American Men Not Loyal?

[akihon 129]

The tittle of my post is followed by question mark. Dont get mad like that. Btw i am going to nack home n divorce coz i found him tecently still talking to many girls online with promising marriage and telling them something bad abt me. He is fully #######.

that wasn't aimed at you, if you noticed.

[Brad and Vika 129]

The tittle of my post is followed by question mark. Dont get mad like that. Btw i am going to nack home n divorce coz i found him tecently still talking to many girls online with promising marriage and telling them something bad abt me. He is fully #######.

Utha - I am sorry to hear of your troubles. Given the post above, I don't think there can be trust with a partner promising marraige to others, etc.

You do not have to go home either necessarily. Understand that you have choices if you married in good faith and are at the AOS stage of the relationship. It all depends on what you want to do, and how the two of you are able to work through the situation.

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

I found my husband was calling his ex wife and watching porn streaming video online while am back home. For me, i never call any man since i married him coz when i decided to marry him it means that i close the door for all of the man in the world. I only belong to him wether in front or behind him.

Is it true that most of American men not loyal?

Almost all men watch porn, it is on the internet and it is FREE. ALL men masturbate,it doesn't take as long if you have porn. It seems as if that qualifies for you.

As for me, sex is not something that I put up there as being all that important, except I wants lots of it. More important is that when I had a heart attack and bypass surgery and woke up from two days of medically induced coma...I blinked my eyes open and I saw Alla's eyes looking back at me. I had not a clue where I was but all I know is her eyes were looking directly into mine. Then I looked around and saw all four of my sons eyes looking at me...two came from Chicago, one from Moscow. Damn. THAT matters. More important is when the Doctor told Alla she had the beginnings of arthritis in her hips (she only LOOKS that young) and had to walk every day 3 miles...she did not know how she would do that in the winter. When she came home that day there was a treadmill in her office with a ribbon on it!

Porn and phone calls do not matter and sex in general does not.

If she had sex with another man or woman or both, I would still love her, I may even join her. So what? I wouldn't give you 2 cents for a woman that was sexually loyal but treated me like ####### or wasn't there when I needed her because something else was more important.

Is your husband committed to you? Will he be there when you need him? Will he be there for your children? Will he do anything possible he can for you and your children? Does he put you first above all else? Then count your blessings, be happy and...

Get over it.

Enjoy your life, quit checking on BS, embrace your family and just love them, that is all you really need to do. Just love them. Wake up every morning next to your beautiful man/woman and ask youerself what can I do for THEM today? Am I doing all I can for them? Today. Just today. Then to it again tomorrow. You will not think about porn.

Edited August 9, 2012 by Gary and Alla

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Utha - I am sorry to hear of your troubles. Given the post above, I don't think there can be trust with a partner promising marraige to others, etc.

You do not have to go home either necessarily. Understand that you have choices if you married in good faith and are at the AOS stage of the relationship. It all depends on what you want to do, and how the two of you are able to work through the situation.

Yep, if he is not commited it won't work. ASex and porn mean nothing. Saying bad words about your spouse and promising marriage to others...yeah that counts.

[Darnell 8,478]

The title of my post is followed by question mark. Dont get mad like that. Btw i am going to back home andn divorce because i found him recently still talking to many girls online with promising marriage and telling them something bad about me. He is fully full of #######.

Well, at least you have some closure on this now.

IMO, if he 'crossed the line' then he needs to go, full stop.

I'm proud of you for making that decision - it's never easy.

[Xanax 349]

Glad you made the right decision for you.

Good luck with your future!

[Fandango 1,439]

Almost all men watch porn, it is on the internet and it is FREE. ALL men masturbate,it doesn't take as long if you have porn. It seems as if that qualifies for you.

As for me, sex is not something that I put up there as being all that important, except I wants lots of it. More important is that when I had a heart attack and bypass surgery and woke up from two days of medically induced coma...I blinked my eyes open and I saw Alla's eyes looking back at me. I had not a clue where I was but all I know is her eyes were looking directly into mine. Then I looked around and saw all four of my sons eyes looking at me...two came from Chicago, one from Moscow. Damn. THAT matters. More important is when the Doctor told Alla she had the beginnings of arthritis in her hips (she only LOOKS that young) and had to walk every day 3 miles...she did not know how she would do that in the winter. When she came home that day there was a treadmill in her office with a ribbon on it!

Porn and phone calls do not matter and sex in general does not.

If she had sex with another man or woman or both, I would still love her, I may even join her. So what? I wouldn't give you 2 cents for a woman that was sexually loyal but treated me like ####### or wasn't there when I needed her because something else was more important.

Is your husband committed to you? Will he be there when you need him? Will he be there for your children? Will he do anything possible he can for you and your children? Does he put you first above all else? Then count your blessings, be happy and...

Get over it.

Enjoy your life, quit checking on BS, embrace your family and just love them, that is all you really need to do. Just love them. Wake up every morning next to your beautiful man/woman and ask youerself what can I do for THEM today? Am I doing all I can for them? Today. Just today. Then to it again tomorrow. You will not think about porn.

Please stop Allajacking. This thread is not called 'My Great Life Thanks to Alla'.

OP, I'm sorry to hear the news, but I think you made the right choice. Good luck in your future.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

Please stop Allajacking. This thread is not called 'My Great Life Thanks to Alla'.

In Gary's world, that's the title of ALL threads.