Drifting apart and the removal of conditions is in one year

[Jia you LuckyStar 0]

We been drifting apart for the last year or so, but I care enough about him to see him through the I-751. However, I don't care enough to keep up with evidence within the last year and the next. (Haha, that sounds ripe for divorce. Probably.)

We have a shared credit card and bank account. I do have other bank accounts that I had opened before I married him and it basically sits there. One my mom deposits into because I pay her credit card bills(she's my authorized user), but his name is not on it because it was a hassle to add his name(Citibank wanted us to close and reopen the account) and we never ended up doing it.

We have mail going to the same place with our names on it, but that of course is not very strong evidence. I don't get my insurance through work(really expensive for what is given for coverage so there is that) We filed joint tax returns for 2011, jointed separately for 2010(He came in October, got married in December of that year) because he didn't receive a SS number yet.

That's basically it.... What should I do now I guess? I kinda feel bad if the I-751 gets denied because of a lack of evidence but it's kinda like... he has his own thing now and I do my thing. It's like we're roommates not husband and wife.

We probably would fail a Stokes interview. It's just depressing for now.... *Sigh*

[VanessaTony 3,567]

So get a divorce and give him the chance to file ROC with a waiver. Write an affidavit attesting to the marriage being entered into in good faith. Give him copies of the joint stuff you had prior and if it works, it works.

Staying together ONLY for immigration is fraud. It's admirable that you want to help him out but you can help him out while not lying to immigration.

[bigdog 376]

I agree, do your part write the letter have hit notarized, provide what documents you can, divorce and let him file on his own, USCIS has seen this before.