May 2012 Filers

[BrockUK 26]

Looking at all these posts for us May 2012 filers makes me feel happy that you guys have seen this through and are now with your loved ones

As for me, i am still trying to find inner peace and trying to move on with my life. Im sure one day I will be back to normal, but my road to recovery is long and bumpy.

As for you guys though, you guys were really tested and pushed to the limit. And your love is so strong that you guys have made it out the other side and you are now together forever! Congratulations again!

[sk8rpatty 17]

Thanks Brock!

It's good to hear from you and know that you're trying to move forward.

I've been around much longer than most here and been through a lot of ####### in my life so I offer this piece of advice. What I can tell you from my experience is the sooner you can forgive (mostly yourself) and definitely FORGET(her), the sooner you can move on with your life. When I was finally able to let go of the anger I had for my ex is when I met the love of my life.

Hang in there!

[SweetDelish 38]

Brock, so good to hear from you. Im glad you came back on to say hello. What Patty said.. I don't think I've been around as long as Patty (ahem) but its good advice, letting go can be hard when you felt so much, but some day you will look back at your experience and realise its become a fleeting moment in your past and you'll be glad that thats all it was. I've been there.

[SweetDelish 38]

1 Year Later....

I was just thinking about how different things were 1 year ago. 5/11 was that horrible day that we learned Jordan could not enter the US and we had to cancel our plans for spending the summer together. 5/17 was the day I sent the K-1 package. I did it in 6 days...6 days of crying, stress, research, more crying, more research, discovering Visa Journey...lots more research, lots more crying after reading timelines, Igor's, etc. Then the sense of accomplishment turning to a sense of dread after reading all the things I might have screwed up. Ugh. Now I can sit back and smile that it's all behind us now.

Hope everyone is enjoying their lives TOGETHER with the one we waited for. Jordan is taking his driver's test today. He said his last step to becoming official. lol Hope he passes, he's only been driving for more than 35 years.

Things are going great for us, hope the same for everyone who supported me here!

awww Patty.. I was reflecting the other day too, seems like such a long time ago, now I'm sitting here in my 'hotel' room with my cat, in Tennessee waiting for my husband to get off work so we can go and sign the contract for our new house. so things are going great for us too...

[sk8rpatty 17]

awww Patty.. I was reflecting the other day too, seems like such a long time ago, now I'm sitting here in my 'hotel' room with my cat, in Tennessee waiting for my husband to get off work so we can go and sign the contract for our new house. so things are going great for us too...

WooHoo! Congrats on the new house!!

Sounds like the cat has been on quite a journey too! LOL

Happy Friday!

[Pinkrlion 2,719]

Hey guys,

I was thinking about one year ago also. Wow! We are doing great. AOS sent, in the group of waiting, but it is no problem cause we are together.

[Kassil&Tierce 18]

Yeah, we've made it, and we're on the slow road to AoS now. Wish things had turned out better for you, Brock - best of luck finding yourself a happy future.