Divorce before GC

[kelly11anne 6]

My husband is fed up with trying to find work here and has decided he doesn't want to continue here in the US or with me. We are currently waiting to hear about the interview for the GC after adjusting from the K1 visa. We've been married less than a year. He has already asked for a divorce and I have done everything to convince him otherwise but to no avail. I know for our state, even if we both sign the papers mutually there is a 120 day waiting period for it to be finalized. Does anybody know if we both have to present for the court date after the 4 months? BTW we live in Wisconsin. Can he just go back to his country and it will be settled here? Also, on a separate question, he has 2 cats he brought here and we had to each "bring" a cat with us when he came. Now that he wants to go back, has anyone done that alone? The airlines mostly insist that it's one animal per person. I know some allow two of the same species, but no carrying case that can be a carry on (he won't allow them to fly cargo) will hold cats that size. Really lost here...

[TBoneTX 45,299]

If there's any hope left, PM me -- Mrs. T-B. is willing to talk with your hubby, si man.

[VivaBaños 2]

Hi.

My esposo ecuatoriano (Baneño) thinks that before any divorce proceedings, that if it's at all possible your husband should return to Ecuador for a few weeks. He thinks your husband is probably very depressed (like he was), and everything looks dark.

"Ecuadorians have to be in Ecuador at least once a year. We need to remind ourselves who we are (culture, family, food) because the US is different and nothing here is yours, especially if you live in an area with few Latinos. The only thing that you want, no matter how long you're here, is to return to Ecuador. The things that can help you are:

1) Return to Ecuador for a couple of weeks

2) Move to an area where there are more Latinos (CT/NY/NJ area is great)

3) Think about how you both can return to Ecuador if he foresees that he can't make it work in the US after steps 1 & 2 (By the way, many things are improving in Ecuador and perhaps you both could make a life together there.)"

Mucha suerte.

Edited July 1, 2012 by VivaBaños