where are they?

[valentine 0]

Sorry,Mollyandstephen for the mixup.Thanks for the clarification.Optymistic its nice to know your doing fine.I read through Valentines threads and i must say i wish him the best.he's somewhat desperate i believe.

Debouy, nice to hear from,I am now in naija and still read once a week.

This forum used to be a place to seek help before,but some people critizies instead of giving worthy

counsel,anyway I am so busy here in naija and post once in a while.

I appreciate you all,God will be with you guys.

Yes I am desperate,I agree,but not a law breaker and some people don't fully understand

how funny, this akata girls can treat some foriegn spouse.

Wish you all the best all vj memebers.

I do have some people I relate with here personally and I post at will.

Love you all.

Edited October 25, 2006 by valentine

[felshen 0]

hey Felshen,

I remeber you! Hows everything? Any news from the guys i mentioned above? Hey what about Michael? Hows he doing?

Everything is going well for us. Michael is working and Finally getting settled into a routine. He got his US drivers Liscense yesterday and ia so excited about that! We are building a new house and hope to move in by the Summer.TMKUTI and KWEALTHY are doing well and will be joining us for Thanksgiving Dinner. Auntie Kathleen, as the children call her, is waiting for her Hubby to follow with his CR-1. Tamiika and David are well. David arrived shortly after Michael arrived, they spent Labor Day weekend with us. It was awesome, and they will be moving here in Feb for good! So we will have some of our VJ family close by.

How are things going with you?

[AubreyJ 0]

I guess I'm kind of an old timer... I've just gotten so busy now that my hubby's here, but I still come on to lurk occasionally too

[debouy 0]

I guess I'm kind of an old timer... I've just gotten so busy now that my hubby's here, but I still come on to lurk occasionally too

WoW!!! Felshen.sounds to me like you got VJ community and you are keeping things tight as family over there.Great to hear about your house...Pls extend my regards to TMKuti and hubby...I wish aunty Katleen and hubby well in the upcoming interview.Me and my fiance are going through some drama right now.Real difficult though..But we working it out.

Hey Aubrey,I remember you....HI

[ursy 0]

Sorry,Mollyandstephen for the mixup.Thanks for the clarification.Optymistic its nice to know your doing fine.I read through Valentines threads and i must say i wish him the best.he's somewhat desperate i believe.

It sounds like a lot of you were VJ dependent. It sounds quite pathetic to me.

[joej 0]

I'm still around too. I don't post as much as I used to, but am available if anyone ever want's to pm me. Dave, I and our baby are doing pretty good. Things are pretty routine and we are just trying to live a normal life, now that the visa process is almost done. I quit posting so much lately, because we have had a series of unfortunate events that have taken my time away from lurking around here. But things are getting better where that is concerned.

Anyway, it is good to hear from everyone, and good to hear from the old timers who are enjoying their married lives still as I am.

Jodi

Sorry,Mollyandstephen for the mixup.Thanks for the clarification.Optymistic its nice to know your doing fine.I read through Valentines threads and i must say i wish him the best.he's somewhat desperate i believe.

It sounds like a lot of you were VJ dependent. It sounds quite pathetic to me.

Is this a joke? Looks like someone wants to start drama.

[ursy 0]

I'm still around too. I don't post as much as I used to, but am available if anyone ever want's to pm me. Dave, I and our baby are doing pretty good. Things are pretty routine and we are just trying to live a normal life, now that the visa process is almost done. I quit posting so much lately, because we have had a series of unfortunate events that have taken my time away from lurking around here. But things are getting better where that is concerned.

Anyway, it is good to hear from everyone, and good to hear from the old timers who are enjoying their married lives still as I am.

Jodi

Sorry,Mollyandstephen for the mixup.Thanks for the clarification.Optymistic its nice to know your doing fine.I read through Valentines threads and i must say i wish him the best.he's somewhat desperate i believe.

It sounds like a lot of you were VJ dependent. It sounds quite pathetic to me.

Is this a joke? Looks like someone wants to start drama.

Actually my reply was not a joke nor was it made to initiate drama. I just think the comments sounded like there were a few extreme VJ dependent people in the past. I am just voicing my opinion. I have been reading replies since June yet I only comment when I choose too. So the answer to your drama question is NO I don't want to start drama . I am not the one starving for attention.

[felshen 0]

I guess I'm kind of an old timer... I've just gotten so busy now that my hubby's here, but I still come on to lurk occasionally too

WoW!!! Felshen.sounds to me like you got VJ community and you are keeping things tight as family over there.Great to hear about your house...Pls extend my regards to TMKuti and hubby...I wish aunty Katleen and hubby well in the upcoming interview.Me and my fiance are going through some drama right now.Real difficult though..But we working it out.

Hey Aubrey,I remember you....HI

Sorry to hear that you guys are having some issues right now. We all go through that its a part of growing together I think. Stay strong and COMMUNICATE with each other no matter how hard it may seem. I have to catch myself even now and remind myself that its a process. I will keep you guys in my prayers.

Edited October 31, 2006 by felshen

[mandolinv 0]

I'm still here. Mostly lurking. I gave an update a little while back, so I won't bother doing it again. I get by about once every few weeks. I, like many of the "old timers" don't post often because most of the advice I would give is being given. If I find something missing, I always stick my 2 cents in there.

[debouy 0]

Is there anything wrong in being VJ depedent? Urzy,i dont get what you mean. Mandolinv,felshen,aubrey,moolyandstephen nice to hear from y'all.

Hows

Lekan,

Tamika,

[ursy 0]

Is there anything wrong in being VJ depedent? Urzy,i dont get what you mean. Mandolinv,felshen,aubrey,moolyandstephen nice to hear from y'all.

Hows

Lekan,

Tamika,

In my opinion(which I am entitled to)some appear to be extreme. The comment was made because I considered the comments of others to be extreme. Just for your information, what is considered to be extreme to one person may not be to another.

[forchika 4]

I guess I can consider my myself VJ dependent I come here on a daily basis maybe even two times a day. To see if any new post are in the forum and also to view the new post. I even come on to play the Visa Journey Trivia Challenge everyday. If its interview time for others I may come on more than twice a day so that I can instantly see what happened and read all the CONGRATGULATIONS for being approved at the interview. COUNT ME IN I AM VJ DEPENDENT

Edited November 3, 2006 by forchika

[ursy 0]

Is there anything wrong in being VJ depedent? Urzy,i dont get what you mean. Mandolinv,felshen,aubrey,moolyandstephen nice to hear from y'all.

Hows

Lekan,

Tamika,

In my opinion(which I am entitled to)some appear to be extreme. The comment was made because I considered the comments of others to be extreme. Just for your information, what is considered to be extreme to one person may not be to another.

]VJ dependent was referring to people who come back months and years later looking for people, asking about their personal lives . I come here daily for info. not family support.

But as I said earlier perhaps that is a character difference and a total matter of opinion based on Personalities!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Edited November 3, 2006 by ursy

[forchika 4]

Thanks for clearing that up for me Ursy I totally misunderstood, personally I think that I would come back to VJ after process to check on my fellow VJ members in this forum.

[rprater 0]

Is there anything wrong in being VJ depedent? Urzy,i dont get what you mean. Mandolinv,felshen,aubrey,moolyandstephen nice to hear from y'all.

Hows

Lekan,

Tamika,

In my opinion(which I am entitled to)some appear to be extreme. The comment was made because I considered the comments of others to be extreme. Just for your information, what is considered to be extreme to one person may not be to another.

]VJ dependent was referring to people who come back months and years later looking for people, asking about their personal lives . I come here daily for info. not family support.

But as I said earlier perhaps that is a character difference and a total matter of opinion based on Personalities!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHY SO MEAN, DAMN SHAME