Divorce or wait

[vjhelp 0]

I'm in a relationship where my spouse is just waiting for time so they can get the green card. The spouse is very rude and doesn't want to compromise in any matter. Always get mad, and has mood swings. My spouse never showed this behavior before marriage.

The spouse is awaiting AOS and have withdrawn the affidivat of support becuase the spouse clearly used me for a green card with no intentions of making marriage work.

I'm afraid to live with my spouse becuase she might abuse herself and call the police and file abuse and VAWA etc.

I'm just saying yes to everything she says and passing time so there is no ripples in the marriage but this marriage is not working for.

I spoke to my attorney and he advised to seperate myself and start the divorce process.

Please can you guys give input as to what is the best route? divoce or just wait for denial of AOS based on my letters requesting to withdraw my I864?

Thanks

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

I'm in a relationship where my spouse is just waiting for time so they can get the green card. The spouse is very rude and doesn't want to compromise in any matter. Always get mad, and has mood swings. My spouse never showed this behavior before marriage.

The spouse is awaiting AOS and have withdrawn the affidivat of support becuase the spouse clearly used me for a green card with no intentions of making marriage work.

I'm afraid to live with my spouse becuase she might abuse herself and call the police and file abuse and VAWA etc.

I'm just saying yes to everything she says and passing time so there is no ripples in the marriage but this marriage is not working for.

I spoke to my attorney and he advised to seperate myself and start the divorce process.

Please can you guys give input as to what is the best route? divoce or just wait for denial of AOS based on my letters requesting to withdraw my I864?

Thanks

Strictly based on what you just wrote, I would not be anywhere alone with this person.

[MyLittlePony 340]

Drop the little ####### and strip him of his man hood.

[spookyturtle 9,465]

Drop the little ####### and strip him of his man hood.

He's talking about his wife.

[aaydrian 479]

Do both simultaneously. Pull I-864 and right after file for divorce. Because of VAWA defense no matter what don't be alone with your wife. Communicate over the phone and if you meet with her do it in a public place and or with a friend there.

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

Drop the little ####### and strip him of his man hood.

Kinky.

[vjhelp 0]

That's what my lawyer also advised to leave soon becuase in his experience he has found all people who came with the interest of getting a green card will abuse themselves and have no intentions of making the marriage work. There anger takes over the saving or keeping marriage intact becuase there mind is only thinking of green card.

He said take your essentials and leave the house and leave a note on the kitchen table saying that I tried to work out the marriage but this is my last resort to seperate myself. He said make a photocopy of your note and also send an email and leave the house.

What will happen if she goes to woman shelter after I leave the house? I'm also deciding to stay in a hotel so I have proof CCTV showing me entering the hotel and me scanning my card to enter the room. (trying to cover my back)

What if she starts making false allegatsion or files VAWA? (Will VAWA care to check police records?)

Just concerned.