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Ladies - Would you go through surgery to be "like a virgin" again?

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  1. 1. Ladies: Would you do this if it didn't cost any money and was completely safe?

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faith   0

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i just don't get it.

i asked the hubby's opinion on it and he was like ####### why would someone do that? lol

March 4, 2004 NOA 1

June 29, 2004 NOA 2

August 26th -- interview date - we need to complete a I-601 waiver so it's back to waiting again

January 6, 2005 i-601 waiver approved!!!!

January 21, 2005 VISA IN HAND

February 12, 2005 WEDDING!!!!!

March 10, 2005 mailed AOS and EAD applications to Chicago

April 18, 2005 EAD and AOS receipt dates for NOA

June 30, 2005 AOS RFE evidence submitted (translated birth certificate)

August 10, 2005 ---EAD approved via infopass appointment

October 18, 2005 - AOS interview in St. Louis - received an RFE for vaccination supplement

February 9, 2006 - denial for AOS letter due to the wrong form being submitted from the doctor. PLEASE MAKE SURE THIS DOESN'T HAPPEN TO YOU!!

February 16, 2006 - USCIS accepts the motion to reopen without an additional fee - finally something goes right! We should hear from USCIS St. Louis office within 2 weeks.

April 3, 2006 - Received welcome to America letter in the mail!

April 8, 2006 - Received GC in the mail - done for 2 years!!!!

March 1, 2008 - mailed off I-751

March 3, 2008 NSC delivery confirmation

March 10, 2008 NOA 1

March 28, 2008 Biometrics appointment

Legal Permanent Resident - just waiting for time to pass for him to have eligibility for citizenship.

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Patricia_and_andy   0

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OMG How crazy is this??

my question is how long did she have to wait to have sex after the surgery.. normally when you have surgery "down there" or even have a baby you sometimes have to wait up to 8 weeks before you can put any thing in the #######. Is it really worth it... my hubby would not like to have to wait to have sex because of a surgery that may or may not give him a one time pleasureable moment... and that would cause me to indure un-needed pain.

Just crazy I say!!!

Patricia

8 weeks? holy ####### i'd go nuts. After both my boys were born we only had to wait 4 weeks. That's the norm around here.

You are right 4 weeks is the norm under normal circumstances. I had an etopic pregnancy and had surgery to remove the embryo, but the doc saved my tube, I had to wait 8 weeks that time to prevent any chance of infection. It sure is a touchy (no pun intended) area down there when it comes to surgery, and I know I wouldn't willingly do a un-needed surgery for any reason!

Patricia

They seriously made you wait that long? I had an ectopic.. had my tube removed after it burst and led to internal bleeding. 2 weeks. That's all we had to wait.

Yes they made me wait that long! Ithink it is because they saved my tube and repaired it.. I don't know I just did what they said...LOL

Patricia

OK here is our story (short version)

we have been married for 3 years anny was July 3rd.

We filed I-130 march 21, 2005

Receipt date march, 30, 2005

Approval notice July 1, 2005

Case # change NVC July 21, 2005

Lawyer recieved fee bills Aug 9, 2005

Filed I-129f March 23, 2005

receipt date April 7, 2005

Approved july 5, 2005

Recieved packet from london July 15th, 2005

Finally mailed packet 3 Aug 5th, 2005

Medical appointment Aug. 13th, 2005

Interview date Sep. 2, 2005 Approved!!

Visa in hand sep. 3, 2005

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faith   0

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lol i don't know i'd be able to obey them if I had to wait that long lol

March 4, 2004 NOA 1

June 29, 2004 NOA 2

August 26th -- interview date - we need to complete a I-601 waiver so it's back to waiting again

January 6, 2005 i-601 waiver approved!!!!

January 21, 2005 VISA IN HAND

February 12, 2005 WEDDING!!!!!

March 10, 2005 mailed AOS and EAD applications to Chicago

April 18, 2005 EAD and AOS receipt dates for NOA

June 30, 2005 AOS RFE evidence submitted (translated birth certificate)

August 10, 2005 ---EAD approved via infopass appointment

October 18, 2005 - AOS interview in St. Louis - received an RFE for vaccination supplement

February 9, 2006 - denial for AOS letter due to the wrong form being submitted from the doctor. PLEASE MAKE SURE THIS DOESN'T HAPPEN TO YOU!!

February 16, 2006 - USCIS accepts the motion to reopen without an additional fee - finally something goes right! We should hear from USCIS St. Louis office within 2 weeks.

April 3, 2006 - Received welcome to America letter in the mail!

April 8, 2006 - Received GC in the mail - done for 2 years!!!!

March 1, 2008 - mailed off I-751

March 3, 2008 NSC delivery confirmation

March 10, 2008 NOA 1

March 28, 2008 Biometrics appointment

Legal Permanent Resident - just waiting for time to pass for him to have eligibility for citizenship.

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lol i don't know i'd be able to obey them if I had to wait that long lol

You'd go nuts after 2 months without sex? Have you tried Sexaholics Anonymous?

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lol i don't know i'd be able to obey them if I had to wait that long lol

You'd go nuts after 2 months without sex? Have you tried Sexaholics Anonymous?

i'd go nuts if my hubby was in the same house as me and we had to go 2 months without sex, yes. There is nothing wrong with that. We had to suffer through the separation period while we waited for the visa to come through so he could get here - we've done our time. Now please let us enjoy our healthy sex life.

March 4, 2004 NOA 1

June 29, 2004 NOA 2

August 26th -- interview date - we need to complete a I-601 waiver so it's back to waiting again

January 6, 2005 i-601 waiver approved!!!!

January 21, 2005 VISA IN HAND

February 12, 2005 WEDDING!!!!!

March 10, 2005 mailed AOS and EAD applications to Chicago

April 18, 2005 EAD and AOS receipt dates for NOA

June 30, 2005 AOS RFE evidence submitted (translated birth certificate)

August 10, 2005 ---EAD approved via infopass appointment

October 18, 2005 - AOS interview in St. Louis - received an RFE for vaccination supplement

February 9, 2006 - denial for AOS letter due to the wrong form being submitted from the doctor. PLEASE MAKE SURE THIS DOESN'T HAPPEN TO YOU!!

February 16, 2006 - USCIS accepts the motion to reopen without an additional fee - finally something goes right! We should hear from USCIS St. Louis office within 2 weeks.

April 3, 2006 - Received welcome to America letter in the mail!

April 8, 2006 - Received GC in the mail - done for 2 years!!!!

March 1, 2008 - mailed off I-751

March 3, 2008 NSC delivery confirmation

March 10, 2008 NOA 1

March 28, 2008 Biometrics appointment

Legal Permanent Resident - just waiting for time to pass for him to have eligibility for citizenship.

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Well, when I was in 9th grade (6 years ago I think), my best friend's mom had this surgery. It was her parents' 20th year anniversary and my guess is that her mom wanted to have a special night or something!

I don't think I'd want to do this and I don't think Dave would care so much either since my first time was with him anyway...

But to be honest, I don't think I'd do it not because my "second first time" was going to hurt, but because the surgery and the healing would be a lot more unconfortable. In fact, I was so relaxed during my first time that it didn't hurt as much as people say... I have a lot more good things than bad to remember about it.

Also, my guess is that the guys that have this fantasy like it a lot more because of the idea of having sex with a inocent/virgin girl(which is psychological) than the actual feeling of tearing her hymen(which is physical). So... there's always dressing and making him think you're his virgin girl people!! :whistle:

Dave knows I'm up for a lot of things :whistle: ... we're a lot alike when it comes to fantasies and stuff but the only time a doctor is gonna cut and stitch me down there is when I have his baby. :lol:

lol i don't know i'd be able to obey them if I had to wait that long lol

You'd go nuts after 2 months without sex? Have you tried Sexaholics Anonymous?

i'd go nuts if my hubby was in the same house as me and we had to go 2 months without sex, yes. There is nothing wrong with that. We had to suffer through the separation period while we waited for the visa to come through so he could get here - we've done our time. Now please let us enjoy our healthy sex life.

Oh man.... I'd go nuts if I had to go two weeks without sex! And I'm not kidding!! :no: Being apart right now is enough.... we joke saying that before he went back to the states we had sex to make up for this time apart :yes: .... I sure am going back to that when we're together again.

OUR COMPLETE TIMELINE

Latest steps:

10/26/2006- Consulate receives case (seriously, one month to receive the case?? BS!), and packet 3 that I sent even before they had received the case.

01/02/2007- Interview!!!!!!!!!!!!! Got a 221(g)

01/23/2007- Second Interview. VISA granted!!!

01/29/2007- VISA arrived.... no envelope though. I'm gonna contact them and see what happened this time!

01/31/2007- I'll have to send them one last financial support evidence.

02/01/2007- Evidence sent

02/02/2007- Evidence received by Consulate

02/06/2007- Consulate sends envelope!

02/07/2007- Envelope received!!!

02/10/2007- Flew to the USA!!!!!!

04/17/2007- Wedding day!!!

--- Wish us luck!!! ---

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16 months away from you spouse is the same, Thanks USCIS :blink:

:lol::lol: I agree cindy :thumbs:

coz I know I am a born again virgin.. :crying:

So am I :crying:

OUR COMPLETE TIMELINE

Latest steps:

10/26/2006- Consulate receives case (seriously, one month to receive the case?? BS!), and packet 3 that I sent even before they had received the case.

01/02/2007- Interview!!!!!!!!!!!!! Got a 221(g)

01/23/2007- Second Interview. VISA granted!!!

01/29/2007- VISA arrived.... no envelope though. I'm gonna contact them and see what happened this time!

01/31/2007- I'll have to send them one last financial support evidence.

02/01/2007- Evidence sent

02/02/2007- Evidence received by Consulate

02/06/2007- Consulate sends envelope!

02/07/2007- Envelope received!!!

02/10/2007- Flew to the USA!!!!!!

04/17/2007- Wedding day!!!

--- Wish us luck!!! ---

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well, no i don't think there's any need to.. let's just say we've already been married for 3 years and my body still hasn't adjusted much to his *ahem*.. it feels like the wedding night daily :lol:

My hubby's timeline (F1-visa):

Married January 2003 :)

Sept 2003 - Filed AOS, EAD

Sept - November 2003: Took fingerprints. Received receipts, EAD.

Oct 2004 - Renewed EAD

Nov 2004 - received EAD

April 2005 - changed address, 2nd set of fingerprints received

August 2005 - Received interview letter

Oct. 18 2005- Interview, no on the spot decisions given at this office anymore

Oct. 19 - "touched"

Oct. 20 - Case status online is missing, touched

Oct. 21 - touched, ONLINE APPROVAL MESSAGE! YAY!

Oct. 22 - touched

Oct. 24 - touched

Oct. 25 - 10 year permanent resident card received!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG SO HAPPY!!!

Oct. 30 - touched

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well, no i don't think there's any need to.. let's just say we've already been married for 3 years and my body still hasn't adjusted much to his *ahem*.. it feels like the wedding night daily :lol:

:lol: Same here!!!!! Dave says I'm like rubber band...... you always find some resistance :lol::lol::lol: I can't believe I just told you guys that.............. :blush::blush::no:

OUR COMPLETE TIMELINE

Latest steps:

10/26/2006- Consulate receives case (seriously, one month to receive the case?? BS!), and packet 3 that I sent even before they had received the case.

01/02/2007- Interview!!!!!!!!!!!!! Got a 221(g)

01/23/2007- Second Interview. VISA granted!!!

01/29/2007- VISA arrived.... no envelope though. I'm gonna contact them and see what happened this time!

01/31/2007- I'll have to send them one last financial support evidence.

02/01/2007- Evidence sent

02/02/2007- Evidence received by Consulate

02/06/2007- Consulate sends envelope!

02/07/2007- Envelope received!!!

02/10/2007- Flew to the USA!!!!!!

04/17/2007- Wedding day!!!

--- Wish us luck!!! ---

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16 months away from you spouse is the same, Thanks USCIS :blink:

:lol::lol: I agree cindy :thumbs:

coz I know I am a born again virgin.. :crying:

So am I :crying:

Yeah, who needs surgery when you've got USCIS.

I thought mine had healed over. :blush:

:lol::lol::lol:

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"Togetherness is Strength"

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