we were all in the same state. When it was all said and done, there is a court order to change the birth certificate. That never occured. When I inquired about it, I was told that it has to be paid for before it is changed. It is not part of the fees paid during court.

[Jamaican Luv 13]

I sent U an email to your email address thru VJ

Ok. Let me check

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Emmit Tx not to sound harsh the same way he got someone to pay for those 7 visitor visa applications, he can convince someone to aid him in this if he felt he need to. But that's for the father to fiqure out if he should choose that route.

I know of men in Jamaica who have it down pat on having multiple womens taken care of them very well from the US, UK, German and Canada.

Edited August 25, 2012 by LIFE'SJOURNEY

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Emmit Tx not to sound harsh the same way he got someone to pay for those 7 visitor visa applications, he can convince someone to aid him in this if he felt he need to. But that's for the father to fiqure out if he should choose that route.

I know of men in Jamaica who have it down pat on having multiple womens taken care of them very well from the US, UK, German and Canada.

Absolutely on point.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

Absolutely on point.

I meant o say down pack. That accent takes some of them far. LOL

[Jamaican Luv 13]

I meant o say down pack. That accent takes some of them far. LOL

Check ur mail box

[pushbrk 13,011]

Yes i was by myself, I didn't stay too long, it is very close to the hotel i was staying at In new kingston. I don't if i am brave, but being my first time in Jamaica, ignorance may be a better choice of word. I didn't get mugged though. I am not sure what you mean by interview proof of evidence.

She means evidence of relationship. Without it, the visa is likely to be denied. That only applies if there IS an interview. You've got a short time to decide that.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

Please stop the bickering and stop badgering the OP and making irrelevant judgmental comments about what may happen in some unpredictable future. Speculation adds nothing constructive to the matter at hand and only confuses the real issue. Any further such comments will lead to the poster being thread-banned. The OP has no need to 'justify' or explain herself to anyone here.

One inappropriate comment has been removed along with one quoting it.

Kristina, you have received lots of good advice on how to get a clearer view of what your fiance's intentions might be, along with some useful advice about how to proceed from here. If you wish me to close this thread to further discussion, I will.

In the meantime, everyone please restrict your comments to the situation as presented; don't 'speculate' on what may or may not happen several years down the road, and try to provide useful advice the OP can use right now rather than creating unnecessary drama.

Edited August 26, 2012 by Kathryn41

[kennym 275]

In the meantime, everyone please restrict your comments to the situation as presented; don't 'speculate' on what may or may not happen several years down the road, and try to provide useful advice the OP can use right now rather than creating unnecessary drama.

Speculating what could happen down the road is as important a factor as anything when making a descision.. Why would you object to those comments...

Sometimes you wonder...

:wow:

[Kathryn41 3,205]

There are too many variables here for reasonable speculation. A comment along the lines of 'remember to consider xxx' in your plans' is fine- that counts as useful advice. Going out on a limb and predicting all sorts of dire events and circumstances that depend upon a lot of other totally speculative situations to occur is a futile exercise and only serves to create drama and dis-ease. There are enough stressors in the OP's current situation to consider; there is no need to borrow boogeymen from a future that has so many variables that may not ever come to pass.

[Jamaican Luv 13]

She means evidence of relationship. Without it, the visa is likely to be denied. That only applies if there IS an interview. You've got a short time to decide that.

Yep if u do decide to go thru with it just make sure u have all the right evidence. I do believe with k-1 u should of sent it in with the i-129.

[kristinakan 12]

Ok, thank you guys for all your help. I have decided to withdraw the petition and move forward with my life. It is hard and sad, but i have to do what i think is best for me. Thanks again for all your kind comments and if i need anymore help along these lines, i know this is the site to come. Kathryn you can close this topic, I do not wish to further discuss, especially when people are telling me that my story doesn't add up. I didn't come here to make up stories and get comments questioning my honesty, i came here for help. I have received help and now i am in the process of putting it to good use. Thank you guys again. Goodbye.

-Kristina

[TnJ 131]

There are too many variables here for reasonable speculation. A comment along the lines of 'remember to consider xxx' in your plans' is fine- that counts as useful advice. Going out on a limb and predicting all sorts of dire events and circumstances that depend upon a lot of other totally speculative situations to occur is a futile exercise and only serves to create drama and dis-ease. There are enough stressors in the OP's current situation to consider; there is no need to borrow boogeymen from a future that has so many variables that may not ever come to pass.

'Worry' is completely useless.