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[Veiled Princess 1]

VP with all due respect it has become quite obvious to me that you constatnly feel the need to monitor every one of Sarah's posts. Anyway thanks for patrolling the boards, here is your badge!

I don't pay too much attn to Sarah's posts but when I'm skimming the board and she's being hateful to others it catches my eye.

I am not the only one who sees this... I'm just the only one who points it out.

It's my opinion that she's young and just doesn't know the way she says things to people might hurt their feelings so I'm pointing it out to her so she can look back and see how she said something.

I'm just trying to help her

[sarah and hicham 3]

VP with all due respect it has become quite obvious to me that you constatnly feel the need to monitor every one of Sarah's posts. Anyway thanks for patrolling the boards, here is your badge!

I don't pay too much attn to Sarah's posts but when I'm skimming the board and she's being hateful to others it catches my eye.

I am not the only one who sees this... I'm just the only one who points it out.

It's my opinion that she's young and just doesn't know the way she says things to people might hurt their feelings so I'm pointing it out to her so she can look back and see how she said something.

I'm just trying to help her

Aww so sweet of the elderly to help out the young! Gold star for you!

[Veiled Princess 1]

What? VP coming after me again? How surprising!

So funny how even when several people say the same thing as me I am the one you single out every time. What's the deal?

Honestly, why do you feel the need to monitor my posts everyday?

I guess you're my biggest fan

And what is the difference between me "monitoring" your post and you monitoring Mrs. Forgetful? Did you not just (very rudely) tell her how to post?

I'm not even saying I don't agree with you... I actually do but there's a proper way to talk to someone and you haven't quite found that way.

[Bosco 1]

I think Sarah was probably just brave enough to post what she did, while other people may just be thinking it.

Sure, I don't like people putting down others and would not encourage that. But I think it's risky to complain about one's spouse/fiance too much on VJ. To those who don't know you well, it looks very negative concerning a relationship when it happens too much. I think details about annoyances with a fiance/spouse are best left to PMs or chatting with ppl you trust or know better. That's just me. Sujeet would be very annoyed if I came and posted about arguments we had or things that he was doing that was bothering me, instead of talking to him about it. And he would never post his annoyances with me on the net either. I would be upset if he did that instead of just talking to me about it.

It's just risky to post it, that's all. And I'd highly caution anyone who does it since this is a very public place. I know someone may feel they can trust this regional section and write all this stuff, but for some outsiders like me, it can look like bigger problems going on, not little problems. *shrug*

Just to add on this... especially when we use our real names. VJ posts turn up in Google search. A friend or relative of your spouse could get curious and search on your names. That may be when the husband decides to care more about privacy.

[jordanianprincess 0]

VP with all due respect it has become quite obvious to me that you constatnly feel the need to monitor every one of Sarah's posts. Anyway thanks for patrolling the boards, here is your badge!

I don't pay too much attn to Sarah's posts but when I'm skimming the board and she's being hateful to others it catches my eye.

I am not the only one who sees this... I'm just the only one who points it out.

It's my opinion that she's young and just doesn't know the way she says things to people might hurt their feelings so I'm pointing it out to her so she can look back and see how she said something.

I'm just trying to help her

VP you have said plenty of things that have been less than nice, so I don't think you are the poster child of VJ. You hae offended many here and I'm sure you are aware of that by looking at all the arguements you get into. I don't think its fair to keep singling Sarah out when she is not the only one that feels that way. It has become quite apparent to me and others that you are singling her out.

[sarah and hicham 3]

What? VP coming after me again? How surprising!

So funny how even when several people say the same thing as me I am the one you single out every time. What's the deal?

Honestly, why do you feel the need to monitor my posts everyday?

I guess you're my biggest fan

And what is the difference between me "monitoring" your post and you monitoring Mrs. Forgetful? Did you not just (very rudely) tell her how to post?

I'm not even saying I don't agree with you... I actually do but there's a proper way to talk to someone and you haven't quite found that way.

Thanks again Mom!

I didn't tell her how to post. I have nothing against Janine. In fact I really like her and always read her posts... I was just pointing out to her not to forget everyone can read her posts.

[Veiled Princess 1]

I think Sarah was probably just brave enough to post what she did, while other people may just be thinking it.

Sure, I don't like people putting down others and would not encourage that. But I think it's risky to complain about one's spouse/fiance too much on VJ. To those who don't know you well, it looks very negative concerning a relationship when it happens too much. I think details about annoyances with a fiance/spouse are best left to PMs or chatting with ppl you trust or know better. That's just me. Sujeet would be very annoyed if I came and posted about arguments we had or things that he was doing that was bothering me, instead of talking to him about it. And he would never post his annoyances with me on the net either. I would be upset if he did that instead of just talking to me about it.

It's just risky to post it, that's all. And I'd highly caution anyone who does it since this is a very public place. I know someone may feel they can trust this regional section and write all this stuff, but for some outsiders like me, it can look like bigger problems going on, not little problems. *shrug*

I completely agree with your opinion and there are many other ladies here who agree as well. However, it's not necessary to call someone out in public if you think it's something they should beware of and it's certainly not necessary to belittle someone while you're advising them.

[sarah and hicham 3]

I think Sarah was probably just brave enough to post what she did, while other people may just be thinking it.

Sure, I don't like people putting down others and would not encourage that. But I think it's risky to complain about one's spouse/fiance too much on VJ. To those who don't know you well, it looks very negative concerning a relationship when it happens too much. I think details about annoyances with a fiance/spouse are best left to PMs or chatting with ppl you trust or know better. That's just me. Sujeet would be very annoyed if I came and posted about arguments we had or things that he was doing that was bothering me, instead of talking to him about it. And he would never post his annoyances with me on the net either. I would be upset if he did that instead of just talking to me about it.

It's just risky to post it, that's all. And I'd highly caution anyone who does it since this is a very public place. I know someone may feel they can trust this regional section and write all this stuff, but for some outsiders like me, it can look like bigger problems going on, not little problems. *shrug*

I completely agree with your opinion and there are many other ladies here who agree as well. However, it's not necessary to call someone out in public if you think it's something they should beware of and it's certainly not necessary to belittle someone while you're advising them.

I would bet lots and lots of money that if JP, or Bosco or members that you like said the same thing I did that you would not be raising hell about it. Get over yourself.

[jordanianprincess 0]

I think Sarah was probably just brave enough to post what she did, while other people may just be thinking it.

Sure, I don't like people putting down others and would not encourage that. But I think it's risky to complain about one's spouse/fiance too much on VJ. To those who don't know you well, it looks very negative concerning a relationship when it happens too much. I think details about annoyances with a fiance/spouse are best left to PMs or chatting with ppl you trust or know better. That's just me. Sujeet would be very annoyed if I came and posted about arguments we had or things that he was doing that was bothering me, instead of talking to him about it. And he would never post his annoyances with me on the net either. I would be upset if he did that instead of just talking to me about it.

It's just risky to post it, that's all. And I'd highly caution anyone who does it since this is a very public place. I know someone may feel they can trust this regional section and write all this stuff, but for some outsiders like me, it can look like bigger problems going on, not little problems. *shrug*

I completely agree with your opinion and there are many other ladies here who agree as well. However, it's not necessary to call someone out in public if you think it's something they should beware of and it's certainly not necessary to belittle someone while you're advising them.

And we are all adults and there is no need for you to referee. I would think someone that is posting all of their business on a public forum wouldnt mind recieving advice from others. Sarah didn't belittle her, she gave her some advice and its sound advice that others can use as well. I think sometimes people forget just how open this forum is.

[Veiled Princess 1]

VP you have said plenty of things that have been less than nice, so I don't think you are the poster child of VJ. You hae offended many here and I'm sure you are aware of that by looking at all the arguements you get into. I don't think its fair to keep singling Sarah out when she is not the only one that feels that way. It has become quite apparent to me and others that you are singling her out.

I'm not. She is the only one who approached giving her opinions with insults.

I don't normally go around mud slinging with others who are bothering me.

[sarah and hicham 3]

VP you have said plenty of things that have been less than nice, so I don't think you are the poster child of VJ. You hae offended many here and I'm sure you are aware of that by looking at all the arguements you get into. I don't think its fair to keep singling Sarah out when she is not the only one that feels that way. It has become quite apparent to me and others that you are singling her out.

I'm not. She is the only one who approached giving her opinions with insults.

I don't normally go around mud slinging with others who are bothering me.

For the past few days you singled me out on several occasions. I'm trying to think of why you hate me so much... can't seem to find a valid reason.

[jordanianprincess 0]

VP you have said plenty of things that have been less than nice, so I don't think you are the poster child of VJ. You hae offended many here and I'm sure you are aware of that by looking at all the arguements you get into. I don't think its fair to keep singling Sarah out when she is not the only one that feels that way. It has become quite apparent to me and others that you are singling her out.

I'm not. She is the only one who approached giving her opinions with insults.

I don't normally go around mud slinging with others who are bothering me.

However she didn't give her opinion to you.... You think she is calling out Jeanine? You are calling out Sarah, so whats the difference?

[chri'stina 190]

I think Sarah was probably just brave enough to post what she did, while other people may just be thinking it.

Sure, I don't like people putting down others and would not encourage that. But I think it's risky to complain about one's spouse/fiance too much on VJ. To those who don't know you well, it looks very negative concerning a relationship when it happens too much. I think details about annoyances with a fiance/spouse are best left to PMs or chatting with ppl you trust or know better. That's just me. Sujeet would be very annoyed if I came and posted about arguments we had or things that he was doing that was bothering me, instead of talking to him about it. And he would never post his annoyances with me on the net either. I would be upset if he did that instead of just talking to me about it.

It's just risky to post it, that's all. And I'd highly caution anyone who does it since this is a very public place. I know someone may feel they can trust this regional section and write all this stuff, but for some outsiders like me, it can look like bigger problems going on, not little problems. *shrug*

I completely agree with your opinion and there are many other ladies here who agree as well. However, it's not necessary to call someone out in public if you think it's something they should beware of and it's certainly not necessary to belittle someone while you're advising them.

Of course, belitting is not a good way to advise anyone. I just think people have to be careful. In one way, they want to open up because they may feel like they are in a group of friends like in real life, who they will vent to. And it is good that they feel that way with some members, a common bond. But the problem is that VJ is easily readable for anyone and does come up in google searches like Bosco added. It's not just friends reading but anyone and possibly enemies. It can backfire.

[Veiled Princess 1]

For the past few days you singled me out on several occasions. I'm trying to think of why you hate me so much... can't seem to find a valid reason.

I have never said I hate you.

Maybe for the past few days you have been trying to pick fights with or insult some of my friends and sisters a little too much.

[sarah and hicham 3]

For the past few days you singled me out on several occasions. I'm trying to think of why you hate me so much... can't seem to find a valid reason.

I have never said I hate you.

Maybe for the past few days you have been trying to pick fights with or insult some of my friends and sisters a little too much.

Ok so because you don't like something I said to your "friends" that gives you the right to go around replying to all of my posts and taking them out of context? Sounds about right for you actually.