Need help, I am very worried...

[hoping4happiness 1]

Ok, this may seem kind of bizarre... But there are no Arabic-speaking people in my area, so I couldn't think of anything else...

Can someone help me find out if my man is ok? I am worried about him. Right now he is in Egypt visiting his parents. But I am in the USA.

Suddenly, I have not been able to contact him! He is never online, never answers my IM's or emails. And that is extremely unusual for him! Normally he always does. I called his cell phone (I've spoken to him on it lots of times before, so I know I have the right one). Last time, some people answered in Arabic, but it wasn't him. I don't speak Arabic, so I don't know what they are saying. Usually he answers, and he always has his phone with him.

The last I heard from him, he said he was going to have a big confrontation with his ex wife's uncle and father, he said they were coming to his house. It was over property/money matters, because they are still fighting about all that, and they are being very nasty with him, like threats and all.

He has very severe asthma, and when he is in situations that upset him, sometimes he has an attack. One time he nearly died on the way to a hospital. So I am just very worried. I'm thinking a confrontation could have upset him too much, or things could have gotten physical with those men (because a week ago they tried to hit his brother!).

I'm worried since I haven't been hearing from him. So is there any possible way I could get someone to call the number and just say they are a friend, and ask how he is doing, if he is ok? Preferably a man? Culturally I don't know if his family would think much of a woman calling, and we haven't officially announced our engagement yet. We were gonna wait until I visited there, to announce it. I can't understand what the people on the phone are saying, so it doesn't help for me to call. I need someone who speaks Arabic to tell me what they say.

I need to know, did something happen? Or is his internet out? He lost his phone? Something? I guess what worries me, is that if it were just bad internet or a lost phone (and strange it would be both at the same time!), he would have found another way to contact me and let me know. So that scares me...

Help? I don't know any other way.

Edited July 2, 2012 by hoping4happiness

[bombyjuly 13]

Does he is your fiancé or husband?

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Ok, this may seem kind of bizarre... But there are no Arabic-speaking people in my area, so I couldn't think of anything else...

Can someone help me find out if my man is ok? I am worried about him. Right now he is in Egypt visiting his parents. But I am in the USA.

Suddenly, I have not been able to contact him! He is never online, never answers my IM's or emails. And that is extremely unusual for him! Normally he always does. I called his cell phone (I've spoken to him on it lots of times before, so I know I have the right one). Last time, some people answered in Arabic, but it wasn't him. I don't speak Arabic, so I don't know what they are saying. Usually he answers, and he always has his phone with him.

The last I heard from him, he said he was going to have a big confrontation with his ex wife's uncle and father, he said they were coming to his house. It was over property/money matters, because they are still fighting about all that, and they are being very nasty with him, like threats and all.

He has very severe asthma, and when he is in situations that upset him, sometimes he has an attack. One time he nearly died on the way to a hospital. So I am just very worried. I'm thinking a confrontation could have upset him too much, or things could have gotten physical with those men (because a week ago they tried to hit his brother!).

I'm worried since I haven't been hearing from him. So is there any possible way I could get someone to call the number and just say they are a friend, and ask how he is doing, if he is ok? Preferably a man? Culturally I don't know if his family would think much of a woman calling, and we haven't officially announced our engagement yet. We were gonna wait until I visited there, to announce it. I can't understand what the people on the phone are saying, so it doesn't help for me to call. I need someone who speaks Arabic to tell me what they say.

I need to know, did something happen? Or is his internet out? He lost his phone? Something? I guess what worries me, is that if it were just bad internet or a lost phone (and strange it would be both at the same time!), he would have found another way to contact me and let me know. So that scares me...

Help? I don't know any other way.

Why exactly would he be talking to his ex wifes parents? As hard as this is to hear this, if a man is in love with you,not heaven or earth or skywriting will keep you apart. My guess is he is fine and probably with his own people at this point and YES I have been where you have been and the truth is usually as unpretty as it gets. If you have been together for a while and he is not contacting you , he may be getting ready to leave you when he returns to the states because NOT contacting you is NOT a good sign honestly. You need to brace yourself for a split when he returns.. NOT contacting you is a very very very bad sign for your relationship and you dont need to be blindsided with grief and pain when he arrives home. I am so sorry to be the one that tells you this but for whatever reason, alot of the women here havent been in the marriages long enough or after they have been dumped, stick around long enough to tell anyone else what happened. My guess is hes busy. You need to find something to occupy your time and if you are really engaged or this is something that is real....he will let you know. He might be getting engaged to a woman from back home or had second thoughts about your relationship..He has his status .. and most likely he is going to get someone from back home if anyone to be with , not an american that he cant be bothered to contact.

Sorry.. its horrible and hurtful but its better coming from another american than you living in la la land making up bs excuses for his piss poor behavior

[Ihavequestions 419]

Send me his mobile number in a PM. I will have a male call him and report back to you immediately (I'm in Egypt).

Also, if you have phone numbers for his family, preferably a home phone number, send that, too. His mobile could be lost or stolen. Even IF the home internet was out, there are net cafes everywhere.

One step at a time ... I will get help for you.

[Ihavequestions 419]

Why exactly would he be talking to his ex wifes parents? As hard as this is to hear this, if a man is in love with you,not heaven or earth or skywriting will keep you apart. My guess is he is fine and probably with his own people at this point and YES I have been where you have been and the truth is usually as unpretty as it gets. If you have been together for a while and he is not contacting you , he may be getting ready to leave you when he returns to the states because NOT contacting you is NOT a good sign honestly. You need to brace yourself for a split when he returns.. NOT contacting you is a very very very bad sign for your relationship and you dont need to be blindsided with grief and pain when he arrives home. I am so sorry to be the one that tells you this but for whatever reason, alot of the women here havent been in the marriages long enough or after they have been dumped, stick around long enough to tell anyone else what happened. My guess is hes busy. You need to find something to occupy your time and if you are really engaged or this is something that is real....he will let you know. He might be getting engaged to a woman from back home or had second thoughts about your relationship..He has his status .. and most likely he is going to get someone from back home if anyone to be with , not an american that he cant be bothered to contact.

Sorry.. its horrible and hurtful but its better coming from another american than you living in la la land making up bs excuses for his piss poor behavior

Re-read her post. This guy is her fiance; he doesn't have status in the US to jump and run with.

Why would there be a go around with the ex-wife's family? Probably to finish out the divorce; maybe she hasn't received what she was supposed to receive in the event there was a divorce and her family is trying to help her collect her due. It happens all the time.

[NY_BX 397]

Ok, this may seem kind of bizarre... But there are no Arabic-speaking people in my area, so I couldn't think of anything else...

Can someone help me find out if my man is ok? I am worried about him. Right now he is in Egypt visiting his parents. But I am in the USA.

Suddenly, I have not been able to contact him! He is never online, never answers my IM's or emails. And that is extremely unusual for him! Normally he always does. I called his cell phone (I've spoken to him on it lots of times before, so I know I have the right one). Last time, some people answered in Arabic, but it wasn't him. I don't speak Arabic, so I don't know what they are saying. Usually he answers, and he always has his phone with him.

The last I heard from him, he said he was going to have a big confrontation with his ex wife's uncle and father, he said they were coming to his house. It was over property/money matters, because they are still fighting about all that, and they are being very nasty with him, like threats and all.

He has very severe asthma, and when he is in situations that upset him, sometimes he has an attack. One time he nearly died on the way to a hospital. So I am just very worried. I'm thinking a confrontation could have upset him too much, or things could have gotten physical with those men (because a week ago they tried to hit his brother!).

I'm worried since I haven't been hearing from him. So is there any possible way I could get someone to call the number and just say they are a friend, and ask how he is doing, if he is ok? Preferably a man? Culturally I don't know if his family would think much of a woman calling, and we haven't officially announced our engagement yet. We were gonna wait until I visited there, to announce it. I can't understand what the people on the phone are saying, so it doesn't help for me to call. I need someone who speaks Arabic to tell me what they say.

I need to know, did something happen? Or is his internet out? He lost his phone? Something? I guess what worries me, is that if it were just bad internet or a lost phone (and strange it would be both at the same time!), he would have found another way to contact me and let me know. So that scares me...

Help? I don't know any other way.

I'm confused. Does he live in the US and now he's in Egypt visiting? Or he lives in Egypt and you're having a long distance relationship? If the case is "he lives in Egypt" have you visited him? Have you met any of his family members?

This sounds very suspicious and fishy. I do not doubt his asthma and I do hope he is fine. But is he is fine, then there's another can of worms you must clean.

I hope all turns out well.

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

Ok, this may seem kind of bizarre... But there are no Arabic-speaking people in my area, so I couldn't think of anything else...

Can someone help me find out if my man is ok? I am worried about him. Right now he is in Egypt visiting his parents. But I am in the USA.

Suddenly, I have not been able to contact him! He is never online, never answers my IM's or emails. And that is extremely unusual for him! Normally he always does. I called his cell phone (I've spoken to him on it lots of times before, so I know I have the right one). Last time, some people answered in Arabic, but it wasn't him. I don't speak Arabic, so I don't know what they are saying. Usually he answers, and he always has his phone with him.

The last I heard from him, he said he was going to have a big confrontation with his ex wife's uncle and father, he said they were coming to his house. It was over property/money matters, because they are still fighting about all that, and they are being very nasty with him, like threats and all.

He has very severe asthma, and when he is in situations that upset him, sometimes he has an attack. One time he nearly died on the way to a hospital. So I am just very worried. I'm thinking a confrontation could have upset him too much, or things could have gotten physical with those men (because a week ago they tried to hit his brother!).

I'm worried since I haven't been hearing from him. So is there any possible way I could get someone to call the number and just say they are a friend, and ask how he is doing, if he is ok? Preferably a man? Culturally I don't know if his family would think much of a woman calling, and we haven't officially announced our engagement yet. We were gonna wait until I visited there, to announce it. I can't understand what the people on the phone are saying, so it doesn't help for me to call. I need someone who speaks Arabic to tell me what they say.

I need to know, did something happen? Or is his internet out? He lost his phone? Something? I guess what worries me, is that if it were just bad internet or a lost phone (and strange it would be both at the same time!), he would have found another way to contact me and let me know. So that scares me...

Help? I don't know any other way.

How long has it been since you last heard from him ?

[Lisamarie 79]

I hope everything is ok...

Edited July 2, 2012 by Lisamarie

[rade2rising 205]

give the number so Ihavequestions can make contact.

And yes its quite possible that the news may not be to your liking. prepare yourself

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

Re-read her post. This guy is her fiance; he doesn't have status in the US to jump and run with.

Why would there be a go around with the ex-wife's family? Probably to finish out the divorce; maybe she hasn't received what she was supposed to receive in the event there was a divorce and her family is trying to help her collect her due. It happens all the time.

Does sound like an unpaid mahr...

[Lisamarie 79]

So that's why she is worried..... I hope she reads ihavequestions's post so she can give her the phone number.

Does sound like an unpaid mahr...

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

So that's why she is worried..... I hope she reads ihavequestions's post so she can give her the phone number.

She's worried because she hasn't heard from him; not because there *may* be an unpaid mahr.

[sweetlymystic 19]

Could be many reasons....but he can email u...I believe he is taking care of his business...but not good to you---to not keep in touch.I have had similar experience with no contact for a day or 2.be patient...I can have my fiance to call for u also if. u like.He is in Cairo.Just message in private box. Keep your Faith

[Lisamarie 79]

I understand that........but she's worried because he was going to have a confrontation with them because of it (or whatever the confrontation was about since we're just speculating).and how she hasn't heard from him and he isn't answering her calls.

She's worried because she hasn't heard from him; not because there *may* be an unpaid mahr.

[msheesha 548]

Her profile says she lives here; he lives in Egypt. They've never met yet.