email proof

[cluelessinny 2]

ok i know i am just bragging but we send so many emails i have had to create 4 accounts, by the time the interview comes we may be on six. i will print all, will there be a question as to why we talk thru so many accounts. Verizon doesn't work at my work. yahoo delays after 3000 emails, aol is to hard to reply quickly and gmail didn't work for us. gmail will not be shown as

it blocks us as spam

Edited July 16, 2012 by cluelessinny

[canadian_wife 1,826]

Why would you print all e-mails from 4 (or 6) accounts? they aren't going to read them

Pick a smattering of e-mails from your relationship but all are not necessary

Good luck

[dwheels76 5,468]

Stick to one source. No need to raise their suspicions. If you asked they are thinking it. Keep it simple.

[cluelessinny 2]

i should explain better, I had one yahoo account at first, it quickly got to 4000 emails and emails started to get delayed. we would be talking about one thing and the emails would start to come out of order,and we got confused to what the subject was. so i changed to verizon(didn't work pass my employments firewall), gmail(never worked as thought all emails where spam) Aol(to hard to quick reply), back to yahoo and now it fills with 4000 emails, at this point, we want to continue to email as much as we do, but in order not to have a delay i need another yahoo account, and at the rate we have broke them it will be another account before the interview. i will print an overview of emails, and one from every week but worry, can she explain it for what it is. all accounts have some form of my name in them

[Dave&Roza 748]

ok i know i am just bragging but we send so many emails i have had to create 4 accounts, by the time the interview comes we may be on six. i will print all, will there be a question as to why we talk thru so many accounts. Verizon doesn't work at my work. yahoo delays after 3000 emails, aol is to hard to reply quickly and gmail didn't work for us. gmail will not be shown as

it blocks us as spam

It's one thing to have a lot of relationship information and it's another to send so much that the USCIS person gets p!ssed off. They then may dig for something as they might think you are trying to cover something up. I was worried about sending a lot of e-mails, but I broke them down into relavent time frames of before her first visit to the US, after her first visit and before her second visit, after her visit and before my visit to propose and after I proposed. That way the person reviewing our case could look at each time frame and see how the tone had changed and that we were talking more about spending our lives together. I would not send e-mails where you are just talking to be keeping in touch, but select those that shows how you feel and shows how the relationship has grown. I would keep the number to around 100 and even that is a lot. I would not print out 3000+ e-mails (sounds like you might have about twice that number or even more). It's like photos. You may have 1000s of photos but you should think that each photo costs $50 to print and select the best of the best--same with the e-mail. Select the best of each week or each two weeks or maybe even each month and send only those. IMHO this is where quality over quanity wins out. YMMV.

Good luck,

Dave

Edited July 16, 2012 by Dave&Roza

[dwheels76 5,468]

One suggestion I used right here from VJ was get like mentioned above a couple of emails from the month. All should fit on one page and a little overview at top. Like Dave&Roza said "this month March 2010 we talked about upcoming visit", and on. That way their mind isn't filled with whats not there and they can see your sample and your summary tells them whats up. Just a sampling 2 year worth on 48 pages. Izzy Pizzy.

[cluelessinny 2]

It's one thing to have a lot of relationship information and it's another to send so much that the USCIS person gets p!ssed off. They then may dig for something as they might think you are trying to cover something up. I was worried about sending a lot of e-mails, but I broke them down into relavent time frames of before her first visit to the US, after her first visit and before her second visit, after her visit and before my visit to propose and after I proposed. That way the person reviewing our case could look at each time frame and see how the tone had changed and that we were talking more about spending our lives together. I would not send e-mails where you are just talking to be keeping in touch, but select those that shows how you feel and shows how the relationship has grown. I would keep the number to around 100 and even that is a lot. I would not print out 3000+ e-mails (sounds like you might have about twice that number or even more). It's like photos. You may have 1000s of photos but you should think that each photo costs $50 to print and select the best of the best--same with the e-mail. Select the best of each week or each two weeks or maybe even each month and send only those. IMHO this is where quality over quanity wins out. YMMV.

Good luck,

Dave

thanks Dave I understand your point, it is question of we started to talk in fall, by spring my first account didn't work, emails were delayed. so i created another account, and now it delays. say sean@yahoo and then sean1@yahoo, now we are thinking, sean2@yahoo and sean3@yahoo.but even with say 100 pages of our emails, like a timeline they will read, fall=sean,spring=sean1,summer=sean2,interview=sean3, i can keep them close but my first emails address was something like redskinsrule@yahoo, and now i use only sean@yahoo, but for about a month we used AOL and verizon we this be an issue