Why Do Men Have Such Trouble With Intimacy?

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

I'm asking you. You made the statement "it's okay to be a man" ... you can't back that up if someone questions you? A shame.

Lame. My response is already in the context of my previous posts.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

Lame. My response is already in the context of my previous posts.

No, it isn't, otherwise I wouldn't have asked.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

No, it isn't, otherwise I wouldn't have asked.

Now you are just being annoying. Real men are not annoying.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

Now you are just being annoying. Real men are not annoying.

That's my question ... what's a real man? Who decides? You?

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Karezza connection has solved the intimacy problems for some

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/380738-hot-new-no-orgasm-sex-called-karezza/page__pid__5581343#entry5581343

[Teddy B 17,252]

I find it hard to believe that this article was written in this century. With all of these "metrosexual men" we have running around these days that are "in touch with their feminine side", I would say the type of man that is the focus of the article is a dying breed.

I agree it's ok to show emotion once in a while, but like Abbitual Offender said, a man that shows too much emotion is usually out the door.

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

That's my question ... what's a real man? Who decides? You?

[Penny Lane 8,159]

So you're not going to answer. Didn't think so. Thanks.

[akihon 129]

They want to talk about you. Gossipy little tarts.

guess they don't realize that the acoustics of bathrooms actually amplify their voices and they can actually be heard outside.

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guess they don't realize that the acoustics of bathrooms actually amplify their voices and they can actually be heard outside.

Do you try to listen?

I don't anymore. I did when i was younger. I realized some things are better left unheard. As long as she's good to you, who cares that she tells her friends about your occasional inability to perform ...

[JohnR! 5,495]

That's my question ... what's a real man? Who decides? You?

Truth is that each man decides what makes him a man. No two men will give you the same answer.

So in a sense what the other poster claims can be true in his case, but he does not speak for all men. Not all of us are that insecure.

Edited August 10, 2012 by Gegel

[akihon 129]

Do you try to listen?

I don't anymore. I did when i was younger. I realized some things are better left unheard. As long as she's good to you, who cares that she tells her friends about your occasional inability to perform ...

lol no, sometimes you don't even have to try to be able to hear them. I'm also female. I've walked into bathrooms before to tell the gossips that their topic of discussion can hear them loud and clear.

The looks on their faces at this are so satisfying.

Edited August 10, 2012 by mebbe

[Penny Lane 8,159]

Truth is that each man decides what makes him a man. No two men will give you the same answer.

So in a sense what the other poster claims can be true in his case, but he does not speak for all men. Not all of us are that insecure.

That's kind of what I was getting at. Why are some men taking it upon themselves to decide who else are "real men" and fit their standards? Seem bizarre. I don't have a checklist as to what makes a "real woman" ...

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

I realized some things are better left unheard.

You just about nailed it. Good thing they take that silly stuff away from the table. Ah, the good old days when the men retired to the study to smoke their cigars and discuss things of substance away from the frivolity of women.

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That's kind of what I was getting at. Why are some men taking it upon themselves to decide who else are "real men" and fit their standards? Seem bizarre. I don't have a checklist as to what makes a "real woman" ...

a real woman can make any functioning male get a ####### within 30 seconds if she wants to.

it's not that difficult.