Fiancee left

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If you have filled out an affidavit of support, and she becomes public charge, you may be responsible for her. I'd suggest you contact ICE and inform them.

They didn't have time to do anything like marriage so no AOS.

OP is damn lucky actually. He should kill two chickens in celebration.

[missphilly 1]

Hey Everyone, need some advice.

After my fiancee arrived, it then left me after a few weeks. Still in country as far as I know. What couse of action should I take to prevent a fraud charge against me?

OMG sorry to hear that... But where she from?

[mrs_gonzo 9]

People are judging here to quickly. Maybe she left for a good reason?!? People indicate she tries to scam him. Maybe she realized she didn't love him? Or maybe he wasn't the same person anymore when she got here. He thinks shes still in the states, WHO CARES? There are multiple plausible reasons.. Who knows .... We should judge anybody so fast, but I've seen in sooo many times on VJ.

But if she realized she didn't love him anymore, or it didn't fit, why would she leave without saying anything? I mean things change, feelings can change, that's human and something you should be able to talk about. Leaving just like that is not ok, whatever the reason may be!

So sorry for your situation!

[Sandra G. 5,048]

I am so sorry for you, but always look on the bright side of life, you didn't married a scammer. Give some time to heal and find love again.Good luck..

[bigdog 376]

I would at least file a simple report (incident report) with your local police. It will show you are a good guy did the right thing. At least you documented it with the authorities and move on. No missing person, shes not missing just left with her stuff. Good Luck and Sorry to here this. No personal contact no alone time to avoid a false criminal complaint.

[Lonelywithouthim 5]

No, we have not married. She has access to nothing. Was not here long enough.... no key to the house. 3 days, then split.

She left 3 days later???? That is insane. She didn't give the relationship a chance to make any decision. I'm sorry for all your trouble but this looks like a scam. It's a blessing to go through it now than later....good luck to you.

[SHAZBOT&NUNO 4]

Pronto it is! I am really sorry this is happening to you. Have you identified any signs that something was going on behind your back? Maybe you could list them for everyone's benefit.

Again, Sorry for this mess.

No, nothing that I can think of....and believe me, I'm really intuitive when it comes to people. Always knew this was a risk...but never discussed it openly.

[SHAZBOT&NUNO 4]

As others have said sorry to hear about your situation. I remember my friend who was from Thailand telling me, that when she came to america via the K1 129F, after 5 days she had no choice but to leave him and return to Thailand. Reason being, he was not the same person she met online or in person, she felt he was a drunk and only wanted a maid. I am not saying that this is the case in the situation above, but I am sure she has her version as why she left so quickly.

This was no overnight wam bam thankyou man, kinda deal. We have been vacationing together for over 3 years. All kinds of petty, ridiculous excuses, were thrown at me....and I do mean petty. I do not drink, or abuse people....and I do not hold people to any unreal expectations. You are who you are...live with it, or leave it.

[SHAZBOT&NUNO 4]

If you have filled out an affidavit of support, and she becomes public charge, you may be responsible for her. I'd suggest you contact ICE and inform them.

I intend to do that. That's also something I was wondering about...and I do not believe (if memory serves me correctly) that marriage is a prerequisite for action on her part there. Someone please help me out with this one?

Of course I worry about her self-inflicted desposition. She's a stranger in a strange land....with little or no support that I can think of.

I have a nice home, not perfect...but modern and clean. I was going to buy her a new car, set her up with school(English study), insure her with an excellent medical plan, ect, ect...but always only with her approval.

We had lots of plans to further travel together....

Peeps keep telling me to let her go. I have no choice in that matter! I'm not a 16 year old crying in my Ovaltine! Life dealt me a hand of cards in this....I played them. She had a card up her sleeve. So it goes. I want to make sure I wasn't dealt a stacked deck.

[happiestmanalive 23]

Sorry to hear what happened to you. People suck. Glad you can keep your head up. And crying into ovaltine sometimes helps

[mishka1 17]

Hey Everyone, need some advice.

After my fiancee arrived, it then left me after a few weeks. Still in country as far as I know. What couse of action should I take to prevent a fraud charge against me?

Hello I feel for your anguish and pain, it is not because she left you, she is not worthy, but for the tedious, financial cost and nerve breaking journey all petitioners are going through to get their I-129F petition approved. I read all responses from other VJ members, some of them are supporting and true and others are not. For sure that person was communicating with someone else after you started the petition process, and both of them used you as a spring board for her to come to USA after you took care of all the expenses ( documentation, I-129 filing fees, MRV fee, and for sure airfare from whatever country she is citizen of to USA, etc.). In my person opinion, she was tutored very well by the other person before arriving to USA. Although she cannot marry any one at the time being other than the petitioner, but she can adjust her status on the basis of cruelty and Fear from you through the VAWA HELP. She might reported herself to women’s shelter either in your town or in the town of the other person. Domestic violence laws are unfair to honest men and women as well, the person does not have to hit the other or cause any body bruises or Injury, it is enough to say “ MY PARTNER IS LOOKING AT ME WITH THAT LOOK AND I’m AFFRIAD TO BE WITH HIM/HER AND I FEAR ON MY LIFE, JUST ONE WORD FEAR” And from the women shelter the VAWA journey starts, and at this organization there are lot of PRO BONO attorneys who want to make name for themselves and take the cases to the Immigration to Adjust the Status. And Hurrah, she adjust her status and marry the other person. There are group of people who are benefited from VAWA, and they force women to revolt because they needs to proof that they are helping battered or domestically abused women, and A copied this for you to understand how those groups fight to maintain funding from Congress “ Unless a miracle happens this week OR we put on the heat, Congress will be home for the rest of August until after Labor Day without having passed a bipartisan VAWA that protects all victims. We need to tell Congress this is outrageous!”

Some respondents to your post state you are not affected at USCIS level, but in FACT you will be on the record as a petitioner who got approved fiancée petition. If you will file another petition in the future you have to submit a WAIVER letter with documentation explaining why the director of the USCIS center who is processing your future petition has to approve it .

Most Important, as you know, your running away Bxxxh for sure wrote down your home address on her Customs Declaration form 6059B and on her I-94, accordingly I suggest the following

1- File report at the police station about her disappearance stating because your home address was listed on above mentioned two forms.

2- Write a letter to the USCIS who processed your I-129F petition explaining what happened (include her A # that is on the NOA2, her birthday, for sure you have copies of her passport, and any documents that you submitted for your I-129F petition). Send the letter registered, you might not get any response fro the USCIS center, but at least you reported the case as a bon a fide petitioner

3- In case she try to call you (report her as stalker, since phone records usually show from to phone Numbers) but I doubt if she will do that you have been setup for VAWA.

4- AS OTHERS CORRESPONDENTSTO YOUR POST REGROUP AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE.

[LIFE'SJOURNEY 970]

1st you need to file a missing person report, if you truly have had no contact with her since she left or disappeared. This will only help you later on down the road.

[mishka1 17]

Watch out! She'll be back once she finds out that she can't get a green card except through marriage to the K1 petitioner. This has happened numerous times here on VJ. Many scammers don't do their research before coming to the US. They have their eyes focused only on the visa. They come to the US, dump the petitioner and hit the road, and then find out that they cut the cord too quickly. They can't get a green card by marrying their secret boyfriend, and they can't file a VAWA claim. This is when they start trying to patch things up with the petitioner, saying they got scared and panicked. When that doesn't work she'll probably offer you some cash if you marry her and help her get a green card.

Save any correspondence for your fraud evidence package.

Jim, she can file VAWA claim, if she was tutored to register herself and stay in women's shelter, by claiming she has FEAR to stay with her petitioner, or afraid on her life, do you know that domestic violence laws could get any one arrested male or female, by just say the magic word FEAR, or my partner is looking at me that threatening look. And as you know that VAWA pro bono lawyers needs the congress to keep funding VAWA, accordingly they need to have recorded of abused women either falsely claimed or not. Believe me those attorneys will take the case to USCIS and will adjust in this case her status.

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Jim, she can file VAWA claim, if she was tutored to register herself and stay in women's shelter, by claiming she has FEAR to stay with her petitioner, or afraid on her life, do you know that domestic violence laws could get any one arrested male or female, by just say the magic word FEAR, or my partner is looking at me that threatening look. And as you know that VAWA pro bono lawyers needs the congress to keep funding VAWA, accordingly they need to have recorded of abused women either falsely claimed or not. Believe me those attorneys will take the case to USCIS and will adjust in this case her status.

Very true.

[Ihavequestions 419]

NOBODY travels to a foreign country, the US or otherwise, to be with someone then up and bolts - immediately - without a support system in place.

The chances are good she's been schooled. Protect yourself.