John Quidilla Needs Help

[Boiler 45,520]

I am happy to be called cynical, but every case I remember seeing the 'facts' have been sadly missing.

One sister it seems married a USC and adjusted status, no problem there.

One sister is on a Student Visa but is also working, student visa's only allow very limited working on campus. So something iffy there.

The mother also is on a student visa. That seems hard to believe and who is paying for all this, International Student rates are not cheap.

One sibling was born here, that at least seems straightforward.

If you ask for support you should at least be straight with those who you are asking.

PS How will he support himself, he can not work, his mother and Sister are in full time education and his mother is also supporting his Brother.

Edited June 9, 2012 by Boiler

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FYI...I'm not asking any1 to sign the petition. That is a choice made at (individual) discretion of each VJ.

Seems pretty straight forward to me. Seems the popular thing on VJ is to cut stuff down.

[rheanick 42]

John is facing deportation. My wife and I feel a bit sad for him and his family. We think it might be beneficial to bring his story to VJ.

We received this yesterday...

"John Quidilla is a Philippine national resident of Plano, Texas and has been living in the United States for more than 12 years since 1999. John is currently facing deportation and we invite everyone in the community to take the time to read this and sign the petition and maybe even share it if you agree.

John finished high school in the U.S. and recently acquired a Bachelor of Fine Arts in Arts and Technology from the University of Texas in Dallas. He has three siblings, namely Jamila, Jemima , Joshua and his mother Naomi . The entire family of John are legal residents. John did not enter the U.S. illegally. His father, Nelson Quidilla, an exceptional engineer who held an L1 Visa, succumbed to sickness and died in 2008, leaving John a major part of the responsibility for caring for his younger siblings. If you'd like to help a fellow man stay with the only family he knows and in the country he's called home for more than 12 years please sign this petition and pass it along. Donations are for the site only, and not his case. We are not asking for any money. Thank you."

This is the petition link.

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We asked a few clarifying questions and John replied...

"I am John Quidilla. Thank you for taking your time reading my petition.

I lost my legal status when my father passed away. He was an engineer and here on a work visa. My entire family entered legally for this reason. We were in the process of getting our green cards right in the middle of it. When he passed away the company did not continue the process.

My family and I tried to get a student Visa to keep my status, but it was ultimately denied. We contacted senators, representatives, and many different lawyers for help. All we got was advice.

My mom and I decided that I should stay to continue my education because I was close to graduating college at UTD.

The reason why I am being deported is because I have overstayed my visa in the U.S to continue my education and help take care of my little brother ,who is 9, while my mom and sisters work and go to school. I have no criminal record.

The rest of my family is here legally, I am the only one facing this problem.

My lawyer is trying to stop the deportation so I will be able to stay. I am eligible for the Dream Act which if it passes, will give me permanent residency."

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A few more questions and John answered....

"Thanks for the reply. My mom and sister were able to get student visas approved because they went through a university, while my other sister and I went through a lawyer.

My other sister is now happily married to the person she loves and is a permanent resident. My little brother is a U.S. citizen because he was born here

Yes you are right that people who are dependent that are 21 and under are eligible, but I am 24 years of age now.

If you have any more questions feel free to ask."

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IMO..John should be allowed to remain with his family. (His story pulled my heartstrings)

FYI...I'm not asking any1 to sign the petition. That is a choice made at (individual) discretion of each VJ.

Lets stick with the legal process. If he is not here legally then he has to go.

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

Lets stick with the legal process. If he is not here legally then he has to go.

Safe to assume you would watch your own son deported without a fight...?

The petition clearly states... he is working the legal process. It ain't over 'til it's over.

Edited June 10, 2012 by Crashed~N2~Me

[felb 0]

IMHO, if the family can't bear the thought of having to be separated and would be needing help to financially support themselves anyway, why stay? They made the decision for him to stay illegally for whatever reason, so they should have known and should have been prepared to accept consequences.

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

I am happy to be called cynical, but every case I remember seeing the 'facts' have been sadly missing.

One sister it seems married a USC and adjusted status, no problem there.

One sister is on a Student Visa but is also working, student visa's only allow very limited working on campus. So something iffy there.

The mother also is on a student visa. That seems hard to believe and who is paying for all this, International Student rates are not cheap.

One sibling was born here, that at least seems straightforward.

If you ask for support you should at least be straight with those who you are asking.

PS How will he support himself, he can not work, his mother and Sister are in full time education and his mother is also supporting his Brother.

Boiler...I understand your skepticism. We worked through the same questions (you have raised).

Bottom line. The kid aged out expecting his dad's ECB to come through. His dad died. John is caught in a trap. The system does not have an accomodation. Humane reasons and acceptance by process (if that applies) should be considered and prevent deportation. The court excersizing common sense is all that's really needed.

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

IMHO, if the family can't bear the thought of having to be separated and would be needing help to financially support themselves anyway, why stay? They made the decision for him to stay illegally for whatever reason, so they should have known and should have been prepared to accept consequences.

Please do not take this the wrong way but...did you read the entire post and linked petition?

Let me paraphrase and cut it into small bite sized pieces.

1) The kid aged out while waiting for his dad's ECB. (if) Dad had obtained ECB...John would not be in this position today.

2) Dad died.

3) Every1 else is (or became) legal.

4) His family took a chance banking they would find a solution. (or) At least he would graduate here and spend every last moment he can with his ONLY family.

5) Nobody said they aren't prepared to "accept consequences".

6) They are playing the humanitarian card. It's a good trump bcoz...read the petition!

Edited June 10, 2012 by Crashed~N2~Me

[Boiler 45,520]

He would need an Act of Congress to legalize.

The stay of deportation only allows him to stay out of status, no ability to drive, no ability to work.

Looks like he took a lot of time and effort to get his qualifications, what it the point?

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

what it the point?

'cause he has no1 to go back to. He came here as a young teen. There is nothing for him in PI. This is home.

[Boiler 45,520]

He is 24, an Adult, time to cut the strings?

I and many many more on this board left family to come to the US.

So what does he intend doing with his life, watching day time TV?

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

He is 24, an Adult, time to cut the strings?

I and many many more on this board left family to come to the US.

So what does he intend doing with his life, watching day time TV?

You and others came to America to be with loved one(s). Not really a fair comparison is it?

He cares for his 9 year old brother.

[felb 0]

Please do not take this the wrong way but...did you read the entire post and linked petition?

Let me paraphrase and cut it into small bite sized pieces.

1) The kid aged out while waiting for his dad's ECB. (if) Dad had obtained ECB...John would not be in this position today.

2) Dad died.

3) Every1 else is (or became) legal.

4) His family took a chance banking they would find a solution. (or) At least he would graduate here and spend every last moment he can with his ONLY family.

5) Nobody said they aren't prepared to "accept consequences".

6) They are playing the humanitarian card. It's a good trump bcoz...read the petition!

Please do not take it the wrong way, but your paraphrasing it doesn't make the case any different.

I actually meant that they could all go together if the only point your making is for the family to stay together. As you have said, they are also needing to work to pay for expenses as they try to stay - which I doubt they could do (except for one sister) with only student visas.

Just because I have a differing opinion doesn't mean I don't get what you're saying.

[Crashed~N2~Me 970]

I actually meant that they could all go together if the only point your making is for the family to stay together. As you have said, they are also needing to work to pay for expenses as they try to stay - which I doubt they could do (except for one sister) with only student visas.

1) Would you go back if you have been here since 1999? They have built a life here. I think this is common sense.

2) Please. I did not "As you have said". I did not say that. You did. Just now.

Just because I have a differing opinion doesn't mean I don't get what you're saying.

Recognizing you are making your statements mine. (See above. Point #2) I am not confident you are getting what I am saying.

They made the decision for him to stay illegally for whatever reason, so they should have known and should have been prepared to accept consequences.

IMO, You are making an unreasonable assumption. That's what lead me to paraphrase. You have heard the term...due process? His legal / illegal status was questionable until options were played and exhausted.

Edited June 10, 2012 by Crashed~N2~Me

[felb 0]

Fine, be as technical as you want.

Good luck!

[NigeriaorBust 4,087]

He has choosen to overstay 4 years and has a deportion order. There is no RIGHT for a foreigner to choose to stay in the US just because they like to. We aren't talking about a child, this is a full grown man that has ignored our laws. Not high on my list of people to invite to be here or return here.