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Move on.

Its hard to be in a relationship when partners actualy love eatchoter because life isnt always fair to you

and i cant imagine how hard is this then.

If you have that kind of problems now imagine your whole life with that person. Do you wanna waste your life with somebody who will never respect you or love you on the way you deserve that?

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Thomas&Cleofe
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If the story here is factual...it sounds as if there is no innocent party in this relationship. Niether is showing respect for the other. In my opinion a true loving relationship requires "respect"

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The story that you tell does not sound like anything that will improve. Best to end it and move on.

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VJ Moderators... Seiously?? This OP has got to be a troll...

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lonelyMe   13

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oh yah but she didn't say that to her friends..even she mention here that he has small thingy in there. we don't know him personality. but her situation obviously his friend are making fun of her which is more worst because they know her personality. OUCH!!!

don't be hypocrite now. end of debate!!!!

thank you for trying to defend me :thumbs:

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Thomas&Cleofe   358

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thank you for trying to defend me :thumbs:

Oh, now I understand.

The OP does not want advice or suggestions on how, if possible, to fix the relationship.

She wants confirmation and approval to show disrespect to her SO, as he has done to her.

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lonelyMe   13

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awwwwwwww......I feel sorry for you.

You walk around this website with so much Godliness in your back pocket....then you claim that vengeance is the correct thing to do.

Who is the hypocrit?

Perhaps I feel sorry for you. If you are a male obviously you had nothing different with my fiancé. Very disrespectful to females!!! :(

Move on.

Its hard to be in a relationship when partners actualy love eatchoter because life isnt always fair to you

and i cant imagine how hard is this then.

If you have that kind of problems now imagine your whole life with that person. Do you wanna waste your life with somebody who will never respect you or love you on the way you deserve that?

thank you.

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Peter_Pan   661

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Sounds like an immature relationship. Really, he pokes a joke about a stuffed bra and you don't love him anymore? Wow, way to go with enduring love!


USCIS [*] 22 Nov. 2011 - I-129 package sent; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - Package delivered; [*] 25 Nov. 2011 - NOA1/petition received and routed to the California Service Center; [*] 30 Nov. 2011 - Touched/confirmation though text message and email; [*] 03 Dec. 2011 - Hard copy received; [*]24 April 2012 - NOA2 (no RFEs)/text message/email/USCIS account updated; [*] 27 April 2012 - NOA2 hard copy received.

NVC [*] 14 May 2012 - Petition received by NVC ; [*] 16 May 2012 - Petition left NVC.

EMBASSY [*] 18 May 2012 - Petition arrived at the US Embassy in Bucharest; [*] 22 May 2012 - Package 3 received; [*] 24 May 2012 - Package sent to the consulate, interview date set; [*] 14 June 2012 - Interview date, approved.

POE [*] 04 July 2012 - Minneapolis/St.Paul. [*] 16 September 2012 - Wedding Day!

AOS/EAD/AP [*] 04 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package sent; [*] 07 February 2013 - AOS/EAD/AP package delivered; [*] 12 February 2013 - NOA1 text messages/emails; [*] 16 February 2013 - NOA1 received in the regular mail; [*] 28 February 2013 - Biometrics letter received (appointment date, March 8th); [*] 04 March 2013 - Biometrics walk-in completed (9 out of 10 fingerprints taken, pinky would not give in); [*] 04 April 2013 - EAD/AP card approved; [*] 11 April 2013 - Combo card sent/tracking number obtained; [*] 15 April 2013 - Card delivered.

[*] 15 May 2013 - Moved from MN to LA; [*] 17 May 2013 - Applied for a new SS card/filed an AR-11 online (unsuccessfully), therefore called and spoke to a Tier 2 and changed the address; [*] 22 May 2013 - Address updated on My Case Status (finally can see the case numbers online); [*] 28 May 2013 - Letter received in the mail confirming the change of address; [*] 31 July 2013 - Went to Romania; [*] 12 September 2013 - returned to the US using the AP, POE Houston, everything went smoothly; [*] 20 September 2013 - Spoke to a Tier2 and put in a service request; [*] 23 September 2013 - Got "Possible Interview Waiver" letter (originally sent on August, 29th to my old address, returned and re-routed to my current address); [*] 1 October 2013 - Started a new job.

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Is this post true?..... It sounds elementary, disrespectful with no loyalty from either side. At the beginning I had to reread, did she say he metioned her "front" to a friend; so who is getting the GC?

This sounds like micky mouse biz....by the way judging from the posts everybody understood what front was meant to be I thought only Jamaicans referred to it that way :star:

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Is this post true?..... It sounds elementary, disrespectful with no loyalty from either side. At the beginning I had to reread, did she say he metioned her "front" to a friend; so who is getting the GC?

This sounds like micky mouse biz....by the way judging from the posts everybody understood what front was meant to be I thought only Jamaicans referred to it that way :star:

what loyalty have to do with disrespectful :bonk::bonk::rofl::rofl:

The longer it takes to happen the more you'll appreciate it when it does!

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lonelyMe   13

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Is this post true?..... It sounds elementary, disrespectful with no loyalty from either side. At the beginning I had to reread, did she say he metioned her "front" to a friend; so who is getting the GC?

This sounds like micky mouse biz....by the way judging from the posts everybody understood what front was meant to be I thought only Jamaicans referred to it that way :star:

excuse me maybe you should READ IT AGAIN....i think your missing a part PLEASE DON'T REPLY WITH YOUR NONSENSE!!!

:bonk::bonk::bonk::rofl::rofl:

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I guess the moral is that in order to look on what's inside, you buy nice clothing and a perfume.

A little advise there though - if you don't like the treatment you're getting, please don't point your fingers at that person only. It seems like you already had it in for him first time meeting him. Seems like it just caught on from there and on. Behaviour is contagious. People pick up on the things you don't say as well.

Cancel/withdraw the petition by sending a (mature) letter adressed to the embassy, include the embassy case number as well.

Move on but please don't forget you ever met. Experience, fail or not, helps you improve in your future relationships.

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Trolololol..

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K1 process, October 2010 > POE, July 2011

I-129F approved in 180 days from NOA1 date. (195 days from filing to NOA2 in hand)

Interview took 224 days from I-129F NOA1 date. (241 days from filing petition until visa in hand)

From filing I-129F petition until POE: 285 days

Click timeline or "about me" for all details.

AOS process, December 2011 > July 2012

EAD/AP Approval took 51 days from NOA1 date to email update. (77 days from filing until EAD/AP in hand)

AOS Approval took 206 days from NOA1 date to email update. (231 days from filing until greencard in hand)

From filing I-129F petition until greencard in hand: 655 days

Click timeline or "about me" for all details.

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Mark + Melissa   49

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If the story here is factual...it sounds as if there is no innocent party in this relationship. Niether is showing respect for the other.

In my opinion a true loving relationship requires "respect" for your partner.

Agreed, and just be what's being described, she sounds, and makes his behavior sound, immature - perhaps just out of teens? I know that may be strange to comment on, but not yet ready for the ups and downs and commitment needed for relationship.

After all, she dressed him up like you would a doll because she didn't like how he looked and smelled. And he's telling strangers she pads her bra, and she's worried he doesn't like how SHE looks A relationship shouldn't attempt to change people's habits. Compromise is one thing, trying to remake someone is something else entirely. Either you love him the way he IS, and he loves YOU the way you are, or you both need to walk away.

And looking at the post above me.. yeah.. I'm thinking she's just a kid trying to get approval for her behavior lol

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Without love marriage would be a recipe for disaster. I am sorry but reading your thread i don't think your relationship is based in love, love comes with respect. I don't think he is the right guy for you and you are not the right girl for him. I truly believe opposite attracts but similarities stay together.

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