DO they deport me if my fiance leave me in US?

[rayandmel 39]

Listen, if you can read these posts and respond the way you have, you should be able to read this and get an idea of what you need to do:

http://www.visajourney.com/content/k1guide

This is a step by step guide on what you need to do. IF you are not yet married, your "love" has to file the first paperwork anyway. SO I suggest she start researching with you if you are truly looking for answers.

If you are already married you need to look into a spousal visa.... You can't be asking about green cards and all of that until you first figure out what type of visa you need and fill out your timeline so people can properly help you.

[jaycali 415]

Thanky you Kathryn41 so much you see they are not respect me.I'm very very sad ,I thought everyone in US respect people .Sadly .I'm sccared of your worries comments

Aram22, I will try to make this as respectful as I can.

From your other posts, I can gather that you are:

1. Married

2. Applying for a K-1 visa.

3. Worried about being deported from the US if your fiance/wife leaves you once you enter the US.

There are a couple of things here that you can and will be deported for.

1. You will be either denied a visa, or deported for applying for a K-1 if you are in fact married. The consulate/USCIS does not care if you were married in a church, mosque, synagogue or city hall. If you are married, you are married, period. And you should not be applying for K-1. If you get a K-1 visa, and they find out you are actually married, you will be deported and most likely banned from entering the US for 10+ years, possibly for life.

2. If you aren't actually married, and you do enter on a K-1 visa, and your fiancee leaves you before you get married, then yes, you will be out of status 90 days after you entered. This means that if you don't get married within 90 days of entering, you will not be allowed to stay.

If you do get married within 90 days, you have to adjust status (AOS). This takes about 5 months. If you get married, and you don't adjust status, and your wife leaves you. You will be out of status, and you will not be allowed to stay.

If you get married, adjust status and receive your conditional green card, you will still have to file for removal of conditions in 2 years (-90 days). If you get divorced before the 2 years, you can still file for removal of conditions, but you may have to prove that the marriage was entered into in good faith. This means you'll have to prove that the marriage was not just for you to get into the US. If they have reason to suspect that your marriage was fake, you will be deported.

If your marriage was real, and you successfully remove conditions after divorce, you'll get a 10 year green.

I hope this helps. The vast majority of posters here are in real, loving relationships/marriages and it is a huge insult to all of us when people try to fake their way to a green card by faking a marriage. Understand that the reason for the waits being so long are largely due to the fact that many people try to get married to an American, just to come to the US. When you post topics and posts that sound like you're trying to commit fraud, you will receive zero respect and help from this forum (and hopefully the USCIS/consulate too).

US government should give people to stay US when american fiance leave the forigner ,If the foreigner leave the fiance i give right to US government to deport him/her.

No they shouldn't. Permanent residency in the US is not some sort of prize or award given to foreigners who "manage" to marry an American. It's a courtesy to allow American citizens to marry whoever they want, and live with them in America. I think you have misunderstood the immigration system.

Edited May 25, 2012 by jaejayC

[Caryh 5,206]

1 Be in each others presence within the last two years and prove it.

2 She needs to make enough to support you at 125% poverty level

3 send in an I-129F and other completed forms with lots of supporting documents, including proving an on going relationship

4 Wait until the petition is granted

5 You get a medical checkup and go to an interview at the embassy. Again many forms and documents proving things

6 You get a visa if approved.

7 You enter the USA

8 You have 90 Days to get married

9 After getting married you must file an AOS to adjust status and get a conditional green card. This can take 4 to 8 months

10 After 2 years you apply to remove conditions on your green card

11 Apply for citizenship. In 3 years if married to an American Citizen, in 5 years as legal resident with green card.

If you do not finish step 9, you must leave, you are not here legally and can be deported.

It is not until step 11 that you can consider yourself safe from being deported. Commit a crime before then and they can take away your green card and deport you.

[BlueBonnet 84]

Although I believe the Kathryn is being PC with this subject and the OP, I dont believe that the issue lies within his poor English. I think the problem that were having, as the users of this site who make it what it is, full of knowledge and understanding, is that the OP has so many threads started with alot of different scenarios. So we, the users, have no clue what it is hes really looking for.

Yesterday was alot about being asked at an interview if hes had sex with his fiance.

Then it was posts about how they married in a church.

Then its about deportation.

And everything in between.

So please Kathryn, dont berate us, the users of this site, for calling a spade a spade. No one knows where in the process he really is, because he flips from fiance and K1 to already being married. When I first got here, I read, and read and read. Ive seen alot ( and I dont agree with this ) where a new user will ask a question and someone will link the guide lines. I do believe that we have a responsibility to the new people to aide them as much as we can, just like we once were, however, its very difficult for us to do it, when we dont know that situation and cant get a direct question without some random one coming up to threads later.

Most questions that we get from new users are in reference to forms, how to help with filling them out, these are the honest questions and they deserve honest answers. But to ask us, who dont know him, what he should say to a CO about having had sex with his finace, when we dont know if its a fiance or a wife, nor does it sound like theres a petition even sent . . . how are we supposed to answer that ? I call troll, alot of us have, and Kathryn, dont look at it like were the bad people who are belittling or not respecting the OP, look at like this guy isnt respecting our site by ( what I view as ) looking for ways to get into the USA and stay without fulfilling the K1 ... and this goes back to the ... if shes his wife, there is no K1 for him, and I would hope hes had sex with her .. like married loving couples do.

[BrockUK 26]

HERE HERE! I SECOND THAT BLUEBONNET!!

[aram22 0]

Thank you for both ,Cuz you are good people and respect me to love this forum.

jaejayC

Caryh

And ignore for others,I'm asking addmine to tell you to respect yourself and if something is not your problem why you say something to hurt me?I really hurt in this forum,I said no one answer me if you not intrested to my questions.

[Kathryn41 3,205]

One member has been thread-banned and two more inappropriate comments have been removed.

In response to the other comments, we have an individual who is not very fluent in English, knows virtually nothing about the immigration programme and equally little about how internet forums work, especially Visa Journey, and is trying to wade through cultural differences.

His scenario, from what I can see, is he is involved with an American woman. They met recently in person. They had a 'religious' ceremony that was not official, nor was it registered in any way, in some sort of a church (not Muslim) as a means to obtain 'permission' for having a sexual relationship - something that is not part of many cultures until after marriage. This marriage is not a legal marriage, rather one that makes them feel that there is enough legitimacy to their relationship that it can be pursued. The OP himself is confused about what this means - does this make his girlfriend his wife, or his she is fiancee because they plan on having a legal marriage to make them husband and wife?

Yes, the OP would like to come to the US, but he has asked his American partner to move to his country as well, where he is well off and knows where 'what is what'. She doesn't want to, so she is sponsoring him on a fiancee visa. When and where she applied is unclear and we have no timeline.

Perhaps the OP isn't what he claims to be - but we do not have the right to go after another member, especially one who is not conversant in our language, our customs, our culture and our processes - because he is not conversant in our language our customs, our culture and our processes. If you doubt his posts,then don't respond. Do not treat the immigration forums like an Off Topic free for all. This violates both the intention and the spirit of Visa Journey.. If you have to 'give the benefit of the doubt' in order to respond, then do so. It costs you nothing to be helpful to another, and if he turns out to be someone other than what he claims, it has still cost you nothing to respond with respect and courtesy.

Imagine that you are a stranger in a strange land trying to find out information that you believe you need. You may not know what questions to ask, so you ask a lot of different questions. You may make mistakes or have misunderstadings about certain situations, so you seek clarification. You may use the wrong words in this language with which you are not very familiar. Would you appreciate someone responding to your inquiries the way so many of you have just responded here? Would you wanted to be treated this way? You act this like a game because you have your expectations of what a legitimate poster is like and the OP doesn't fit your mold. Because he doesn't match what you believe he should be, you have decided that there is something flawed or false about his situation without trying to make allowances for the language, and culture, and technological differences and limitations.

Yes, it would help to have those fact and details, but you don't. Because you don't, you do not have enough information to negate the very real influences of language, culture and technological sophistication.

So, my warning is repeated. If you cannot respond with courtesy and politeness, answering the questions or asking for clarification without resorting to the pack mentality of 'ganging up' on someone who is different than you, then don't post in his threads.

Edited May 25, 2012 by Kathryn41

[pushbrk 12,883]

The OP might benefit from reading this short story.

Aesop The Boy Who Cried Wolf

A shepherd-boy, who watched a flock of sheep near a village, brought out the villagers three or four times by crying out, "Wolf! Wolf!" and when his neighbors came to help him, laughed at them for their pains.

The Wolf, however, did truly come at last. The Shepherd-boy, now really alarmed, shouted in an agony of terror: "Pray, do come and help me; the Wolf is killing the sheep"; but no one paid any heed to his cries, nor rendered any assistance. The Wolf, having no cause of fear, at his leisure lacerated or destroyed the whole flock.

There is no believing a liar, even when he speaks the truth.

Not calling anybody a liar here. It's just a story. Taking care prior to posting can prevent a lot of misunderstanding.

Edited May 25, 2012 by pushbrk

[aram22 0]

Hi Kathryn41 I really thankful for you.I hope all American treat me like you treat me.I really want to be close to you and hug you like someone in my family.You really a great person with great feeling.Because you understand of others feeling.I really hope to meet you some day in person and tell you thank you.

Regards.

[Penny Lane 8,159]

I'm trying to figure out why the OP states he has an interview at the embassy next week. An interview for WHAT? That's how this whole thing started. He wanted to know what kind of questions he'd face NEXT WEEK.

[BlueBonnet 84]

I think then that since the OP is having a difficult time understanding how immigration works, and that it is his fiance that has made the decision to sponser him over, that maybe it is she who should be posting on the forums or they need to hire a lawyer to process their paperwork. If they are only at the beginning of the process - maybe who knows - and havent filed a thing, and are finding it this difficult to get the information that they require, I dont see it getting better. Im a pretty intelligent person, I understand paperwork and forms, and I got thrown for a loop or two during our process, I found it overwhelming at times, and I think that if this OP continues down the path hes been going the last two days, he will find that his posts arent going to get answered and hes going to end up extremely frustrated. Ive seen his reaction when he doesnt feel respected, I can only imagine it when hes ignored.

I wont post anymore to this person or this thread, but honestly, I feel that I say what alot of others want to, but dont. Im not interested in arguing, but I think if you want help with something, you ask nicely and clearly, and if that isnt possible, then maybe you shouldnt be posting, or you find another avenue to get your questions asked.

[Me&myLove 4]

Congratulations, Kathryn! Good to know VJ can still be helpful, even to those with limited ability to express themselves because of language and cultural differences, because of people who think like you do.

One member has been thread-banned and two more inappropriate comments have been removed.

In response to the other comments, we have an individual who is not very fluent in English, knows virtually nothing about the immigration programme and equally little about how internet forums work, especially Visa Journey, and is trying to wade through cultural differences.

His scenario, from what I can see, is he is involved with an American woman. They met recently in person. They had a 'religious' ceremony that was not official, nor was it registered in any way, in some sort of a church (not Muslim) as a means to obtain 'permission' for having a sexual relationship - something that is not part of many cultures until after marriage. This marriage is not a legal marriage, rather one that makes them feel that there is enough legitimacy to their relationship that it can be pursued. The OP himself is confused about what this means - does this make his girlfriend his wife, or his she is fiancee because they plan on having a legal marriage to make them husband and wife?

Yes, the OP would like to come to the US, but he has asked his American partner to move to his country as well, where he is well off and knows where 'what is what'. She doesn't want to, so she is sponsoring him on a fiancee visa. When and where she applied is unclear and we have no timeline.

Perhaps the OP isn't what he claims to be - but we do not have the right to go after another member, especially one who is not conversant in our language, our customs, our culture and our processes - because he is not conversant in our language our customs, our culture and our processes. If you doubt his posts,then don't respond. Do not treat the immigration forums like an Off Topic free for all. This violates both the intention and the spirit of Visa Journey.. If you have to 'give the benefit of the doubt' in order to respond, then do so. It costs you nothing to be helpful to another, and if he turns out to be someone other than what he claims, it has still cost you nothing to respond with respect and courtesy.

Imagine that you are a stranger in a strange land trying to find out information that you believe you need. You may not know what questions to ask, so you ask a lot of different questions. You may make mistakes or have misunderstadings about certain situations, so you seek clarification. You may use the wrong words in this language with which you are not very familiar. Would you appreciate someone responding to your inquiries the way so many of you have just responded here? Would you wanted to be treated this way? You act this like a game because you have your expectations of what a legitimate poster is like and the OP doesn't fit your mold. Because he doesn't match what you believe he should be, you have decided that there is something flawed or false about his situation without trying to make allowances for the language, and culture, and technological differences and limitations.

Yes, it would help to have those fact and details, but you don't. Because you don't, you do not have enough information to negate the very real influences of language, culture and technological sophistication.

So, my warning is repeated. If you cannot respond with courtesy and politeness, answering the questions or asking for clarification without resorting to the pack mentality of 'ganging up' on someone who is different than you, then don't post in his threads.

[Emmysaur 29]

Nothing is impossible this will never happen on me ,Just asking,If i come to US.And if my fiance leave me in US before getting married with her and bofore i have permenant resident card,Do they deport me?

Do i have any right to stay there?I should i to stay there ,While my fiance leave me.

If anyone don't know please don't answer.

If you're already anticipating this to happen, don't you think it's best if you give yourself and your fiancee more time to work on your relationship first before your pursue this route?

Edited May 25, 2012 by Wade<3Emmy

[JohnR! 5,495]

Nothing is impossible this will never happen on me ,Just asking,If i come to US.And if my fiance leave me in US before getting married with her and bofore i have permenant resident card,Do they deport me?

Do i have any right to stay there?I should i to stay there ,While my fiance leave me.

If anyone don't know please don't answer.

Yes, if your fiance/fiancee decides to cancel the wedding after your arrival to the US, you will have to return to your home country. If you do not do so you may become eligible for deportation.

[aram22 0]

Thank you guys.

Regards,