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Ladies - Would you go through surgery to be "like a virgin" again?

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  1. 1. Ladies: Would you do this if it didn't cost any money and was completely safe?

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w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r   123

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I have heard of this but in Egypt. There was a story of a girl who lost her virginity before marriage and she was going to get married but due to strict religious beliefs was afraid of the wedding night because the husband would know she wasn't a virgin. So she went ahead and did it so that she wouldn't be ostracised. I hear it's pretty common in Saudi Arabia...

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Thats just nuts :yes:

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This might seem kind of crazy but in Afghanistan, the girl is supposed to clean herself off (blood and all) with a white cloth on her wedding night as proof that she is a virgin. It is shown to those who question your "purity", especially the in-laws. I remember they did it to my cousin and I was sooooo bloody mad and wanted to throw up. My mom had to shut me up cause I was saying: Well if you didn't believe her then why did you marry her? And I was cursing up a storm...pisses me off I tell you!

Not everyone does this but some old fashioned so and so's still think it's a bright idea...

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Wow, who put "yes" and "maybe yes" :o:lol:

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:no: not me..... :lol:......I would still not be a 'virgin' even if they did sew me back up...! so who's trying to kid who???....... some ppl have more money than sense... Edited by welshcookie

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me neither lol i put no... but think there should have been a hell f***ing no on there

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:no: not me..... :lol:......I would still not be a 'virgin' even if they did sew me back up...! so who's trying to kid who???....... some ppl have more money than sense...

Exactly...isn't being a "virgin" equally an emotional state as well as a physical one? :yes:

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This might seem kind of crazy but in Afghanistan, the girl is supposed to clean herself off (blood and all) with a white cloth on her wedding night as proof that she is a virgin. It is shown to those who question your "purity", especially the in-laws. I remember they did it to my cousin and I was sooooo bloody mad and wanted to throw up. My mom had to shut me up cause I was saying: Well if you didn't believe her then why did you marry her? And I was cursing up a storm...pisses me off I tell you!

Not everyone does this but some old fashioned so and so's still think it's a bright idea...

The sad thing is, not everyone necessarily 'bleeds' their first time.....so just because there is no proof, that doesn't mean it aint true!

I was so not prepared for how much it was going to hurt the first time...no way im reliving that!

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This might seem kind of crazy but in Afghanistan, the girl is supposed to clean herself off (blood and all) with a white cloth on her wedding night as proof that she is a virgin. It is shown to those who question your "purity", especially the in-laws. I remember they did it to my cousin and I was sooooo bloody mad and wanted to throw up. My mom had to shut me up cause I was saying: Well if you didn't believe her then why did you marry her? And I was cursing up a storm...pisses me off I tell you!

Not everyone does this but some old fashioned so and so's still think it's a bright idea...

The sad thing is, not everyone necessarily 'bleeds' their first time.....so just because there is no proof, that doesn't mean it aint true!

I was so not prepared for how much it was going to hurt the first time...no way im reliving that!

Yeah my mom and I were watching a documentary where the poor girl didn't bleed and she was hysterical as the mother-in-law accused her of being a #######...I had to explain to my mother that not all girls bleed so this stupid tradition (Arijit bhai is gonna get me on this) needs to be killed...

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Whoa. Not suprised though. Don't you know that "born-again virginity" is on the rise here?

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in a combination operation with vaginal “rejuvenation” tightening. She looks adoringly at her husband, Louis,

I imagine their excitement is more over this part of the procedure than the other. The vigirnity angle makes a nice media hook though.

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w¡n9Nµ7 §£@¥€r   123

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... this stupid tradition (Arijit bhai is gonna get me on this) needs to be killed...

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A LOT of stupid traditions need to be killed. The ones that are actually harmful, that is. There are also many harmless and silly (and sometimes, weird) traditions that are stupid but don't need killin'. The goat thing, for example, LOL.

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Thats just nuts :yes:

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:no: not me..... :lol:......I would still not be a 'virgin' even if they did sew me back up...! so who's trying to kid who???....... some ppl have more money than sense...

I agree with you 100% :blink:

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