How Do I Cancel I-129F Appliation Process

[del-2-5-2014 1,339]

I understand that LDR is really tough. but if there is really love between both of you, then everything is possible.. Just keep the communication open. Much better everyday.

Just like ordinary relationship. you need to invest time. but if your not willing to give time, doesnt communicate that much and dont have a lot of patience then the relationship will not work, either its LDR or not.. If there is Love, there is patience.. We just need to sacrifice first and the reward is so great, Happiness, forever..!!!

Try to think about it first. Because if you love here your willing to sacrifice everything.. Cheers!!! and goodluck!!

But if not.. just follow what people advice in here.. cancel the petition.

Even at great expenses, I try to treat my Fiancee as if she's already here.

I call her 3 to 4 times daily, send her sporadic gifts in the mail and whisper sweet nonsense into her ear (whoever listens to my phonecalls at NSA will be puking - lol).

I think those of us in these long distance relationship must work harder and not take our SOs for granted. The foreign SOs must also realise that the USA is not flowing with milk and honey. Not saying this is the case for the OP, just a general suggestion for others.

[aws&ndd 103]

We don't know the details of his relationship, and it's none of our business. You don't know if this is "the first roadblock" at all. You're making assumptions.

I agree that we don't know everything that is going on. And I wasn't making assumptions I was making a generalized statement that just because things are difficult you can't give up if you love someone. You have to make it work no matter how hard it is.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

I agree that we don't know everything that is going on. And I wasn't making assumptions I was making a generalized statement that just because things are difficult you can't give up if you love someone. You have to make it work no matter how hard it is.

While this is a lovely sentiment, sometimes it just doesn't work. Love is not always enough. And given that we have absolutely no history of this relationship to go on, I don't think it's right to advise someone to just "work it out" ... it IS necessary that he knows that once he cancels it, it can't be "uncancelled" ... but that's about it.

[cluelessinny 2]

adding uscis is just stupid! i am almost 5months on background check with clean records as a couple. then you have idiots hiring other idiots reading scripts on the phone. if this was my job, i find it very de-meaningful and i would shoot myself on the head. then you have the so claim smartest person running uscis when they spent millions of tax dollars on a call centers versus adjudicators. where is the cost benefit analysis? then they outsource the filing operations and it is even slower than usual. this just creates unnecessary overheads or providing a cash-line for the rich.

UMMM we are talking a government department,

[MissAAA 9]

Read my signature. That is all

[Penny Lane 8,159]

A relationship needs more than love to succeed.

But anyway, this is getting off topic. I think the OP has received the advice he needs.

[Cathi 5,755]

We don't know the details of his relationship, and it's none of our business. You don't know if this is "the first roadblock" at all. You're making assumptions.

He didn't come here asking for relationship advice. He came here because he's made a decision and wants to know how to properly cancel the petition. He's been told how to now. There's no reason for people to tell him to stay with the woman (who he said right away "is not the one") if he doesn't want to.

I'm not quite so sure why you are angry at people here who are merely trying to tell him that maybe waiting a day or 2 and maybe things will be different. You do not know the details either and you are making assumptions as well. All of us here are dealing with long distance relationships and we just don't want someone to give up if things can be worked out.. If it turns out that things are beyond repair then cancelling the petition and following the steps to do so by other posters is the best advice.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

I'm not quite so sure why you are angry at people here who are merely trying to tell him that maybe waiting a day or 2 and maybe things will be different. You do not know the details either and you are making assumptions as well. All of us here are dealing with long distance relationships and we just don't want someone to give up if things can be worked out.. If it turns out that things are beyond repair then cancelling the petition and following the steps to do so by other posters is the best advice.

There's no anger here. All I'm saying is that people here don't know the details. How do we know how long he's been contemplating ending his relationship? We don't. How do we know he hasn't thought this through? We don't. How do we know what his relationship troubles are? We don't. How do we know if he wants to work things out? We don't. He never mentioned ANY of this, in fact, he's made two posts. One saying she's not the one and the other saying his relationship has been crazy. And yet there are still some people saying "Stick with it, it'll get better."

He didn't ask for the relationship advice. He didn't post a history on here asking people what he should do. He told us what he wanted to do and how to do it and he got those answers. I'm not sure why people are feeling the need to diagnose his relationship problems without knowing anything about him OR the relationship. I've made NO assumptions about his relationship. His relationship is none of my business.

Edited June 6, 2012 by Evylin

[AlohaBabes 5]

Read my signature. That is all

Right!! Love conquers all....

It is just a 4 letter word but it has more broader meaning.

If there is LOVE, there is patience, respect, trust, loyalty, passion and so on..

So I would say Love is the most important thing in a relationship!! Cheers!!