Finding a new "inner voice"

[NY_BX 397]

I'm just relieved Hot Guy didn't marry NY_BX's husband-OMG, the sparks that would fly!

Can you imagine?

[tenderheartusa79 14]

I'm not happy nor am I disappointed in my husband for not being religious. Whatever makes him comfortable is fine with me. Religiousness is a choice not an obligation IMO. If you're religious, good for you. Don't judge me or my husband for our choices because I surely won't judge you. Remember, God is the most perfect of judges.

I'm not trying to judge you neither your husband .And what i want to say about him not practicing in Egypt is the Islam is build on five pillars (1) the Shahada (Islamic creed), (2) daily prayers (Salah), (3) almsgiving (Zakat), (4) fasting during Ramadan (Sawm), and (5) the Pilgrimage (hajj) at least once in a lifetime.

And the prophet Muhammad ( PBUH) says : the difference between believer and non-believer is appending the prayers .So as you just said its his choice and he is comfortable this way .

And about the lesbians wedding i already said its against God's law .And its against both religions ( Christianity and Islam ) So it you want to support something like this its up to you .

[tenderheartusa79 14]

I'm just relieved Hot Guy didn't marry NY_BX's husband-OMG, the sparks that would fly!

Well i really can say something back to you but i ain't going to .Because I'm a polite Muslim man .And i ain't going down to your level .

[NY_BX 397]

Well i really can say something back to you but i ain't going to .Because I'm a polite Muslim man .And i ain't going down to your level .

Well, I will.

Please stop lecturing others. Mithra and Sandinista are to be respected. This is exactly the issue with a handful of religious fanatics! How dare you say you are "going down to your level"? Are you better than anyone else? All you proved here is that you're otherwise.

So, if you're judging others because of sexual orientation or you simply have no sense of humor, then entertain yourself somewhere else....

[sweetlymystic 19]

Such a humorous beginning in this forum..and then here...someone has to throw in their rights and wrongs.Come on..seriously...Just Be Happy. To each their Own. Just Love one another.

[Nasturtium 500]

I'm not trying to judge you neither your husband .And what i want to say about him not practicing in Egypt is the Islam is build on five pillars (1) the Shahada (Islamic creed), (2) daily prayers (Salah), (3) almsgiving (Zakat), (4) fasting during Ramadan (Sawm), and (5) the Pilgrimage (hajj) at least once in a lifetime.

And the prophet Muhammad ( PBUH) says : the difference between believer and non-believer is appending the prayers .So as you just said its his choice and he is comfortable this way .

And about the lesbians wedding i already said its against God's law .And its against both religions ( Christianity and Islam ) So it you want to support something like this its up to you .

You keep talking about Christianity, but all the people you're talking to are not Christian-- and thus I don't think they give a flip what Christianity has to say on the subject. I'm decently sure the Muslim ones know their Islamic rules and have made their own choices. So are you saying that we can't expect you to take off your shirt at your next sighting of a lesbian couple and dance? Because that would be pretty awesome... it could be a new game-- like perdidle of sorts?

[NY_BX 397]

Such a humorous beginning in this forum..and then here...someone has to throw in their rights and wrongs.Come on..seriously...Just Be Happy. To each their Own. Just Love one another.

And not even that, the preachy tone is off-putting. Who is this person to talk about God's law?

Anyways, back to the topic....

More humor please

[Nasturtium 500]

I'm just relieved Hot Guy didn't marry NY_BX's husband-OMG, the sparks that would fly!

Can you imagine? Oh, it would be AMAZING. Like the odd couple only with a lot of MO.

[Nasturtium 500]

Well, my husband didn't really have any issues here nor in Jordan. He had obvious cultural adjustment, and mostly it was a matter of learning new laws. he's pretty laid back though, and had already spent time living alone out of the country before. As far as his experience with LGBTQ-- we worked in the field with a lesbian, and he had no issues working with her-- regardless of his religious views. Work is work. He also was quite friendly with her out of the field. It's called proper upbringing and basic manners.

[NY_BX 397]

You keep talking about Christianity, but all the people you're talking to are not Christian-- and thus I don't think they give a flip what Christianity has to say on the subject. I'm decently sure the Muslim ones know their Islamic rules and have made their own choices. So are you saying that we can't expect you to take off your shirt at your next sighting of a lesbian couple and dance? Because that would be pretty awesome... it could be a new game-- like perdidle of sorts?

Thank you for the humor......

Can you imagine? Oh, it would be AMAZING. Like the odd couple only with a lot of MO.

It would odd.... but AMAZNIG indeed.

Well, my husband didn't really have any issues here nor in Jordan. He had obvious cultural adjustment, and mostly it was a matter of learning new laws. he's pretty laid back though, and had already spent time living alone out of the country before. As far as his experience with LGBTQ-- we worked in the field with a lesbian, and he had no issues working with her-- regardless of his religious views. Work is work. He also was quite friendly with her out of the field. It's called proper upbringing and basic manners.

... and common sense.

[Mithra 1,185]

I'm not Christian. I'm aware of the five pillars of Islam.

I'm not trying to judge you neither your husband .And what i want to say about him not practicing in Egypt is the Islam is build on five pillars (1) the Shahada (Islamic creed), (2) daily prayers (Salah), (3) almsgiving (Zakat), (4) fasting during Ramadan (Sawm), and (5) the Pilgrimage (hajj) at least once in a lifetime.

And the prophet Muhammad ( PBUH) says : the difference between believer and non-believer is appending the prayers .So as you just said its his choice and he is comfortable this way .

And about the lesbians wedding i already said its against God's law .And its against both religions ( Christianity and Islam ) So it you want to support something like this its up to you .

[NY_BX 397]

I'm not Christian. I'm aware of the five pillars of Islam.

Don't waste your time engaging with this HotGuy.... (no pun intended)

Edited August 22, 2012 by NY_BX

[Nasturtium 500]

I'm not Christian. I'm aware of the five pillars of Islam.

Well, you're losing the MO because you're not doing enough of the "I sayeth Ctrl+v."

[sweetlymystic 19]

Needless to say...I am waiting so patiently for the USCIS, who seemingly hold the decision of when I can continue to the next step to being closer to the holder of my heart in their extremely slow hands(or my file is still sitting somehwere in a box on the floor) ---That having a sense of humor...and hearing wonderful stories of others --whose completed their journey and our now enjoying their union as one ----that it eases the pain of this horrendously aching wait.YES!!!!!LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE!!!!ThANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[NY_BX 397]

Needless to say...I am waiting so patiently for the USCIS, who seemingly hold the decision of when I can continue to the next step to being closer to the holder of my heart in their extremely slow hands(or my file is still sitting somehwere in a box on the floor) ---That having a sense of humor...and hearing wonderful stories of others --whose completed their journey and our now enjoying their union as one ----that it eases the pain of this horrendously aching wait.YES!!!!!LAUGHTER IS THE BEST MEDICINE!!!!ThANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Listen to you! It gets better, I promise. And in VJ for the most part we hear horror stories of scams, abuse, abandonment and fraud... is good to lighten up with quirky stories such as....