my Izabela will be here friday evening !!

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What is entirely rude and uncalled for is walking into the thread of someone who is clearly in pain and essentially taking a steaming dump in the middle of it, pointing to it and looking proud. The pointing to it again and again.

Let's get this back on track. Scott -- sorry for the derailment. And I think your attitude towards all of this is commendable in the midst of something so terribly painful and confusing. I bet in time (and probably sooner than you think!) life will bring you love from a woman who deserves you. She may be near or far, known to you now or not, but good guys like you don't stay on the shelf too long. Again, all the best.

She's trying out for Oprah.

[Bad_Daddy 2,209]

What is entirely rude and uncalled for is walking into the thread of someone who is clearly in pain and essentially taking a steaming dump in the middle of it, pointing to it and looking proud. The pointing to it again and again.

Let's get this back on track. Scott -- sorry for the derailment. And I think your attitude towards all of this is commendable in the midst of something so terribly painful and confusing. I bet in time (and probably sooner than you think!) life will bring you love from a woman who deserves you. She may be near or far, known to you now or not, but good guys like you don't stay on the shelf too long. Again, all the best.

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/374254-my-izabela-will-be-here-friday-evening/page__view__findpost__p__5559122 <----- I would have guessed that post right there would have ended this thread. Now I'm going to be a nice guy this time and not report that entirely rude and uncalled for post of yours. But next time please try and show some class by realizing when a thread should just end as it's obvious by the OP he has it under control.

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

http://www.visajourn...ost__p__5559122 <----- I would have guessed that post right there would have ended this thread. Now I'm going to be a nice guy this time and not report that entirely rude and uncalled for post of yours. But next time please try and show some class by realizing when a thread should just end as it's obvious by the OP he has it under control.

Thanks for the tip on keeping it classy!

[ScottnIzabela 25]

thanks honey

crumpet

eh its no big deal i guess in the over all big picture. and seriously... everyone i have no ill feelings bout the thread.

be cool i love you all you all are awesome

[ScottnIzabela 25]

today i have an interview for an instructor position to teach auto repair. i am trying to do my fraud analyst job over nights and this as my day job.if all goes well i might be able to make near 200 a day.

a full time and a part time job but hell i have to do what i must.

i am making a point to go on in my life doing what i planned and wanted to. and that is everything she said i wouldnt do lmao

doing well is the best for me and it also is good revenge. lmao

scott

[I AM NOT THAT GUY 5,715]

today i have an interview for an instructor position to teach auto repair. i am trying to do my fraud analyst job over nights and this as my day job.if all goes well i might be able to make near 200 a day.

a full time and a part time job but hell i have to do what i must.

i am making a point to go on in my life doing what i planned and wanted to. and that is everything she said i wouldnt do lmao

doing well is the best for me and it also is good revenge. lmao

scott

Whatever gets you out of bed in the morning. But the sooner you do it for your own self-gratification, instead of proving yourself to someone who isn't there to notice anymore, the sooner you can heal and move on with your life.

[Pooky 3,782]

Whatever gets you out of bed in the morning. But the sooner you do it for your own self-gratification, instead of proving yourself to someone who isn't there to notice anymore, the sooner you can heal and move on with your life.

I think Scott is doing just that. And raking in $200 a day will go a long way to making it happen.

[ScottnIzabela 25]

i understand various things motivate us all. telling me i cant do something is one for me.

and just doing what i said i would do..well yes i told her this. but ultimately these are tthings i said i would do for me no matter what.

they are personal and selfish and i need them anyways. so not so much for someone who will never see, but for me. it would be nice to have love along for the ride but i ll be fine i promise

[Darnell 8,478]

Scott - I'm so happy for you, this 'turn' ...

Stay busy for a bit, until you are numb.

After being numb for a bit, yer gonna have a meltdown - and that's OK, as you've been doing what you need to do.

At some point (IMO) later, seek a few counseling sessions.

I sense you'll be ok, but the road has some glass shards on it, for a few kilometers.

[ScottnIzabela 25]

thanks Darnell. i feel the meltdown sneaking around.so far been busy to keep it in check and deal with it a little at a time.

strangely this makes me very angry. i am rarely "angry" so i dont know what to think of this.probably something relating to the feeling of being hurt

and betrayed by someone who claimed love. it still makes no sense. i really feel i am not getting the whole story from her. and never will, why would she?

Scott - I'm so happy for you, this 'turn' ...

Stay busy for a bit, until you are numb.

After being numb for a bit, yer gonna have a meltdown - and that's OK, as you've been doing what you need to do.

At some point (IMO) later, seek a few counseling sessions.

I sense you'll be ok, but the road has some glass shards on it, for a few kilometers.

[ScottnIzabela 25]

man no idea ####### is going on with me. i want to scream things at her.

cant get the thoughts and feelings away from me. no sense to be made of this #######. how does one go from very awesome plans to totally screwing up every opportunity

we both made and planned for?

trying to make sense of ####### is a fools game.

i d love nothing better than dropping in to her favorite hangout and in front of her friends shine some truth onto who i am and what happened. she seems like one who projects vary different

personas . she knows all my family and friends contact info and i know none of hers. if she dropped dead when she was here i would have no one to call.#######???

sigh

this sucks

[Nich-Nick 3,354]

man no idea ####### is going on with me. i want to scream things at her.

cant get the thoughts and feelings away from me. no sense to be made of this #######. how does one go from very awesome plans to totally screwing up every opportunity

we both made and planned for?

trying to make sense of ####### is a fools game.

i d love nothing better than dropping in to her favorite hangout and in front of her friends shine some truth onto who i am and what happened. she seems like one who projects vary different

personas . she knows all my family and friends contact info and i know none of hers. if she dropped dead when she was here i would have no one to call.#######???

sigh

this sucks

You are grieving a loss. There has been a lot of study about the Stages of Grief. Some models are 5 and others 7 stages. It is most often applied to terminal illness and death. But grieving the loss of your relationship is similar. Anger is a stage. Google it and get some info on normal emotions and "stages" that can be identified so you recognize what you are feeling is normal. Recognize that it's a process and well meaning folks who say "get over it" aren't helping because maybe you need to experience each stage on your own timeline in order to get to the acceptance stage.

Here' s two I randomly picked from Google--

http://www.webmd.com/depression/guide/depression-grief

http://www.recover-from-grief.com/7-stages-of-grief.html

Caring thoughts to you as you struggle with your loss...

[ScottnIzabela 25]

thank you

You are grieving a loss. There has been a lot of study about the Stages of Grief. Some models are 5 and others 7 stages. It is most often applied to terminal illness and death. But grieving the loss of your relationship is similar. Anger is a stage. Google it and get some info on normal emotions and "stages" that can be identified so you recognize what you are feeling is normal. Recognize that it's a process and well meaning folks who say "get over it" aren't helping because maybe you need to experience each stage on your own timeline in order to get to the acceptance stage.

Here' s two I randomly picked from Google--

http://www.webmd.com...epression-grief

http://www.recover-f...s-of-grief.html

Caring thoughts to you as you struggle with your loss...

[Gary and Alla 3,694]

Sorry to hear what happened. After reading this thread she sounds like a real peace of work. They say time help heals all ...or at least most of it. Best advice I can give you is if and when your ready to jump back in the saddle again then make sure you try out Ukraine first. I don't think you will be disappointed.

Just google "Ukraine"

[Trompe le Monde 1,107]

I just did. Apparently Andriy Shevchenko is getting into politics - who knew?