Abusive relationship

[Shiobhan 235]

Were she gonna be a stepping stone to get here? U say she 10 yrs older, has low self esteem, U cant look at other females, she accuses U of flirting with her neice and she beats U wow.......dont know who got self esteem issue but its best to leave

so U can return another time.....but U say U dont want to g back to your country, so on vacation did U think it was ok she 10 yrs older.....get our friends to help U with a ticket, dont get deported and ban...............come back another time

[Michel and Kim 4]

Man I'm so sorry to hear!

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

This is probably a troll too many discrepancies.

[The_King 1]

Were she gonna be a stepping stone to get here? U say she 10 yrs older, has low self esteem, U cant look at other females, she accuses U of flirting with her neice and she beats U wow.......dont know who got self esteem issue but its best to leave

so U can return another time.....but U say U dont want to g back to your country, so on vacation did U think it was ok she 10 yrs older.....get our friends to help U with a ticket, dont get deported and ban...............come back another time

I have never had a problem with my wife's age, money or anything else. I do not flirt with other females. My wife has low self esteem and other problems. Do not judge me. I assure my wife that I love her. But she is very strange.

[djricky4 67]

The OP is in a very difficult position. you need to have a serious talk with your wife cause you need to get at least an EAD so you can get a job to help out. did she use a co sponsor for the I-134?

Edited August 22, 2012 by djricky4

[The_King 1]

This is probably a troll too many discrepancies.

My wife belittle's herself constantly, regardless of my words of comfort.

it sounds like there are a lot of missing pieces of the story. If you are so miserable and have friends here, im pretty sure they can help you go back home. She is now making $6 hr, but was able to bring you here hmmmmmm doesn't sound right to me.

I never said I had many friends here in America. I just met them recently. I tell them my story and they all are concerned.

The OP is in a very difficult position. I hope you can get a chance to go speak to an immigration lawyer regarding your case.

I hope so too my friend. Thank you!

OP is not from England.

If you're from Liberia I am certain your views about running back home will be different.

He'll be going back ashamed and looked at as a failure.

[SingleDad2usc 71]

even if a troll - sure beats ALL long-time members, whose only answer on IMMIGRATION forum is go back home. I'm more ashamed of them than of OP, living with an Abuser and striving to educate himself

[The_King 1]

I thought the petitioner had to prove they could support the NUSC?

And also what is so bad about going home? As much as I love the US I would go straight home should anything ever happen to my realationship......this is why we go through the tiresome visa process to prove we want to be with the USC and not just to gain entry to the US......the US was surely not your goal......your wife was? Im sorry if it hasn't worked out but surely you had a life/family/friends back home that you want to return to?

Yes she had a better job before i moved here. After i moved poverty was in affect.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

You'll need the aid/help of the social service agency. Your wife needs some mental health service. Please seek the help/aid of an social service agency before it is too late.

[nate and riyn 11]

after all this OP's advise, come back in this forum and tell us what happen and the result

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

even if a troll - sure beats ALL long-time members, whose only answer on IMMIGRATION forum is go back home. I'm more ashamed of them than of OP, living with an Abuser and striving to educate himself

As I have less tolerance of you who have taken the "S" out of serious. Every situation is not a vawa, nor should every immigrate stay in the US if their new life is not working out.

[TimeTravel 78]

You're not experiencing abuse, you're experiencing poverty.

+1

[SingleDad2usc 71]

I agree that every situation is not VAWA, but OP is not far from it. If genders were reversed, no one would doubt VAWA. As far as not stay - that's not why people seek advice on immigration forum. Don't turn immigration forum into anti-immigration forum

As I have less tolerance of you who have taken the "S" out of serious. Every situation is not a vawa, nor should every immigrate stay in the US if their new life is not working out.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

I agree that every situation is not VAWA, but OP is not far from it. If genders were reversed, no one would doubt VAWA. As far as not stay - that's not why people seek advice on immigration forum. Don't turn immigration forum into anti-immigration forum

There was nothing that was stated orginally that indicated that there was any kind of abuse happen. You wants to turn every situation ino your new found toy. If Mr. King wants out of his marriage it's quite simple, open the front/back door and leave. He is not being held hostage in his room.

What he doesn't want to do is leave without his newfound toys, or waiting for someone like you to offer him some new ones.

This is just a martial situation that should never have happen in the 1st place. He is the only one that will know if he would be safer and happy on the streets of US, or back a home on familiar grounds.

Edited August 22, 2012 by LIFE'SJOURNEY

[Mark + Melissa 49]

My friends some Liberian and some American are willing to help me financially. My paperwork is ready I just need help as far a money and a sponsor. But do I need to be with my wife to adjust?

Yes - you have to be married to your wife, and proving a relationship. Doesn't sound like you have what you need to prove it. If you do not have the money to file for AOS, you will have problems as your status will expire. If you do not stay with her you cannot adjust status no matter who pays for it, and you will then be here illegally. If you are as miserable as you sound, your best bet is to request assistance returning to home country, and working out the divorce