i may have been scamed

[aaydrian 479]

Move on. She loved you for 3.5 years but now she's fallen for a younger guy with stamina for days and tricks she never even dreamed of. Go find yourself a younger girl (maybe 30 yrs your senior?) to put even more juice in your seasoned joints than your ex wife.

Nice wedding photo btw.

[Nana098 18]

Is very sad read about your problem with your Colombian wife. Everyone think that all Colombian women are bad and we don't love our husbands/wifes. Maybe some people are fake and act the wrong way to get a visa, green card or citizenship, they are insensitive of the harm they do, but many Colombians are good people.

I hope you come out ahead with your problem.

[James C Fox 0]

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my wife from colombia has informed me that she is no longer in love with me and wants to get a divorice and she now has a boyfriend. I think that she has set me up. she has been planing this all along, and i have been the fool, she is 25 years younger than me and she is in the process of getting her citizenship. she is waiting to here from them to get an appointment. so my question is: should i inform imigration that this may have been fraud? do i do anything? the marriage has been for 4 years. please give me some advice

If she is serious then it is your duty/obligation to report this to immigrations

[NancyNguyen 1,657]

If she is serious then it is your duty/obligation to report this to immigrations

Do you know what you are saying? Report what? A changed person to immigration? Sorry Immigration is not something you can lean on your broken marriage.

[BlueBonnet 84]

If she is serious then it is your duty/obligation to report this to immigrations

IMHO this is poor advice from a new member. I dont see fraud here, she was married to him for almost 4 years, the marriage didnt work out. I have been married over a year now, I love my husband with everything I am, does that mean that if in 3 years I dont love him ( for whatever reason ) that he should be allowed to use the threat of immigration at my every turn ?

The OP is obviously hurt, as anyone would be when the partner they love and adore tells them that they dont feel the same way anymore, that does not however give him the right to manipulate her through threats of deportation.

[Iyawo Ijebu 157]

IMHO this is poor advice from a new member. I dont see fraud here, she was married to him for almost 4 years, the marriage didnt work out. I have been married over a year now, I love my husband with everything I am, does that mean that if in 3 years I dont love him ( for whatever reason ) that he should be allowed to use the threat of immigration at my every turn ?

The OP is obviously hurt, as anyone would be when the partner they love and adore tells them that they dont feel the same way anymore, that does not however give him the right to manipulate her through threats of deportation.

Could he or she possibly be a lurker for months.

[rade2rising 205]

something here is not right