RED FLAGS UGHH

[Truelove6 5]

OKAY SO I SAT DOWN AND WROTE DOWN ME and my husbands red flags conidering we are at the NVC stage we are getting fully prepared...Here is my question to you guys.. vj how do we overcome my red flag which is stated below.

The only things i could come up with are

-MARRIED ON THE FIRST VISIT

So here it is

went to nigeria and we got married on sept 9- spent a week together

went on honeymoon in jan to duiba-spent a week together

went back to nigeria in april with my 3yr old son-spent a week together

purchased ticket already for july rather he has interview then or not...

WOW within the last 9 months a total of four visits...i just realsised that!lol

so before interview that equals FOUR out of the country visits..so expensive..anyways is there any advise from experienced people that you all would recommend?

here are our pros:

he is 30 im 29

no previous marriges

both are same race

met family and friends

lots of pics from all visits

emails and phonelogs and skype abundantly(talk 10-15times a day via rebtel)

he is placed on my life insurance as beneficiary

-credit card

-car insurance

-beneficiary for checking account

-listed on lease

AND im sure we will fly through the NVC stage (fingers crossed)

[Truelove6 5]

oh and yes my son got to me my husband for the first time and it was amazing!! we have lots of those pics..funny thing about that is every one says my husband and my son look so much alike...so i sent him the american birth cert of my son just incase CO thinks he is the father!!

and the ticket pricde for kids are the same as adults..gee weeez!!

[Darnell 8,478]

IMO, many trips after marriage trumps 'getting married on the first visit' .

You have 'many trips' after . I think yer ok. Document yer trips with the DS-230 submittal.

[Truelove6 5]

yes i did i submitted all pass port pages and boarding passes and pics from all trips..i basically front loaded at the nvc stage

good so it looks like these many trips will help me out alot

[peter.chou 3]

yes i did i submitted all pass port pages and boarding passes and pics from all trips..i basically front loaded at the nvc stage

good so it looks like these many trips will help me out alot

A letter detailing why married in rush.

[Ryan H 3,812]

Moved from IR-1/CR-1 Process & Procedures to Africa: Sub-Saharan regional forum; anything that constitutes a red flag will vary from country to country which makes this topic specific to Nigeria.

[Faithful2012 34]

I am not an experienced VJ member.....but I have educated myself alot so far and everything actually looks wonderful to me and I also think that the number of visits so far should definitely outway that redflag....Good luck

[dwheels76 5,468]

Bravo hunni bravo. You have tackled the red flag truly. Face time is what Lagos wants to see 4 visits in 9 months. And bringing the son. What a wonderful loving thing to do.

And smart to give birth certificate to husband.

Nope no wahala for ya'll. You should relax and just get ready for interview. I am excited for you. ;-)