What to do?

[duriantaste 44]

Is that what YOU would do if I told you YOUR wife was telling ME that she loves me in emails and chats?

Well, I can be wrong but I don't think you are her type Just joking. If she tells me she loves you is very simple. I tell her look L'ee, I really love you but if you think you will be happier with Dave, go and head girl and be happy. I kiss her cheek and tells what next? Of course I will be hurt but as long that she is happy that is what it matters.

Simple as adding 1+1

[Messybrownhair 251]

I would leave her. End of story.

[duriantaste 44]

You are making me go with your posts. I am going to need a to get back on track.

why it is that hard to let things go and try to just move on? Maybe they will have a cute future, who knows !

[Messybrownhair 251]

Change your locks, all bank accounts, file for divorce, pull your i864..do an infopass and report it. Protect yourself. Dont be alone with her and document her attempts to contact you.

[duriantaste 44]

Change your locks, all bank accounts, file for divorce, pull your i864..do an infopass and report it. Protect yourself. Dont be alone with her and document her attempts to contact you.

That is so so wrong and rude. You are accusing her of other things. All she feels in her heart is love for some one. I doubt that is wrong doing as long that she is not acting on it.

[Rob&Ema 12]

Really, when it's over, it's completely over. I saw my friend in Brisbane get put through the ringer by a filipina. She married him and spent most of the time down with her cousin in Lismore, NSW. I was there. She used him, while being hooked up with another guy, then she filed false charges of abuse, which she had no proof of, and then

She tried to sue him for what he had. When she went back to the Philippines she filled a complaint with the enbassy and they put him on a black list and they wouldn't let him into the country. He has jumped through hoops trying to get his name cleared and be able to be with his current gf. They have to meet in Thialand to see each other, she's from the Pi.

I don't know world your living in, but you have to cover your ####. People will try to get even or stick it to you when you catch them in lies and won't put up with it.

[Messybrownhair 251]

That is so so wrong and rude. You are accusing her of other things. All she feels in her heart is love for some one. I doubt that is wrong doing as long that she is not acting on it.

How is that rude? OP already said she left. Just giving advice so he can protect himself in case she attempts to claim abuse. Plus Im sorry but in my book going around skyping people and saying I love you when married is very wrong and unjustifiable. You marry someone then you make a choice to be faithful. Chatting I love you to an old flame is definitely acting on it. Sometimes emotional affairs are far more devastating than physical ones.

Edited August 16, 2012 by Messybrownhair

[MuDelphi 159]

That is so so wrong and rude. You are accusing her of other things. All she feels in her heart is love for some one. I doubt that is wrong doing as long that she is not acting on it.

Stop trolling.

[duriantaste 44]

Few weeks or months from now, I hope he comes back saying that he was sorry and they are back together.

[sunandmoon 450]

someone is happy in this thread. more attention than he's gotten in months.

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

someone is happy in this thread. more attention than he's gotten in months.

I imagine that someone was giggling with excitement when that someone spotted this thread.

[BRB 6]

Few weeks or months from now, I hope he comes back saying that he was sorry and they are back together.

You are living in a dream world. In the real world she told an ex boy-friend she loved him and he caught her in the act. Send her sorry cheating A** back to the Philippines. They have only been married for 9 months!!! He gave this girl his heart and he took the time, energy and money to bring her to the US. She would love to stay in the US get her citizenship divorce the OP take the money and then bring her love to the mainland. I would not even give her a chance to have that opportunitiy. There are boatloads of good women out there that he can fall in love with. Why should he waste his time on her? This is the time to suck it up and put your big boy pants on and move on. He will be glad he did when he finds someone that will treat him as well as he treats her.

[actob99 156]

Greg...You did the right thing for the right reason.

Cheating is wrong. Hiding the cheating confirms it's cheating. Lying about it further confirms it's cheating. There can't be love without trust and honesty. She is neither trustworthy nor honest. Life is too short to put up with her #######.

File for divorce. Pull your I-864 if you still can. Also, email the USCIS and tell them what happened. Change the locks. Protect your bank account, credit cards, and assets. Never be alone with her under any circumstances, because she might claim abuse. She could ruin your life with false charges.

Be strong, brother. Suck it up and move on. The sooner you start, the sooner she'll be a distant memory.

. OP - Biggest point is she lied to you

[duriantaste 44]

You are living in a dream world. In the real world she told an ex boy-friend she loved him and he caught her in the act. Send her sorry cheating A** back to the Philippines. They have only been married for 9 months!!! He gave this girl his heart and he took the time, energy and money to bring her to the US. She would love to stay in the US get her citizenship divorce the OP take the money and then bring her love to the mainland. I would not even give her a chance to have that opportunitiy. There are boatloads of good women out there that he can fall in love with. Why should he waste his time on her? This is the time to suck it up and put your big boy pants on and move on. He will be glad he did when he finds someone that will treat him as well as he treats her.

Thanks, now I understand why so many divorce. Just because she said she loves her ex, I never read from the OP that she told the OP that she wants to become a USC, divorces him, and take his money. I think you are making that up?

Hey she has a heart and her heart is feeling for her ex. Maybe she said she loves her ex to get some attention from him. You don't know women.

I think they should go back but both need to be careful.

For once, he is too much jealous. But at the same time she needs to take her place of a wife and give him a bit more respect and let the feeling that she feels for her x to banish bit by bit.

End of my advice.

[actob99 156]

You don't know women.

End of my advice.

Actually, I question this with reading all of your posts over my journey here and I question if your not a bakla?

Thanks for your wisdom and we will see you on the next trolling adventure!