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  1. 1. Would you end your relationship if you thought it was better for your SO?

    • Yes-my love for them outweighs my needs
      71
    • No-what they don't know won't hurt them
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    • No- I only care about my needs and desires
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    • Other
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  2. 2. I am a

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    • man
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If something presented itself during the course of your relationship and you knew the outcome;would you sacrifice your relationship with your fiance if you thought it would be better for them in the long run; even if they can't see it now?

This is my first poll; I hope it works :goofy:

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Filed: K-3 Visa Country: Jamaica
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I voted.

AOS, EAD - 115 days from mailing AOS to conditional Green Card in Hand

06-07-08 - File to remove conditions

4/28/09 - Moved to CSC

06-20-09- Received 10 year Greencard

Citizenship

07-09-09 - Filed N-400

Joel 2:25 (Amplified Bible) And I will restore or replace for you the years that the locust has eaten--the hopping locust, the stripping locust, and the crawling locust, My great army which I sent among you.

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I voted also, funny huh no guys have voted yet, come on guys!

* * * * * * * * * K-1 VISA * * * * * * * * * * * *

06/21/06: Submitted I-129F to the CSC

10/18/06: NOA2 DATE

01/29/07: MEDICAL IN CDJ

01/30/07: INTERVIEW in CDJ **My fiance receives his visa**

03/31/07-04/08/07: I leave to Mexico and bring back my fiance

04/08/07: U.S. ENTRY at LAX

04/23/07: Married in Vegas

* * * * * * * *AOS, AP, & EAD * * * * * * * * * *

05/24/07: Submitted AOS, AP, EAD

06/01/07: NOA1 for AOS & EAD, NOA1 for AP missing, but they received forms

06/06/07: TOUCHED (AOS, AP, EAD)

06/23/07: RFE for I-864 paperwork

07/03/07: Biometrics for AOS & EAD

07/03/07: TOUCHED (EAD)

07/07/07: Submitted response to RFE

07/18/07: TOUCHED (AOS) They received RFE response

08/08/07: AP APPROVED

08/10/07: EAD APPROVED

10/17/07: AOS interview in Los Angeles -- APPROVED, pending name check :(

02/08/08: Name check has cleared, Notice welcoming new resident is mailed out

02/12/08: Card Production ordered, woohoo

02/15/08: Notice welcoming new resident is received

02/21/08: GREEN CARD IN HAND

08/23/08: After 7 years together . . . Religious wedding ceremony and HUGE PARTY in Jalisco, Mexico (we deserve it)

08/24-08/30: Spend our honeymoon in Acapulco, Mexico

Link to video clip of our wedding: http://www.youtube.com/user/dstradaproducc...f/1/wHiId9HZVRc

Nov. 2009: File to Remove Conditions

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Jamaica
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I voted also, funny huh no guys have voted yet, come on guys!

Ditto

12/03/2005: Married

10/13/2006: Interview Approved

10/26/2006: POE: EWR (ARRIVED) [/size]

182 days from filing to Visa in Hand!!![/color]

AOS/EAD

01/22/2007: Sent to The Lockbox.....let the games begin.....again

02/02/2007: NOA1's for both....the waiting game officially begins

02/15/2007: Biometrics appt.

04/11/2007: EAD APPROVED!! YI-HAW

04/21/2007: Received SSN#

05/23/2007: AOS Interview -------> APPROOOOOOVED!!!!!!

05/29/2007: Received Welcome letter

06/04/2007: Green Card in Hand!!!

122 Days from filing AOS to Green Card in Hand!!!

REMOVING CONDITIONS

05/21/2009: Filed to Remove Conditions

6/18/2009: Biometrics Done

09/14/2009: Approved!!!

Citizenship

2/15/2011: Filed N-400

3/28/2011: Biometrics <-- Done

5/09/2011: Naturalization Interview <--- APPROVED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

5/09/2011: Swearing in Ceremony (We're Done)

MY HUSBAND IS NOW A US CITIZEN

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i think i would need more info to really answer this as truthfully as i could...

if there were a situation that was serious enough to even think of ending our marriage, then i would definitely not make the decision on my own and just sacrifice it because i felt it was best... there is another person in our marriage... and part of loving him is respecting him as well... so, i couldnt make the decision for him... it wouldnt be fair to him

if there were a situation that was that serious, we discussed it, and then i felt strongly that sacrificing my happiness for his, well, i would... his happiness is more important than my wants... but, i will say, i can not imagine anything that would be so serious that i would ever leave his side...

"True love is falling in love with your best friend,

and only then, will you find the meaning of happiness."

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Oh man.....one of 'those' loaded conversation starters.

It almost sounds like you are wanting some help making a decision.

Or you have a problem with a decision someone else made.

Sorry you're wrong on this one. Only mere curiousity. It's only a loaded question if you want it to be.

It really is quite a simple question.

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Filed: AOS (apr) Country: Colombia
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I voted and I am the forth man.

Peter Miami

Johanna & Peter

Colombia / U.S.A.

I-129F / K-1 Fiancee Visa

08-20-02 - Met Johanna in Armenia, Colombia

10-05-05 - K-1 Sent to TSC

10-14-05 - Received NOA1 by E-Mail (Day 9)

12-22-05 - Reveived NOA2 By E-Mail & Mail (Day 78)

03-03-06 - Interview Date! (Day 149) Approved

03-10-06 - Johanna Arrived

05-27-06 - Married

I-485 / AOS (Did not applied for EAD or AP)

06-05-06 - Sent I-485 application to Chicago via USPS (Day 1)

06-06-06 - AOS Package Delivered at 12:29PM

06-12-06 - Received NOA1 by Mail

06-14-06 - Check Cashed

06-22-06 - Received Appointment Notice for Biometrics

06-26-06 - "Request for Additional Evidence" Online, waiting for letter

06-29-06 - Biometrics Done!

06-30-06 - Received RFE Letter by mail. (Missing Birth Certificate)

07-10-06 - Sent RFE by Express Mail USPS

07-11-06 - RFE Delivered @ 10:54AM Sign by D. Atwell

08-28-06 - AOS Transferred to CSC E-mail & USCIS Website (Day 85)

08-30-06 - Touched #1

08-31-06 - Touched #2

08-31-06 - E-Mail from CRIS & USCIS-CSSO - CSC received AOS Application

09-01-06 - Touched #3

09-01-06 - NOA by Mail Regarding Transfer to CSC

09-05-06 - Touched #4

09-07-06 - Touched #5

09-13-06 - Touched #6

09-15-06 - AOS Approved by Online Status & E-mail

09-21-06 - Received GC and Welcome Letter (Day 109)

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Filed: Citizen (apr) Country: Brazil
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Interesting poll



* K1 Timeline *
* 04/07/06: I-129F Sent to NSC
* 10/02/06: Interview date - APPROVED!
* 10/10/06: POE Houston
* 11/25/06: Wedding day!!!

* AOS/EAD/AP Timeline *
*01/05/07: AOS/EAD/AP sent
*02/19/08: AOS approved
*02/27/08: Permanent Resident Card received

* LOC Timeline *
*12/31/09: Applied Lifting of Condition
*01/04/10: NOA
*02/12/10: Biometrics
*03/03/10: LOC approved
*03/11/10: 10 years green card received

* Naturalization Timeline *
*12/17/10: package sent
*12/29/10: NOA date
*01/19/11: biometrics
*04/12/11: interview
*04/15/11: approval letter
*05/13/11: Oath Ceremony - Officially done with Immigration.

Complete Timeline

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Filed: IR-1/CR-1 Visa Country: Jamaica
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I voted boy woman are still out numbering the men in this poll :lol:

Met Jan 1998, vows on 2006, Jay Jay born 2008, baby 2 - 2011

Look at time line for visa information

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If something presented itself during the course of your relationship and you knew the outcome;would you sacrifice your relationship with your fiance if you thought it would be better for them in the long run; even if they can't see it now?

This is my first poll; I hope it works :goofy:

I'm not sure I really understand the question :unsure:

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If something presented itself during the course of your relationship and you knew the outcome;would you sacrifice your relationship with your fiance if you thought it would be better for them in the long run; even if they can't see it now?

This is my first poll; I hope it works :goofy:

I'm not sure I really understand the question :unsure:

Well, I know that you are married, so I wouldn't expect that most married people would sacrifice their relationship when something of magnitude came up. My question was really directed at people who are not married yet. But I do see that some married people voted so the results are more interesting than I thought they would be.

My thoughts when putting together this poll was actually inspired by a woman that I know who made such a sacrifice for her children; but that type of poll would cause a firestorm.

So I was wondering whether anyone would sacrifice a realtionship for someone they were not married to yet.

BTW I don't have children in case anyone is speculating that I'm talking about myself.

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Filed: K-3 Visa Country: Philippines
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yes I would do whatever I could to bless my wife Melinda, that includes letting her go back to the Philippines if she was not happy here with me. I don't own her and she is not my slave, she is my wife and friend. Her needs always come before my own.

rob

I-129F

Filed New I-129F form with IMBRA June 19, 2006

NOA 1 June 26, 2006

Touched July 3, 2006

I-129F Approved by E mail August 21, 2006, Just 63 Days

NOA 2 for I-129F Received in the Mail August 26th, 2006

I-129F at NVC

Case Number assigned at NVC August 29, 2006 MNL2006XXXXXXXXX

NVC sends the I-129F to the Manila Embassy August 29th, 2006

Embassy in Manila Receives I-129F August 31st, 2006

Packet 4 Received by Melinda from Manila Embassy October 1, 2006

Interview at Us Embassy Manila, October 18, 2006

Visa Approved! Interview Completed.

Visa Delivered by DELBROS October 28th, 2006

October 30, 2006 Arrived back in LAX with Melinda, were going to Disneyland!!!

November 6th, 2006, Melinda and I are back home in Winslow Arizona loving Life!

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