Canadian Single Dad of 2 young U.S. citizens

[rade2rising 205]

get a lawyer immediately or risk losing everything

[aaron2020 11,651]

I voted for Obama, and I will probably do so again. I am not a liberal. I am a libertarian. I sit in the middle and have to choose between a crazy Republican right that only care about the rich and a crazy Democratic left that treats people who break the laws as victims. I don't care for either parties.

With that out of the way.

ANCHOR BABIES. Why do liberals get upset at this term?????? Seems pretty obvious that SingleDad2usc believes that his ANCHOR BABIES entitles him to stay.

Screw political correctness. ANCHOR BABIES exist.

Sad for the children to be used by SingleDad2usc for the his selfishness when there is a first world alternative. You would be going to Canada. You would not be going to a third world country.

I lived in NYC with asthma while I was in graduate school. It sucked. So, don't use your children's illness as justification that Canada is the wrong climate. It's freakin' cold and dirty in NYC. Toronto is not any colder. In fact, Toronto is a lot cleaner than NYC.

Poor me. I have no freakin' ties to Canada. Well, did you have any ties to the US when you illegally immigrated to the US??????? Young children will adjust to their new environment.

This has nothing to do with your children. This is all about you, SingleDad2usc. This is about your selfishness.

I hope that your children do not end up in foster care. If they do, it will be your fault. Yours alone. Don't blame the authorities when they come for your children. It's your freakin' choice. It's would be your freakin' fault.

Edited July 8, 2012 by aaron2020

[aaron2020 11,651]

2. parents of USC are deported all the time - zero statistical data in this statement

You are so selfish and self absorbed that you make stupid defensive statement like the one above when experienced VJers give you information to help your sorry #######.

Google "parent of US citizen deported" and see the 10,000,000+ results.

At this point, I care nothing for you. I have no sympathy for you. I feel bad for your children because of your selfishness.

Edited July 8, 2012 by aaron2020

[rade2rising 205]

lolzzz

[Ihavequestions 419]

thanks for the above; u meant well, but I think u might have had a better post earlier. A scientist, I'll explain why my knowledge increased by zero from the last post:

1. consequences of overstaying - basic theory

2. parents of USC are deported all the time - zero statistical data in this statement

3. contact experienced attorney - no fail wording, applicable everywhere

4. do it soonish - r u sure?

5. stopped by ICE or trouble w/Law - what r the odds?

Here are some alternative meanings (work-in-progress):

1. One of the consequences of "overstaying at least 10y" is A PLUS in C-o-R, which a person would NOT otherwise have.

2. what percentage of total, what was parent record, were they Single Parent, did children have back-up person, did children have special needs, "extreme hardship"

3. for someone on budget - how to go about it

4. VAWA re-authorization is on the Hill; should one file BEFORE or AFTER?

5. what do u know about ICE actions in NYC?

Some of REAL queries:

1. to reduce odds of "trouble" - how do I renew DL?

2. VAWA: does abuse before offender's LPR count?

3. VAWA: if physical abuse (resulting in conviction) occured before offender's LPR, but only verbal threats to do the same occured after LPR - does it fly?

4. VAWA: how much does weight increase in case of proven abuse of children, on top of spouse

5. VAWA: is fraudulent avoidance of CHILD SUPPORT (which threatens Criminal Prosecution in Perpetrator's mind) given weight in arguing the verasity of current VERBAL ABUSE

6. To illiminate statistical inaccuracy, are there material practical differences between overstay situations in NYC vs. elsewhere?

7. My behavior is like same of the most perfect citizen - but what BULLET POINTS do immigration officers and judges prefer: e.g. documented instances of helping not just own family but the OTHERS as well, community volunteering, acts of bravery, press clippings, awards, character references from officials, from well known people, etc.

8. Does non-filing of Tax Returns matter: IRS exempts many persons from filing; people in fact forego tax BENEFITS if don't file

9. How can ACS and preventive agencies involvement help?

These are just some questions that come to mind. I find discussions can increase your knowledge more than pricey attorneys. The key is to iliminate bias from discussion: we all know that we're swimming between the cracks in the current, ever evolving, law structure. People who throw labels "illegal", "gaming the system", "unfair advantage" - what is the role of those people on this forum? We're here to help each other with knowledge, to improve the system, to become productive members of the society, to improve society, to bring humanity to society. Begotry, racism, political bickering do not belong here. Inconsiderate slander, jumping to conclusions without proper preparation - hurt our forum, the forum of people working hard to overcome beaurocratic shortcomings and hurdles

You might want to read this article.

http://www.colorlines.com/archives/2012/02/deported_dad_begs_north_carolina_not_put_kids_into_adoption.html

You seem to believe that the sage advice you've been given is emotionally based with no factual support, which is incorrect.

You also seem to believe that having an open child protective services case - for ten years or so - is to your advantage. It's not.

[newlyweds2010 208]

thanks for the above; u meant well, but I think u might have had a better post earlier. A scientist, I'll explain why my knowledge increased by zero from the last post:

1. consequences of overstaying - basic theory

2. parents of USC are deported all the time - zero statistical data in this statement

3. contact experienced attorney - no fail wording, applicable everywhere

4. do it soonish - r u sure?

5. stopped by ICE or trouble w/Law - what r the odds?

Here are some alternative meanings (work-in-progress):

1. One of the consequences of "overstaying at least 10y" is A PLUS in C-o-R, which a person would NOT otherwise have.

2. what percentage of total, what was parent record, were they Single Parent, did children have back-up person, did children have special needs, "extreme hardship"

3. for someone on budget - how to go about it

4. VAWA re-authorization is on the Hill; should one file BEFORE or AFTER?

5. what do u know about ICE actions in NYC?

Some of REAL queries:

1. to reduce odds of "trouble" - how do I renew DL?

2. VAWA: does abuse before offender's LPR count?

3. VAWA: if physical abuse (resulting in conviction) occured before offender's LPR, but only verbal threats to do the same occured after LPR - does it fly?

4. VAWA: how much does weight increase in case of proven abuse of children, on top of spouse

5. VAWA: is fraudulent avoidance of CHILD SUPPORT (which threatens Criminal Prosecution in Perpetrator's mind) given weight in arguing the verasity of current VERBAL ABUSE

6. To illiminate statistical inaccuracy, are there material practical differences between overstay situations in NYC vs. elsewhere?

7. My behavior is like same of the most perfect citizen - but what BULLET POINTS do immigration officers and judges prefer: e.g. documented instances of helping not just own family but the OTHERS as well, community volunteering, acts of bravery, press clippings, awards, character references from officials, from well known people, etc.

8. Does non-filing of Tax Returns matter: IRS exempts many persons from filing; people in fact forego tax BENEFITS if don't file

9. How can ACS and preventive agencies involvement help?

These are just some questions that come to mind. I find discussions can increase your knowledge more than pricey attorneys. The key is to iliminate bias from discussion: we all know that we're swimming between the cracks in the current, ever evolving, law structure. People who throw labels "illegal", "gaming the system", "unfair advantage" - what is the role of those people on this forum? We're here to help each other with knowledge, to improve the system, to become productive members of the society, to improve society, to bring humanity to society. Begotry, racism, political bickering do not belong here. Inconsiderate slander, jumping to conclusions without proper preparation - hurt our forum, the forum of people working hard to overcome beaurocratic shortcomings and hurdles

Ok, it is quite clear to me at this point that your purpose is not to get help, but to be a smart@ss. You've gotten a variety of answers from everybody, pick the one you prefer and do whatever you want. So long.

[Ban Hammer 13,484]

thread closed for tos violations: personal attacks. op has enough advice/info from well respected members to go forward with his case.

do not restart this thread.