Question

[jordanianprincess 0]

I have a question, does anyone post something here with the *hopes* your SO will read it? I know sometimes its hard to express feelings to each other.

[sarah and hicham 3]

I have a question, does anyone post something here with the *hopes* your SO will read it? I know sometimes its hard to express feelings to each other.

No, never. Hicham would get too lost if that was the case. haha.

[Together4ever 1]

Nope. We communicate directly.

[babybunny 2]

The only marital problem we have is this DAYUM AP.

since me and my husband has shared this issue with 1001 others I guess its not too bad of a thing.

Henia, I don't want to upset you but I am curious, if you don't mind sharing...

I think we all know you went through a little rough patch in Algeria and shared with us, and you don't think there is anything wrong with that. Then you said your husband doesn't read your posts. Then you said you would be mind if he posted about your problems... sorry but it is contradicting, can you elaborate?

What if he did read your posts?

So everyone so far would mind if their husbands posted about their problems... interesting!

let me guess - you created this poll to mock Henia? I think thats pretty low.

Henia, dont answer her "tarded " questions!

Oh please. Henia and I are friends and I am trying to find out why she voted like that because it is contradicting. Henia knows I mean no harm.

with friends like you who in the hell need enemies.

if she told you her problem. keep it to yourself. why make a freaking poll about it?

DONT ANSWER.. frankly your not nice- I dont wanna hear your excuses. you have to live with

yourself.

[sarah and hicham 3]

The only marital problem we have is this DAYUM AP.

since me and my husband has shared this issue with 1001 others I guess its not too bad of a thing.

Henia, I don't want to upset you but I am curious, if you don't mind sharing...

I think we all know you went through a little rough patch in Algeria and shared with us, and you don't think there is anything wrong with that. Then you said your husband doesn't read your posts. Then you said you would be mind if he posted about your problems... sorry but it is contradicting, can you elaborate?

What if he did read your posts?

So everyone so far would mind if their husbands posted about their problems... interesting!

let me guess - you created this poll to mock Henia? I think thats pretty low.

Henia, dont answer her "tarded " questions!

Oh please. Henia and I are friends and I am trying to find out why she voted like that because it is contradicting. Henia knows I mean no harm.

with friends like you who in the hell need enemies.

if she told you her problem. keep it to yourself. why make a freaking poll about it?

DONT ANSWER.. frankly your not nice- I dont wanna hear your excuses. you have to live with

yourself.

Shon, everyone here is big enough to decide whether or not they want to partake in the poll. Henia can decide without you telling her what to do. Those who want to answer can and those who do not, well they can ignore it. If you have a problem with me maybe you should put me back on ignore. I thought you had enough problems already as things are that you would leave me alone for a while, guess not!

[jordanianprincess 0]

The only marital problem we have is this DAYUM AP.

since me and my husband has shared this issue with 1001 others I guess its not too bad of a thing.

Henia, I don't want to upset you but I am curious, if you don't mind sharing...

I think we all know you went through a little rough patch in Algeria and shared with us, and you don't think there is anything wrong with that. Then you said your husband doesn't read your posts. Then you said you would be mind if he posted about your problems... sorry but it is contradicting, can you elaborate?

What if he did read your posts?

So everyone so far would mind if their husbands posted about their problems... interesting!

let me guess - you created this poll to mock Henia? I think thats pretty low.

Henia, dont answer her "tarded " questions!

Oh please. Henia and I are friends and I am trying to find out why she voted like that because it is contradicting. Henia knows I mean no harm.

with friends like you who in the hell need enemies.

if she told you her problem. keep it to yourself. why make a freaking poll about it?

DONT ANSWER.. frankly your not nice- I dont wanna hear your excuses. you have to live with

yourself.

She told everyone, its not a secret Shon. By the way someone is speaking French in another thread....

[babybunny 2]

The only marital problem we have is this DAYUM AP.

since me and my husband has shared this issue with 1001 others I guess its not too bad of a thing.

Henia, I don't want to upset you but I am curious, if you don't mind sharing...

I think we all know you went through a little rough patch in Algeria and shared with us, and you don't think there is anything wrong with that. Then you said your husband doesn't read your posts. Then you said you would be mind if he posted about your problems... sorry but it is contradicting, can you elaborate?

What if he did read your posts?

So everyone so far would mind if their husbands posted about their problems... interesting!

let me guess - you created this poll to mock Henia? I think thats pretty low.

Henia, dont answer her "tarded " questions!

Oh please. Henia and I are friends and I am trying to find out why she voted like that because it is contradicting. Henia knows I mean no harm.

with friends like you who in the hell need enemies.

if she told you her problem. keep it to yourself. why make a freaking poll about it?

DONT ANSWER.. frankly your not nice- I dont wanna hear your excuses. you have to live with

yourself.

Shon, everyone here is big enough to decide whether or not they want to partake in the poll. Henia can decide without you telling her what to do. Those who want to answer can and those who do not, well they can ignore it. If you have a problem with me maybe you should put me back on ignore. I thought you had enough problems already as things are that you would leave me alone for a while, guess not!

only one telling henia what to do is YOU..

you say she is your friend but you come on here and PUBLICLY MOCK her. some friend

Su Gente!!!

like i said you have to live with yourself. people can see what your made of! -its not very pretty.

[jordanianprincess 0]

The only marital problem we have is this DAYUM AP.

since me and my husband has shared this issue with 1001 others I guess its not too bad of a thing.

Henia, I don't want to upset you but I am curious, if you don't mind sharing...

I think we all know you went through a little rough patch in Algeria and shared with us, and you don't think there is anything wrong with that. Then you said your husband doesn't read your posts. Then you said you would be mind if he posted about your problems... sorry but it is contradicting, can you elaborate?

What if he did read your posts?

So everyone so far would mind if their husbands posted about their problems... interesting!

let me guess - you created this poll to mock Henia? I think thats pretty low.

Henia, dont answer her "tarded " questions!

Oh please. Henia and I are friends and I am trying to find out why she voted like that because it is contradicting. Henia knows I mean no harm.

with friends like you who in the hell need enemies.

if she told you her problem. keep it to yourself. why make a freaking poll about it?

DONT ANSWER.. frankly your not nice- I dont wanna hear your excuses. you have to live with

yourself.

Shon, everyone here is big enough to decide whether or not they want to partake in the poll. Henia can decide without you telling her what to do. Those who want to answer can and those who do not, well they can ignore it. If you have a problem with me maybe you should put me back on ignore. I thought you had enough problems already as things are that you would leave me alone for a while, guess not!

only one telling henia what to do is YOU..

you say she is your friend but you come on here and PUBLICLY MOCK her. some friend

Su Gente!!!

like i said you have to live with yourself. people can see what your made of! -its not very pretty.

[sarah and hicham 3]

Shon, Henia voted in the poll and shared her thoughts. Where am I telling her what to do? I was asking if she would elaborate on how she voted. She doesn't have to, but I CAN ask.

[AichaKandisha 0]

Perhaps a poll on the ages of this group would be insightful...just a thought.

[morocco4ever 63]

Perhaps a poll on the ages of this group would be insightful...just a thought.

Come on people...lighten up and have some fun here. I don't see the point in wasting time trying to change someones opinion. I do feel sad when I can see that someone has been hurt by unkind comments, but we can't fix it. Just send that person a PM and give them your support.

This bickering just isn't worth it, in my opinion.

Okay, I have an idea for a poll, but since it doesn't involve me I wouldn't want to be the one starting it. Sarah, would you want too?

The question is:

Who is the most unkind

1-Sarah

2-VeiledPrincess

3-Henia

4-JP

5-Morocco4ever (what the hell, changed my mind)

6-All of the above

7-None of the above

[Veiled Princess 1]

I couldn't vote because question 2 does not have a N/A option for those who don't share that info.

I do believe it's haraam to discuss marital issues in the home with others... I also believe it's a form of backbiting... the exception to this for me would be if I am seeking advice about how to handle a problem we were having or as an example when advising another.

Just to make this very clear!!!!! This is my opinion and I don't mean anything personal to those who don't feel this way or talk openly on the boards.

ETA: Sorry Sarah didn't read the post that accompanies the poll before clicking the ADD REPLY button... I'll vote no for that one :-)

Edited October 20, 2006 by Veiled Princess

[jordanianprincess 0]

Okay, I have an idea for a poll, but since it doesn't involve me I wouldn't want to be the one starting it. Sarah, would you want too?

The question is:

Who is the most unkind

1-Sarah

2-VeiledPrincess

3-Henia

4-JP

5-Morocco4ever (what the hell, changed my mind)

6-All of the above

7-None of the above

Let me get this straight, you want Sarah to make a poll asking people who she thinks is the most unkind including herself? Nice how you added yourself in at the last second.

[Veiled Princess 1]

Wait Henia, you voted

1. nothing wrong with it

2. he doesnt read your posts

3. you would have a problem wiht him doing the same?

That contradicts everything you just said.

how do you know what she voted?

[jordanianprincess 0]

Wait Henia, you voted

1. nothing wrong with it

2. he doesnt read your posts

3. you would have a problem wiht him doing the same?

That contradicts everything you just said.

how do you know what she voted?

Bcz she was the 3rd to vote and all the answers were the same. What do you think of Morocco's new poll idea VP?