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I have been dumped. And what's even worse is that today is my birthday. He gave me excuses about his family was starting a business and he was the only one who could run it and someone here can make me happier and his family doesn't want him to come here. I think he has someone else but he insists that he doesn't. My heart is really broken. So I think I will be alone for awhile. What's crazy is that I wss reading messages from the beginning of this months and it was the opposite. I was the one telling him how hard this was and he was assuring me that it could work if we love each other. I'm just so sad. I'm too embarrassed to tell my family and friends. Everything was fine until he went their annual family vacation. He has been back since Friday and picks my birthday to break up with me. But God knows best. I hope I will soon find that person that he has made just for me.

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pietrocrazy
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What a rough way to end it It probably doesn't help to hear the old cliche that it's better this way (obviously he wouldn't have made a great husband if this is the way he treats you on your birthda

happiestmanalive
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It breaks my heart to hear this. I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I'm glad that you can look positively upon such a negative circumstance. Happy Birthday! Another year of life added to th

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Thanks everyone for all of the support and kind words. He is 26 and not ready to be a man, I guess. He may have realized that a real woman requires a real man and wasn't ready. But once I get over som

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I'm so sorry. :(

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Interview: October 24, 2012 - Review | Visa Delivered: October 31, 2012



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What a rough way to end it :(

It probably doesn't help to hear the old cliche that it's better this way (obviously he wouldn't have made a great husband if this is the way he treats you on your birthday!), but I guess I'll say it: It's better this way! Anyway, I know it still hurts. Good luck!

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It breaks my heart to hear this. I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I'm glad that you can look positively upon such a negative circumstance.

Happy Birthday! Another year of life added to the memory books. This is just another page of a long journey. Every page is a reason we are the way we are. One day another person is going to love everything about you, even the pages you wish you could forget. Keep a light heart and a happy face!

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i hope the best for you.

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Happy Birthday! The other part sucks what he did, but he probably did you a big favor. If things like that have to happen, better than doing it after you get further into the process and maybe even marriage before he backs out. I pray better things come for you.

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By the time the Vermont Service Center got through with you, you would be a wreck anyway. Todays is my 60 day aniversery of the reciept of my reply and my file has not been touched then.

Anyway, sorry to use your thread as an excuse to vent. The guy that dumped you will probably live to regret his decision. Go with God, he goes with you.

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Happy birthday Dear! So sorry to hear that but look at it this way, you'll meet someone who is meant for you and one day you will realize he has given you the best birthday present ever, a freedom so you can meet that right person :) as much as it hurts now, it will heal, it always does! All the best to you!

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Thanks everyone. I have spent my 30th birthday in my bed crying my eyes out. I really thought that I had my happily ever after. I don't deserve this.

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So sad to hear that, just think positive and everything will be all right. Remember "When God closes a door, He always opens a window". Be safe and Happy Birthday.

I-129F Sent : 2012 Feb 29

I-129F NOA1 : 2012 Mar 06

I-129F NOA2 : 2012 July 09

NVC case number: 2012 July 24

NVC notice received: 2012 July 30

Medical Exam : 2012 Aug 13-14.. PASSED :)

INTERVIEW : 2012 Sept 13.. PASSED!!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH, LORD!

VISA DELIVERED: 2012 Sept 19

AOS

sent - dec 7,2012

noa1 - dec10,2012

bio - jan 7,2013

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