lesson to be learned

[loveforall 1]

I came to the usa on a finance visa dec/2009,married in dec/2009 and life has been great for us.The excitement of been with my husband and in a new country was overwhelming,and i assumed i had everything figured out for my future.I was born and raised in canada for 51 years,had a family,whom where grown,and very supportive of my decisions.My husband and i went to my home town for a holiday after a year away,and i realized what i had been missing since i left.and the lonelyness started to sink in.I miss the birth of my frist great grand child,my new grandson,and the simple little every day things,like getting together for birthdays,and outing,or just dropping by to say hello.I chat on the phone every other day with my family,,but it doesn,t seem to be enough.Now i sit and say to myself what the hell was i thinking,my husband has no family,so he has no ties here,i guess i never really considered all the fallbacks.We have now started the proccess of moving back to canada,which i should have done in the frist place,and i would not have lost all that time and money.I guess what i am trying to say is to think very hard when you make your choices,no mather how much material things you have,if you don,t have your family it means nothing.

[Ontarkie 14,420]

Moved to the Canada Forum as this is not a Removing Conditions question.

Sorry about you missing the birth of your first great grandchild. Babies tend to allow us to see the big picture sometimes.

Their have a been a few other Canadians that made the move back for similar reasons, no family in the US and lots of family in Canada other just never adjusted. It's an adventure either way.