What to Expect at Your K-1 Fiance Visa Interview??

[Tough_Era 71]

Ok! Want some advice? The "everything is a joke" part of your personality combined with the quick-tempered part of your personality that lashes out at someone as soon as they say something you don't want to hear is going to KILL YOU in your interview. They want to see someone that is "serious", not someone that comes off as everything is a game and shows arrogance in everything they say. And chances are, they are already reading this thread which is probably why you don't want to post your interview date (if you have one). My best advice to you is to grow up, get real, and take all of this serious...otherwise you are pretty much doomed in Casablanca. How's that for advice?

And you should take your picture down. Seriously.

Being here is a red flag.. and i'll stop here.. i won't tell anything.. cause i'll remove my account not just my picture

[Lisamarie 79]

You don't need to remove your account. But what you do need to do is realize that Casablanca is a very tough consulate and you are trying to get approved to be with a woman 17 years older than you (if I have that right). The consulate is not going to care about your cutesy personality or if you look cool, or handsome, or what....what they are going to care about is your seriousness and the validity of your relationship. You need to learn how to control your temper also because they will most likely ask some questions that you will not like and you are going to have to deal with them in a different way than you are handling things that you don't like being said here. So start taking this serious and maybe you'll get some serious help here and have a chance. There are people here that have much experience in this and can give you some great advice if you don't push them away.

Being here is a red flag.. and i'll stop here.. i won't tell anything.. cause i'll remove my account not just my picture

[Nasturtium 500]

Being here is a red flag.. and i'll stop here.. i won't tell anything.. cause i'll remove my account not just my picture

Oh whatever. You can stay and you don't need to take your picture down. People have gotten approved who have gone absolutely nuts on VJ. So have you ever considered working in action films? With all this working out, you'd be in shape to do long takes.

[Nasturtium 500]

Being here is a red flag.. and i'll stop here.. i won't tell anything.. cause i'll remove my account not just my picture

Oh! And if Mithra is your strict friend, does this mean she is like into rules or is she like a character from a comic book with a whip and whatnot?

I hope you had a great day today at the beach! Catch any fish?

Write any poems?

[Mithra 1,185]

Oooh I like the comic book character idea. Maybe a combo of bith - strict friend who likes rules and will whip you into shape if you step out of line.

Or maybe a character like Chantique -

http://starwars.wikia.com/wiki/Chantique

[Nasturtium 500]

Oooh I like the comic book character idea. Maybe a combo of bith - strict friend who likes rules and will whip you into shape if you step out of line.

Or maybe a character like Chantique -

http://starwars.wikia.com/wiki/Chantique

She gas really platnum blonde hair and a tiny leather suit. I dunno if Zagray likes blonde hair?

[Darnell 8,478]

Zagray - based on what you've written, I find your attitude about the whole process arrogant, offensive, & teetering on fraud based on wanting to lie & hide things from the interviewer. If I get that from your writings on VJ, surely the CO will pick up on that at the interview.

Also, COs have been known in the past to read VJ. Perhaps your posting your picture is not the smartest idea, especially given your talk about hiding things from the consulate.

Good luck.

Ya, when he first started posting, I had this sense (from reading his stuff, I'm a reader, la) that he's got a very cavalier attitude about this process, and the interview itself, and just flat out refuses to understand (or decided to ignore stuff based on his teetering edge) that he'll be interviewed at an IV unit known for high fraud attempt counts, and other 'bad' stuff already written about.

I see his attitude hasn't changed, so I must assume his understanding didn't change either - for if he was doing research - his questions, after HIS reading, would have a totally different slant and focus.

Oh well.

ZaGray - You Rock! (and Stuff)

[Darnell 8,478]

Wanna know something please... Would spiky hair with slim suit be considered as a red flag when there's gap age?? I mean my appearance may make the interviewer believe there's no maturity or such and most of all handsomeness will make the interviewer wonder why i can't marry a muslim girl from morocco.. I think i have a bunch of flags SIGH

Yes, if the spikes are longer than 4 centimeters, as that length (or longer), combined with a slim suit - leads the Visa Officer to believe that he's interviewing a gigolo.

I am happy to finally read (from you) that you think you have a bunch of red flags. I am happy that you are FINALLY understanding this. Refactor your plan a bit. Actually, refactor yer plan a LOT.

Edited June 7, 2012 by Darnell

[Darnell 8,478]

I feel sorry for your fiancee if you do have a fiancee. There have been some tools that have come through this forum in the past 6+ years. I don't know why I'm surprised that another one showed up.

tempus fugit, alas. Is a new crop every how many months?

[Darnell 8,478]

I'm living happily with the fact i'm in and some people want to make me feel wrong about the beliefs i got and the way life i want it to be.. i have the courage to do what i know is morally right..

Sometimes this is confused with the honest fact that one DOES refactor a plan, after learning more, getting more pertinent data.

Don't get confused. Refactoring a plan is a big sign of maturity and wisdom.

[Darnell 8,478]

Definitely not a troll. Zagray is real and sincere in his declarations of infatutation. I don't think he's ever been here before either. there was that one hilarious guy, mozmoz who had a few aliases... but Zagray is the one and only!

lol

I miss MozMoz. He was the shiznit.

[Darnell 8,478]

Being here is a red flag.. and i'll stop here.. i won't tell anything.. cause i'll remove my account not just my picture

Just remember, you have to get on your account profile, then click on 'report member' then compose the msg to have your account removed. The Mods will do it - what I've descibed is the fastest way to get it done.

Good Luck !

[Shoot Em Straight 385]

I miss MozMoz. He was the shiznit.

Ask and YE shall recieve...

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/topic/371590-i-need-really-advice/

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