Looking for advice from the Veteran VJ RUB Couples

[Brad and Vika 129]

The truth is it all depends on what kind of person your wife is. If she was a quality person in the FSU with quality friends there she will seek out quality friends when she gets here and you will have few problems because of it. Most men who marry women women from the FSU don't really know them that well (if they will admit it or not). If things go south in your marriage because of the friends she makes here there is little you will be able to do about it...and you will not know about it until it is too late...

Initially any one who spoke Russian seemed to have a lot of credibility with Vika. She did catch on fast, and saw that not every one was happy for her, or had her best interests at heart when they were laying on advice. She is pretty choosy now about who she talks to, evil eye aside The initial desire to talk with them came from some homesickness, and a need to ask questions and communicate with people that were thought to have a similar experience set. Completely natural.