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Do you feel comfortable sharing your marital problems on VJ?  

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  1. 1. For those who are Muslim, is it haram to share marital problems with others, especially on the internet?

    • I believe it is haram
      9
    • I don't think there is anything wrong with it
      6
    • no opinion or does not apply to you
      13
  2. 2. For those of you who do share their marital problems, does your husband read your posts about them?

    • yes
      5
    • no
      23
  3. 3. Would you mind if your husband was posting about your marital problems on the internet for anyone to see them?

    • Yes I would mind!
      23
    • No, I wouldn't mind
      5


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Petite for taller women? Okay, are you guys just pulling the wool over my eyes here (which can happen quite easily), or you not understanding what I am saying....Petite is for short women....Am I missing something here???? :help:

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Petite for taller women? Okay, are you guys just pulling the wool over my eyes here (which can happen quite easily), or you not understanding what I am saying....Petite is for short women....Am I missing something here???? :help:

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Filed: Citizen (pnd) Country: Morocco
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Petite for taller women? Okay, are you guys just pulling the wool over my eyes here (which can happen quite easily), or you not understanding what I am saying....Petite is for short women....Am I missing something here???? :help:

Dammit Moroc, shhhhhhhhhhhhheatdrink033.gif popcorn, have some popcorn

Hi Noura!dance011.gif

Well pass it this way, are we going to see more fireworks today?

'Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways - Chardonnay in one hand - chocolate in the other - body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming 'WOO HOO, What a Ride'

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Petite for taller women? Okay, are you guys just pulling the wool over my eyes here (which can happen quite easily), or you not understanding what I am saying....Petite is for short women....Am I missing something here???? :help:

Dammit Moroc, shhhhhhhhhhhhheatdrink033.gif popcorn, have some popcorn

Hi Noura!dance011.gif

Well pass it this way, are we going to see more fireworks today?

Everyone say hi to Noura!happy023.gif

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Morocco
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Petite for taller women? Okay, are you guys just pulling the wool over my eyes here (which can happen quite easily), or you not understanding what I am saying....Petite is for short women....Am I missing something here???? :help:

Dammit Moroc, shhhhhhhhhhhhheatdrink033.gif popcorn, have some popcorn

Hi Noura!dance011.gif

Well pass it this way, are we going to see more fireworks today?

fireworks are best at night now aren't they!

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Petite for taller women? Okay, are you guys just pulling the wool over my eyes here (which can happen quite easily), or you not understanding what I am saying....Petite is for short women....Am I missing something here???? :help:

Dammit Moroc, shhhhhhhhhhhhheatdrink033.gif popcorn, have some popcorn

Hi Noura!dance011.gif

Well pass it this way, are we going to see more fireworks today?

Everyone say hi to Noura!happy023.gif

Have you been drinking tonight? :whistle::P

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Petite for taller women? Okay, are you guys just pulling the wool over my eyes here (which can happen quite easily), or you not understanding what I am saying....Petite is for short women....Am I missing something here???? :help:

Dammit Moroc, shhhhhhhhhhhhheatdrink033.gif popcorn, have some popcorn

Hi Noura!dance011.gif

Well pass it this way, are we going to see more fireworks today?

Everyone say hi to Noura!happy023.gif

Have you been drinking tonight? :whistle::P

Can we drop the *petite* incident? VP, have you seen the dancing banana?dance016.gif

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Have you been drinking tonight? :whistle::P

Can we drop the *petite* incident? VP, have you seen the dancing banana?dance016.gif

I'm taking that answer as a yes then? :wacko:

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I think haram might be a little too strong a word to use. In Islam husbands and wifes are like cloaks for one another. They shelter and protect each other. It can be harmful and even dangerous to a relationship to expose private details about the other in a public forum.

For some people this forum is a "family" and there are not other people in their lives who they can vent to who will understand because they are not in a bi-national or bi-cultural relationship. Personally for me I could never post here private things. I have close family members (or firends who are like family to us both) that I could trust to bend their ear. Otherwise it stays between us.

Dudes, Why is this about Islam? I think relationships are (read: should be) private whether they are Muslim, Christian, Rastafarian or Shinto. To be honest, knowing how many people here on VJ that were able to "date" and "get engaged" on the internet, it might not be such a big jump to declare all personal matters on that space as well. The internet gives a false sense of privacy, methinks.

 
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