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Ladies - Would you go through surgery to be "like a virgin" again?

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  1. 1. Ladies: Would you do this if it didn't cost any money and was completely safe?

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Ok, I can see how a woman who was raped would want to do something like that. If it helps her cope with the rape, I'm all for it.

Good point.

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nayalamb   0

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ewwww this whole thing is making my insides curdle.... :wacko:

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going through another first time?? Hell no, once is enough, I can love that dude as much as I want to but no way I"d do that.

I don't know any woman for whom it wasn't painful and not quit the best time in their lives so why in the world, crazy lady??

Angelika (Schweinfurt, Germany) and Chris (Tulsa, USA)

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Losing my virginity was by no means a great experience. Not something I would ever want to repeat. Thankfully it only lasted about 3 seconds....it was his first time too. ;)

I dont know if it's a male fantasy generally. It certainly isn't for my husband, I showed this thread to him and he thought it was a stupid idea too. Perhaps for some guys it is a macho pride thing, to be the first to "take the plunge" so to speak?! Just seems weird to me.

For cultures in which a bride is supposed to "show" the results of her virginity on the wedding night, I think I'd go for cutting my thumb too :)

As for tightness, I thought that was what Kegals were for?

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Ok, I can see how a woman who was raped would want to do something like that. If it helps her cope with the rape, I'm all for it.

as someone who has been there, i cant imagine doing anything else to traumatize that area of my body

just my personal 2 cents

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and only then, will you find the meaning of happiness."

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... this stupid tradition (Arijit bhai is gonna get me on this) needs to be killed...

;)

A LOT of stupid traditions need to be killed. The ones that are actually harmful, that is. There are also many harmless and silly (and sometimes, weird) traditions that are stupid but don't need killin'. The goat thing, for example, LOL.

I agree...

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This is crazy!

Johanna & Peter

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OMG How crazy is this??

my question is how long did she have to wait to have sex after the surgery.. normally when you have surgery "down there" or even have a baby you sometimes have to wait up to 8 weeks before you can put any thing in the #######. Is it really worth it... my hubby would not like to have to wait to have sex because of a surgery that may or may not give him a one time pleasureable moment... and that would cause me to indure un-needed pain.

Just crazy I say!!!

Patricia

8 weeks? holy ####### i'd go nuts. After both my boys were born we only had to wait 4 weeks. That's the norm around here.

You are right 4 weeks is the norm under normal circumstances. I had an etopic pregnancy and had surgery to remove the embryo, but the doc saved my tube, I had to wait 8 weeks that time to prevent any chance of infection. It sure is a touchy (no pun intended) area down there when it comes to surgery, and I know I wouldn't willingly do a un-needed surgery for any reason!

Patricia

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OK here is our story (short version)

we have been married for 3 years anny was July 3rd.

We filed I-130 march 21, 2005

Receipt date march, 30, 2005

Approval notice July 1, 2005

Case # change NVC July 21, 2005

Lawyer recieved fee bills Aug 9, 2005

Filed I-129f March 23, 2005

receipt date April 7, 2005

Approved july 5, 2005

Recieved packet from london July 15th, 2005

Finally mailed packet 3 Aug 5th, 2005

Medical appointment Aug. 13th, 2005

Interview date Sep. 2, 2005 Approved!!

Visa in hand sep. 3, 2005

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No way, Jose.

When I was 12 , I got 10 stitches in the leg, because of a ray (a fish which has a very sharp tail) that attacked me when I was swimming. I cried for days. NEVER.

Sometimes I think I know everything, and I regain consciousness. Seen it all, done it all, forgot most of it....

So much plenitude, yet so much emptiness

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The Journey, Part I: I-129F (K-3)

I 129F sent to Chicago 11/14/05

NOA1 12/14/05, received by snail mail 12/23/05

NOA2 01/17/06, received by snail mail 01/20/05

Received Packet "3" 02/17/06

Medicals done in Nairobi 03/22/06

VISA APPROVED in Nairobi 03/30/06

Husband arrives ni USA!

The Journey, Part II: EAD and AOS

EAD mailed to Chicago 05/17/06

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chocolaterie   0

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good god.

Barbara (Canada) & Dallas (USC)

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Nov 13 2005 EAD & I-485 sent to Chicago Lockbox

Nov 22, 2005 EAD & I-485 NOA1

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Feb 10, 2006 Fingerprint App't

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Feb 11, 2006 Rec'd EAD card

Feb 13, 2006 Applied for SSN

Feb 17, 2006 Rec'd SSN

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Mar 02, 2006 I-485 Has been received at CSC

Mar 13, 2006 I-485 Touched

Mar 14, 2006 I-485 Touched

Apr 15 & 25 2006 emailed CSC for status inquiry on I-485

Apr 26 2006 received a response from CSC, another response in 60 days (ahhhhh!!!)

Apr 27, 2006 I-485 Touched

Jun 17, 2006 I-485 Touched

Jun 19, 2006 I-485 Touched

Jun 20, 2006 I-485 Touched

July 3, 2006 emailed CSC again, no response given in the allotted 60 days time frame.

July 27, 2006 received a response from CSC, another response will be given in 30 days.. ha ha ha.

***app sent back to Missouri ***app sent to Chicago

Aug 21 2006 touched

Sept 29 2006 3rd year Anniversay

October 13, 2006 Immigration Interview - Need to return with Long Form Birth Certificate

October 13, 2006 Long Form Birth Cert ordered with expediated shipping

October 18, 2006 Birth Cert Received

October 19, 2006 2nd Immigration Interview - APPROVED

5-20 business days for the Green Card to arrive, maybe I'll be back to see my family before Christmas?

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OMG How crazy is this??

my question is how long did she have to wait to have sex after the surgery.. normally when you have surgery "down there" or even have a baby you sometimes have to wait up to 8 weeks before you can put any thing in the #######. Is it really worth it... my hubby would not like to have to wait to have sex because of a surgery that may or may not give him a one time pleasureable moment... and that would cause me to indure un-needed pain.

Just crazy I say!!!

Patricia

8 weeks? holy ####### i'd go nuts. After both my boys were born we only had to wait 4 weeks. That's the norm around here.

You are right 4 weeks is the norm under normal circumstances. I had an etopic pregnancy and had surgery to remove the embryo, but the doc saved my tube, I had to wait 8 weeks that time to prevent any chance of infection. It sure is a touchy (no pun intended) area down there when it comes to surgery, and I know I wouldn't willingly do a un-needed surgery for any reason!

Patricia

They seriously made you wait that long? I had an ectopic.. had my tube removed after it burst and led to internal bleeding. 2 weeks. That's all we had to wait.

March 4, 2004 NOA 1

June 29, 2004 NOA 2

August 26th -- interview date - we need to complete a I-601 waiver so it's back to waiting again

January 6, 2005 i-601 waiver approved!!!!

January 21, 2005 VISA IN HAND

February 12, 2005 WEDDING!!!!!

March 10, 2005 mailed AOS and EAD applications to Chicago

April 18, 2005 EAD and AOS receipt dates for NOA

June 30, 2005 AOS RFE evidence submitted (translated birth certificate)

August 10, 2005 ---EAD approved via infopass appointment

October 18, 2005 - AOS interview in St. Louis - received an RFE for vaccination supplement

February 9, 2006 - denial for AOS letter due to the wrong form being submitted from the doctor. PLEASE MAKE SURE THIS DOESN'T HAPPEN TO YOU!!

February 16, 2006 - USCIS accepts the motion to reopen without an additional fee - finally something goes right! We should hear from USCIS St. Louis office within 2 weeks.

April 3, 2006 - Received welcome to America letter in the mail!

April 8, 2006 - Received GC in the mail - done for 2 years!!!!

March 1, 2008 - mailed off I-751

March 3, 2008 NSC delivery confirmation

March 10, 2008 NOA 1

March 28, 2008 Biometrics appointment

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almaty   19

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Close to 1 out of 4 respondents to this poll have voted Yes or Maybe or Pass. Things that make you go hmmmmmm.

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