Sex lives of married Egyptians laid bare - news article

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

anyone can learn tantric massage, though.

http://tantraecstasy.blogspot.com/2009/05/how-to-give-tantric-breast-massage.html

(link not safe for work or with children in the background)

"Wand of Light" :rofl:

[elmcitymaven 9,712]

This part sounds like a recipe, not sexytimes.

The second step to massaging the breast is done after the breast is fully covered in oil.

Unless you're into sexytimes with raw chicken, but that's just begging for salmonella. Also, some of those comments sound like they were written by men writing for a subcontinental version of Penthouse Letters, Milkmaid Special Issue.

[Ban Hammer 13,349]

Also, the fact that they have an aversion to oral sex doesn't help matters either!

well, that is an acquired taste.

[Shoot Em Straight 385]

OHHHHH MENA Forum!!! IF I could only post something in here now!!!

Thank you ladies you made me laugh!

[Amber & Ahmed 133]

I agree that Egyptian men learn primarily about sex from porn movies and that sets them up for FAILURE. Also, the fact that they have an aversion to oral sex doesn't help matters either!

Not ALL Egyptian men have that particular aversion

[NY_BX 397]

Not ALL Egyptian men have that particular aversion

I know.....

They have an aversion to giving, but certainly not receiving. Ok, seriously, when I had that conversation, the 6 males in the discussion would never even imagine that oral sex is as important to a woman than it is to a man. The debate was "I see in porn movies they all give bj's but no men returning the favor" (of course, they used explicit wording which I will refrain from posting here). My now husband was baffled and in total disbelief hearing them say those things! And my inside, instant reaction was "thank god!"

Sexual education is important, doesn't matter what religion you practice or your particular beliefs or desires. Because, the result is education comes from porn movies and the curiosity is solved by hiring someone special for a particular need (which is topic for another debate).

Edited May 21, 2012 by NY_BX

[Mithra 1,185]

Not all Egyptian men have an aversion to oral sex.

I agree that Egyptian men learn primarily about sex from porn movies and that sets them up for FAILURE. Also, the fact that they have an aversion to oral sex doesn't help matters either!

[meno-is-mine 37]

I agree that the issue with most couples is lack of good communication and some of that is due to feeling shame in the subject matter. I do think the issue of sex is very taboo in Egyptian culture, but it shouldnt be. There was a documentary i saw once about a sex therapist and trying to voice female concerns with regards to sex and it was mentioned that bad sex is a reason for many divorces. Some women are unsatisfied, some are unwilling to communicate their needs, and men are either selfish or just don't know what their women really want. In the documentary, they took to the streets to ask many men and women their thoughts on the subject and so many people would get embarrassed upon hearing that it was about sex and would walk away. But I think that one shouldn't get embarrassed to communicate to their partner what they like or need.

tantric massage can be taught, in any language.

just saying..

give me the dog and 48 hours. then you decide.

I agree with you Darnell. I think anyone can be taught.

[Mithra 1,185]

Yeah not even an aversion to giving. Some Egyptian men have had relatively active sex lives prior to marriage and I'm not even talking about men living in Sharm. I know that some women (maybe the majority) in this forum have married unexperienced (virgin) MENA men but not all. Honestly, I couldn't have married someone inexperienced being over 30 and being married before. That would've been like having to downgrade from a Bentley to a Focus.

Obviously these men haven't watched an entire porn film. Not that I watch them with any sort of regularity but I do know that they usually show all forms of oral sex.

I know.....

They have an aversion to giving, but certainly not receiving. Ok, seriously, when I had that conversation, the 6 males in the discussion would never even imagine that oral sex is as important to a woman than it is to a man. The debate was "I see in porn movies they all give bj's but no men returning the favor" (of course, they used explicit wording which I will refrain from posting here). My now husband was baffled and in total disbelief hearing them say those things! And my inside, instant reaction was "thank god!"

Sexual education is important, doesn't matter what religion you practice or your particular beliefs or desires. Because, the result is education comes from porn movies and the curiosity is solved by hiring someone special for a particular need (which is topic for another debate).

[NY_BX 397]

Yeah not even an aversion to giving. Some Egyptian men have had relatively active sex lives prior to marriage and I'm not even talking about men living in Sharm. I know that some women (maybe the majority) in this forum have married unexperienced (virgin) MENA men but not all. Honestly, I couldn't have married someone inexperienced being over 30 and being married before. That would've been like having to downgrade from a Bentley to a Focus.

Obviously these men haven't watched an entire porn film. Not that I watch them with any sort of regularity but I do know that they usually show all forms of oral sex.

I remember when I met my now husband and we were in the "getting to know every detail about our belief systems stage," we talked about sex. I told him I'd never marry an inexperienced man to what he confessed he'd had some experience. Talking about sexuality was refreshing and, to be honest, a relief! The Bentley to Focus analogy is perfect!

[Fandango 1,439]

Agreed on all accounts.

My husband (during our conversation about this article) said that, in his opinion, the main reason Egyptian men want a virgin is because that way their performance can't be compared to another man in the mind of their wife. She doesn't know if his performance is poor. Obviously not all men think this way otherwise divorced gals like myself wouldnt have Egyptian husbands.

Give a starving man a stale saltine, and he'll think it's the best Ritz he's ever had...

hahaha, si man si

please don't.

[Staashi 371]

All of this reminds me of something a friend said the other day: ”I think virgins should marry virgins.”

[NY_BX 397]

All of this reminds me of something a friend said the other day: ”I think virgins should marry virgins.”

Yes, please!

[PalestineMyHeart 1,897]

All of this reminds me of something a friend said the other day: ”I think virgins should marry virgins.”

That's essentially what Qur'an says.

[NY_BX 397]

That's essentially what Qur'an says.

and the Bible.

My husband found out the hard way: he got Jehovah Witnessed while I was at work.

He was simply wearing a towel around his waist when he opened the door. Being an athletic 6'6", the ladies were more than............. excited. Nevertheless, they turned away being they were provoked by "evil forces" to look at him with eyes of desire.

I swear I was so so so sorry I wasn't there to witness that!