Love on Vacation

[Laveau 67]

Seems Debbie (the blonde) looked after him some. The boy got his own food from the looks of it. He was buying a sandwich in one scene. I was appalled that the boy was wandering around that club with all those drunken idiots. No one seemed to care that he was just wandering like that. His mother knew she was being selfish and even said so. She did not care. If they wanted to go act like whores for two weeks, that's fine but don't take the kids. Did you hear the boy say something like his mom will get him a prostitute when he's 13?

Oh good lord! I didn't catch that.

[Lisamarie 79]

To each his own.....next time leave the kids home, that's pretty disgusting.

I was repulsed by this. Not because of what the women were doing. More because they brought their kids along

Yikes

[Iyawo Ijebu 157]

I saw it in Algeria with wealthy french women and french algerian divorced women going back and having boytoys. Here in the US it seems that I keep running into 20's young epcot moroccans married to people older than me and this whole boytoy thing seems pretty socially acceptable as long as it ends in a visa, passport in the end. Whats so sad is when the woman is very invested in it. You could see at the end the british woman started to look really sad. They just might NOT get the attention they need back in the UK and this is their 2 weeks to really live. Now if they did not have their kids right up in it and were more age appropriate, to me I think it would be better. But notice as they went past guys their own age and the one woman said..BYE BYE FLABBY OLD MAN , waving at them. Perhaps if she looked for someone closer to her age, she could develop at least a friendship with the guy and have some good times that werent so careless. I felt so bad for that little boy. But to be honest with you, this video shows the biggest example of how cross cultural relationships are handled by women meeting and falling in love on vacation and how sometimes their kids are the biggest victims. When we petition from overseas and bring a man into our kids lives, we need to make sure they are the right person for your kids too. She didnt seem to make sure her kids were safe. Her daughter could have been killed. At 17, to go home with some guy and get victimised? Whats sad is all of this is pretty common in Greece, in Turkey, In Tunisia. I am not sure about Morocco..but remember europeans holiday for a month in the summer and have much time to vackay than we do . Plus they are alot closer to the places there. In 2 hours, they can be almost anywhere. You wont see as much of this with americans and these countries because most of us are too far away to get into too much trouble unless they are hitting the caribbean and most of us do not have the money to have these long relationships. I am very aware that these toyboys are all over mena, in different countries, different place. Oran is full of them, except its french algerian women that keep them and Morocco its all types. Surprisingly,I saw the most in tunisia and thats because its so cheap and so close and long established as a safe place to holiday until recently.

Ill look for more movies as I go. I think this is an interesting topic

We think alike.

It's all fun and good until the music stops and then the "shall I reprot this to USCIS" threads start.

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Seems Debbie (the blonde) looked after him some. The boy got his own food from the looks of it. He was buying a sandwich in one scene. I was appalled that the boy was wandering around that club with all those drunken idiots. No one seemed to care that he was just wandering like that. His mother knew she was being selfish and even said so. She did not care. If they wanted to go act like whores for two weeks, that's fine but don't take the kids. Did you hear the boy say something like his mom will get him a prostitute when he's 13?

oh good lord...i have to re watch

[Iyawo Ijebu 157]

Okay just had a bit of a watch.

It's clear why these Women have to resort to this, the're getting stale on the shelf. What Brit is going to touch those grotesqueness with a ten foot pole?

[aaydrian 479]

Funny narrative tone.

A nuh rasta dem... a rent a dread dat. Fiyah !

Never would have thought.

What Brit is going to touch those grotesqueness with a ten foot pole?

Might get flamed but whatever. Do Brits even have a ten foot pole?

[Nasturtium 500]

I didnt notice emil's face. I need to re watch this. Some how I just feel sad after watching it. Can you imagine how these guys perceive any western woman that they meet after these morons? Imagine going to turkey to look at anatolya or look up ww1 history and you are face to face with men that have had run ins with these pieces of work? Its not a surprise that everyone has such a bad feeling about americans and europeans..The women are almost emotionally abusive to the men as well, the way they talk about them. I am glad I am at least a little culturally sensitive...If they were in lets say greece, the clothes were ok but I would never, even when I was younger, ever dress that way around muslims.

Well, it only reinforces the wh0re stereotype!

Seems Debbie (the blonde) looked after him some. The boy got his own food from the looks of it. He was buying a sandwich in one scene. I was appalled that the boy was wandering around that club with all those drunken idiots. No one seemed to care that he was just wandering like that. His mother knew she was being selfish and even said so. She did not care. If they wanted to go act like whores for two weeks, that's fine but don't take the kids. Did you hear the boy say something like his mom will get him a prostitute when he's 13?

I know! So gross.

[PMartin37 161]

I was repulsed by this. Not because of what the women were doing. More because they brought their kids along

Yikes

They might need to invent a new word to describe this brand of pathetic.

[PMartin37 161]

OK, I watched this whole thing last night. ZOMG. First, the women (and I'm discussing the Turkey one-- I haven't seen the others)are totally trashy. They are seriously screwing up their kids. Secondly, the guys are gross-- although 1:04 is the most hilarious humpy huddle of all time. It's so obvious to see what the guys are getting out of it though. The guy the red-haired girl hooks up with says in the beginning that it's about sex. She thinks it could be real because he doesn't ask for anything-- well that's because he got what he said he wanted-- sex! Ali looks like Tom Greene and is totally creepy. He is obviously in it for the sex and material things. I feel sorry for his wife who is not only at risk for heartbreak but also for STDs and Gd knows what else.

I find it amazing how callous they are toward that little boy. The daughters are totally trashy, although in different ways. At least the one doesn't seem into sex tourism and finds the whole thing gross, but she's also pretty bigoted. The younger one is pretty trashy and there is no way Bar Boy Ruben is into her for more beyond sex and a visa.

I loved the "#######" face and comments of their guide, creepy Emil, when they told him about their boyfriend-spuncle relationship of Mother-brother-brother-daughter. Like that was too far even for him.

I also find it amazing how ignorant and socially inept people are-- do they not notice how out of place they are behaviorally and in dress as they are in the village areas-- and in the city in general? I've seen more classy prostitutes at home.

OMG and that old guy who had his shirt open and was dancing-- vomit. Vomit actually describes it all pretty well.

I really love in the beginning (the blonde)she's picking out her wardrobe for the vacay ..and says something about her white skirt like "that doesn't look to trashy" LOL oh noooooo it's PeRFECT

[PMartin37 161]

Okay just had a bit of a watch.

It's clear why these Women have to resort to this, the're getting stale on the shelf. What Brit is going to touch those grotesqueness with a ten foot pole?

Did you get a gander at those toothless wonders they had to pick from at the pub they were in ? I think their collective problem (these clueless women) is that they spend entirely too much time looking for men in BARS. Just like here in the U.S. , it is possible to find love in a bar...but likely?? Not really.

[Darnell 8,479]

I think if a woman finds a great sex partner on her vacation, that's a plus.

What I think really sucks, though, is that she's not 'found a man' back in her home country... IMO, there's wants/needs/desires that can be fulfilled locally.

No No, I'm not talking smack of those wishing to sponser another person for a visa, but

those simply sojourning for the sex . Sex Tourism is big business.

The flip side, though, really, is that my 2nd paragraph can be refocused back on me.. Why didn't I find a local lass? For me, that one's easy - I found my lass when I was WORKING in China, and we've been a couple ever since (for those trying to knock a wedge here...)

But back to sex tourism. Look, this stuff costs money. Multiple trips can get expensive over a year's time, or especially two year's time. To bring one's children is a sign of poor financial planning, IMO.

But I digress.. I think it's a niche market, and for the British women headed to Turkey, it all seems within budget. Except when it becomes an obsession, and they lose track of financial planning, and canna afford the child minders at home during the trip...

Bringing yer kids along on a sex-tour junket, IMO, is a big sign of 'low class'.

Edited June 2, 2012 by Darnell

[Beauty for Ashes 257]

Did you get a gander at those toothless wonders they had to pick from at the pub they were in ? I think their collective problem (these clueless women) is that they spend entirely too much time looking for men in BARS. Just like here in the U.S. , it is possible to find love in a bar...but likely?? Not really.

She could just watch netflix and buy something with batteries. At least the 50000 she spent would be in the bank or her IRA and not in this useless fruitless pursuit of these guys..

YIKES..

[Nasturtium 500]

This thread should move back to MENA.

[ErikaAndHamit 73]

Oh, a must see when the babies allow me to watch uninterrupted....LOL And no, my hubby isn't from the tourist areas ha ha ha I have heard of this kind of thing over there, but only in tourist beach areas like Adana and Alanya, etc and from what I know, the men don't need to look for a woman to use, the women come to them!

[Nasturtium 500]

Oh, a must see when the babies allow me to watch uninterrupted....LOL And no, my hubby isn't from the tourist areas ha ha ha I have heard of this kind of thing over there, but only in tourist beach areas like Adana and Alanya, etc and from what I know, the men don't need to look for a woman to use, the women come to them!

That pretty much describes this video! GILFs on patrol.