Disaster in the making?

[confusedasheck 21]

My wife was telling me about her friend. He lives in the US now and was introduced to a girl by his friend in Vietnam. They met for the first time after a year of talking and had a dam hoi (he spent a month with her during the first visit). Now he plans to gets married by the end of this year.

He's young and has no job. I'm wondering if this is a disaster in the making.

[Beach Bum 4]

Who can tell?there are thousands of people on this website who are young and jobless and have made it through.

[jkelly07 120]

the 1-129f shows that you need to file affidavit of support 1-134 form with evidence of job letter,pay stubs. most recent tax returns if you get a co sponsor must be a us citizen.

[ScottThuy 140]

Who can tell?there are thousands of people on this website who are young and jobless and have made it through.

Young and jobless through HCMC? yeah good luck with that one...

[Moomin 292]

My wife was telling me about her friend. He lives in the US now and was introduced to a girl by his friend in Vietnam. They met for the first time after a year of talking and had a dam hoi (he spent a month with her during the first visit). Now he plans to gets married by the end of this year.

He's young and has no job. I'm wondering if this is a disaster in the making.

Lives in the US - is he a US citizen or a permanent resident?

[jac_chappin 24]

Op - As Scott mentioned, young, no job, HCMC, visited for first time then engaged, and has only visited once. That's going to be tough.

Tell your friend good luck!

[Anh map 2,098]

My wife was telling me about her friend. He lives in the US now and was introduced to a girl by his friend in Vietnam. They met for the first time after a year of talking and had a dam hoi (he spent a month with her during the first visit). Now he plans to gets married by the end of this year.

He's young and has no job. I'm wondering if this is a disaster in the making.

Sounds fairly typical. Once married he can have a joint sponsor.

[Beach Bum 4]

Young and jobless through HCMC? yeah good luck with that one...

I have seen cases like that, maybe not from the same exact country, but it's the typical scenario for most people here.

[quann 26]

his friend is thinking:

[Anh map 2,098]

his friend is thinking:

[ScottThuy 140]

I have seen cases like that, maybe not from the same exact country, but it's the typical scenario for most people here.

This is the VN regional forum and what happens in other countries doesn't impact what happens at HCMC consulate.. they don't do things the same way here... You input is appreciated when it applies to the specific scenario / consulate...

[Fight for Love 98]

My wife was telling me about her friend. He lives in the US now and was introduced to a girl by his friend in Vietnam. They met for the first time after a year of talking and had a dam hoi (he spent a month with her during the first visit). Now he plans to gets married by the end of this year.

He's young and has no job. I'm wondering if this is a disaster in the making.

well by you saying his young and jobless thats making it damn and disaster. how in earth they will have family if his jobless...let say even they used co sponsor....i feel sorry for the co sponsor if he/she let this damn young disaster man uses him/her :bonk: :rofl:

[Thomas&Cleofe 358]

well by you saying his young and jobless thats making it damn and disaster. how in earth they will have family if his jobless...let say even they used co sponsor....i feel sorry for the co sponsor if he/she let this damn young disaster man uses him/her :bonk: :rofl:

I feel more sorry for the beneficiary than the co-sponser.....just saying, the beneficiary is giving up everything to come here, then the sponsor can't provide support and needs.

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

Put Gowon in the "it's a disaster waiting to happen" line.

But I still wish them the best of luck though.

[Thomas&Cleofe 358]

Financial problems is the #1 cause of divorce in the United States.

Just sayin'....